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I am 41 years old and an NRI. I would like to know which is a better mutual fund to invest in; I can invest upto 25k per month.

Ans: Below funds can be considered,Rs. 5000 each

  1. Axis ESG Equity Fund – Growth
  2. Motilal Focused 25 Fund – Growth
  3. ICICI Pru US Bluechip Equity Fund – Growth
  4. UTI Flexi Cap fund – Growth
  5. DSP Quant Fund  - Growth
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Ans: It's impressive that you're thinking about investing at such a young age. Here's a suggestion for your monthly investment in mutual funds:
• Diversified Equity Funds: Since you have a long investment horizon of at least 20 years, you can consider investing a significant portion of your monthly amount in diversified equity funds. These funds invest across various sectors and market capitalizations, offering growth potential over the long term.
• Large Cap Funds: Allocate a portion of your investment to large-cap funds, which invest in well-established and financially stable companies. These funds provide stability to your portfolio while offering steady returns over time.
• Mid and Small Cap Funds: To capitalize on the growth potential of mid and small-cap companies, consider investing in mid and small-cap funds. These funds have the potential to deliver higher returns over the long term but come with higher volatility.
• Flexi Cap Funds: Flexi cap funds offer flexibility in asset allocation across market capitalizations based on market conditions. They can adapt to changing market dynamics and provide opportunities for capital appreciation.
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Mam i love a boy.. Who is 2 yr younger then me and... Now he is preparing for jE.. Post and... My parents worry about my marriage... I told him about this.... He is craying... So much... He love s me very much.... He don't tell about this relationship.....to his parents.. Because he dont have any.... Job..... What should i do mam.... Plz.... Tell me... Mamm plzzz
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Ans: A compassionate but firm boundary can make a difference here. For instance, you could gently explain to your mother, brother, and his wife that while you understand and empathize with their challenges, you’re finding it difficult to handle all the tension that arises from these discussions. You might let them know that, for the sake of your own mental health and family well-being, you need to step back from being involved in any discussions about their conflicts.

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My son is in grade 10th, he wants to prepare for neet but he went for counselling twice where he had given some test which gave him results to prefer engineering now he is confused if i will not be able to do fare in neet thn what should i opt for since hes planning to go for integrated? Ease help
Ans: Hello.
To which tests your son appeared is not mentioned by you. I am assuming that he may be based to appear for either an IQ test or a DMIT Test. I would like to say that there is no need to 100% trust these tests. The results of these tests depend on the mindset of a student at that time. These tests are never 100% correct. Hence there is no need to worry about the results of these tests and what the counselor has told you.
Here are some key points on which you can work:
(1) Please ask his school teachers about his subject understanding.
(2) Please take an overall review of maths and science subjects from an understanding point of view only.
(3) Have an open talk with your son about his interest either in mathematics or biology.
(4) If possible, try to make an interaction with senior students who are preparing for JEE or NEET.
(5) Even though the coaching is now focussing either on PCM or PCB groups, it is advisable to take all 4 subjects PCMB in the 11th standard.
(6) Take a trial for at least 2 initial months in 11th standard for maths and biology subjects.
(7) Your son will automatically tell his interest in either engineering or medicine.
(8) Don't force your willingness on him to prepare for NEET.
(9) Based on the final decision, you may think of integrated courses.
(10) Your's sons interest matters more. If he is firm to go for NEET, then motivate him and keep the results of counselor tests aside.
Best of luck to your son for his bright future.

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