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Ramalingam Kalirajan  |10902 Answers  |Ask -

Mutual Funds, Financial Planning Expert - Answered on May 18, 2025

Ramalingam Kalirajan has over 23 years of experience in mutual funds and financial planning.
He has an MBA in finance from the University of Madras and is a certified financial planner.
He is the director and chief financial planner at Holistic Investment, a Chennai-based firm that offers financial planning and wealth management advice.... more
upadya Question by upadya on May 17, 2025
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Hi I am 40 years old who is earning 1.2 L per month income working in private sector. I am the only earner in my family. I have one kid who is in PP-2 (5 years old) and wife along with my mother. She is getting pension of 30 K per month. I have one Home Loan of 20L and personal loans of 5L. My sons school fees is 2L per annum. There are not much savings. I am investing in 50K in ICICI Gift Plan and 50K in Reliance Nippon. Started 1 year back. I would like to take suggestion setting up the plan for my child future and also for my retirement plan. I am also thinking of setting up a tea stall in near future. Please suggest

Ans: You are doing your best in a tough situation. Being the only earner, with family and loans, is not easy. You still invest Rs. 1 lakh monthly. That is a strong commitment. Let’s now structure a practical, balanced, and long-term plan. We’ll look at your current income, expenses, loans, and future goals.

You want a proper path for your child’s future and your own retirement. Also, starting a tea stall shows your drive to improve income. Let's plan it from all angles.

Income and Household Review

Your income is Rs. 1.2 lakh per month.

Mother gets pension of Rs. 30,000 per month.

So total household inflow is Rs. 1.5 lakh monthly.

That is a good income level for a four-member family.

Your child’s annual fee is Rs. 2 lakh. It needs monthly setting aside.

You have Rs. 25,000 monthly EMI (roughly) for Rs. 20 lakh home loan.

Rs. 8,000 to Rs. 10,000 likely EMI for Rs. 5 lakh personal loan.

You are investing Rs. 1 lakh monthly. That is very high in current situation.

You are left with little room for other goals or emergencies.

Loan Situation Needs Adjustment

Home loan is fine if EMI is under 30% of income.

You may be paying 25% to 27% of income towards home loan. Acceptable range.

Personal loan of Rs. 5 lakh is short-term pressure.

Interest rate is usually high for personal loan.

Target to close personal loan in next 12 to 18 months.

Till then, reduce monthly investments.

Personal loan closure gives mental peace.

Your Current Investments Need a Review

You invest Rs. 1 lakh monthly. That is almost 67% of salary.

ICICI Gift Plan and Reliance Nippon are likely insurance-based plans.

These are not suitable for wealth creation or child education.

Insurance-cum-investment plans give poor returns.

Their long lock-in and high charges reduce actual gain.

You started one year back. So, minimal lock-in completed.

Ask for surrender value of both policies.

If surrender value is close to premiums paid, consider exiting.

Redeploy funds into diversified mutual funds through MFD with CFP credentials.

Actively managed mutual funds are better suited.

Avoid direct plans. Regular funds with CFP/MFD give right advice.

Direct funds miss personal guidance. Mistakes can be costly.

Building Emergency Buffer is Priority

First, stop new investments till loan EMIs are reduced.

Build Rs. 2.5 lakh to Rs. 3 lakh emergency fund in savings account or liquid fund.

It covers 3 to 4 months of family expenses.

Emergency fund prevents panic in job loss or medical cases.

Use your wife's pension to partly build this buffer.

Avoid investing pension in insurance schemes.

That money must be liquid and easily available.

Child Education Planning

Your child is 5 years now.

College cost is expected to be high 12 to 15 years later.

SIP of Rs. 8,000 to Rs. 10,000 monthly in equity mutual fund is ideal.

Use regular fund route with help of MFD/CFP.

Do not use index funds. They lack fund manager flexibility.

Index funds mirror markets, not good during volatility.

Actively managed funds perform better in long run.

Goal-specific SIPs give better discipline.

Keep these funds separate from your retirement goal.

Retirement Planning Strategy

You are 40 years old now.

Retirement goal is only 18 to 20 years away.

It needs proper fund allocation early.

Pension from mother will not continue forever.

You should aim to build a corpus from age 40 to 58.

Rs. 8,000 to Rs. 12,000 monthly SIP is good for retirement start.

Begin this only after emergency fund and personal loan are settled.

Do not mix retirement planning with child education goal.

Each needs separate tracking and investment.

Setting Up the Tea Stall – Smart Way to Plan

You are thinking of extra income. That is a very good idea.

Tea stall business needs Rs. 1.5 to 2 lakh setup cost.

Don’t take loan for this new venture now.

Use small savings or wait till personal loan closes.

Test it on weekends before going full time.

If business gives Rs. 10,000 to Rs. 15,000 extra income, use it for savings.

Don’t stop current job until business is stable.

Make your wife also a part of the stall if she’s interested.

Extra income will reduce pressure on main salary.

Insurance – A Key Area to Check

You have dependent wife, kid, and elderly mother.

Must have term life insurance cover.

Ideal cover is 12 to 15 times your annual income.

Go for plain term plan only. Avoid ULIP or return plans.

Health insurance for full family is also very important.

Avoid depending only on employer cover.

Check if you have personal health insurance for family.

If not, take one immediately.

Tax Saving Can Be Done Smarter

Current investments in ICICI and Reliance might be tax-saving policies.

Better to use ELSS mutual funds through regular plan.

They give better post-tax returns.

They have 3-year lock-in only.

PPF can also be part of long-term planning for tax saving.

Don't focus only on tax saving. Think about wealth building.

Spending and Budget Control is Important

Track monthly spending habits.

Use a diary or mobile app to write all expenses.

Cut unnecessary spends by 10%.

Don’t use credit cards for non-essential expenses.

Save on luxury items or online shopping.

Focus on family needs and long-term benefits.

Your Action Plan – Step by Step

Stop investment in ICICI and Reliance plans after checking surrender value.

Focus on repaying personal loan in next 12 to 18 months.

Build Rs. 2.5 lakh emergency fund before new investments.

Start SIPs for child education and retirement after loan closure.

Use only regular mutual funds with MFD/CFP support.

Do not choose direct funds. Lack of guidance can cause loss.

Get term insurance and health insurance soon.

Start tea stall only after loan repayment and buffer in place.

Try it part time first to understand business ground.

Finally

You have taken a strong step by asking for help. That shows your vision and intent. Your income is good. But debt and investment mismatch is blocking growth. With right steps, you can create secure future for child and self.

Don’t wait for perfect time. Take small steps now. Review yearly with support of Certified Financial Planner.

Stay focused on planning. Not on shortcuts. This gives peace, growth, and confidence.

Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment
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Hi I am 40 years old who is earning 1.2 L per month income working in private sector. I am the only earner in my family. I have one kid who is in PP-2 (5 years old) and wife along with my mother. She is getting pension of 30 K per month. I have one Home Loan of 20L and personal loans of 5L. My sons school fees is 2L per annum. There are not much savings. I am investing in 50K in ICICI Gift Plan and 50K in Reliance Nippon per year. Started 1 year back. I would like to take suggestion setting up the plan for my child future and also for my retirement plan. I am also thinking of setting up a tea stall in near future. Please suggest
Ans: Total income of family is Rs 1.50 L per month as per given information. Assuming home loan and Personal Loan remaining period as 15 yrs & 5 Yrs with intt rate of 9% & 11% respectively. EMI comes to 20.29K & 10.9K per month. Considering school fee per month, proposed MF SIPs (Assuming annualised return of 13% in Aggressive Equity MF) of 22.96K & 9K per month for child higher education & Marriage at age 17 & 25 respectively. Child higher education is considered as Rs 75.50 Lacs after 12 Years (Current cost 30L with inflation of 8%pa). Whereas Marriage expenses are proposed as Rs 90 Lacs after 20 Years (current cost 20 L with inflation 8% p.a.). After per month contribution to ICICI Gift Plan & Nippon of Rs 8.3K per month, your remaining left over income is 61.5K per month. It is suggested to invest another MF SIP of Rs 20000 Per month for 18 Years in aggressive equity fund, if your risk profile permits so that you may accumulate over 1.58 cr at retirement at age 58 (Assuming rate of return of 13% annualised). Left over 41.5K per month may take care of monthly household expenses. In case your monthly household expenses are more then reduce SIP amount now but as your income rises, you may allocate more amount to monthly MF SIPs.

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Hi sir, Im 40 years old married, my wife is home maker, have son he his 9 years old studying in 4th class. my currently salary is 70k per month but job is not secure. My monthly exps is 20k. My investments are 1) MF monthy 5000: started newly 2) LIC monthy 2000: current value is 3lac 3) Term plan of 1 cr: monthly 2500 4) Health insurance: monthly 1500 5) Purchased land 8 years back now its worth of 25lac. Pls suggest how to plan for saving money for child education and my retirenment.
Ans: 1. Current Income and Risk Review
You are earning Rs?70,000 per month now.

Job security is uncertain. That is a risk.

Your monthly expenses are just Rs?20,000—very low.

This allows flexibility, even if income drops.

You have margin to save and invest more consistently.

Insight:
Keep some buffer for job loss. Emergency fund must be a priority.

2. Emergency Fund Setup
Maintain at least 6 months of living expenses plus buffer for job loss.

With Rs?20,000 monthly expenses, target Rs?1.5?lakh minimum.

Keep this in a liquid mutual fund, not in LIC or land.

This liquid buffer keeps you safe if job issues arise.

3. Review of Current Investments
3.1 Mutual Fund SIP (Rs?5,000)
This is a good start at age 40.

Continue and increase it gradually.

Spread across different equity categories.

3.2 LIC Investment (Rs?2,000/month, current value Rs?3?lakh)
LIC policies mix insurance and investment with low returns.

Unless this is a term insurance plan, it may not be efficient.

Check if around 10% of your annual income can shift from LIC to better options.

3.3 Term Insurance (Rs?2,500/month for Rs?1?cr)
You have a good term plan protecting your family financially.

Continue this for risk protection until retirement.

3.4 Health Insurance (Rs?1,500/month)
You have necessary health cover in place.

At your age, this is fine but may need increase when your son grows.

3.5 Land Purchase (worth Rs?25?lakh)
You hold a major asset already, which is good.

But land is illiquid and may not align with near-term planning.

Recognise this and keep it separate from goal investments.

4. Financial Goals Defined
You have two main upcoming goals:

Child’s Education – He is 9 now, likely needs funds at age 18 in 9 years.

Your Retirement – Suppose age 60, so in about 20 years.

We will build separate plans for each.

5. Child Education Planning (9-Year Goal)
5.1 Estimate Funding Needs
Typically, higher education in India costs Rs?15–30?lakh today.

Considering inflation, this may be Rs?30–50?lakh in 9 years.

Key is to save in growth-oriented but safe investments.

5.2 Asset Allocation for Education
Use a mix of hybrid and debt options:

Aggressive hybrid funds (60–75% equity, rest in debt)

Short/medium-duration debt funds

Equity downside risk reduces as the goal nears.

5.3 SIP Allocation Suggestion
Start with Rs?5,000 monthly in hybrid funds.

Add Rs?3,000 monthly in a short-duration debt fund.

This builds a moderate risk portfolio for your child’s education.

5.4 Step-Up Strategy
Increase this SIP annually as your income grows.

Even a small increase compounds over 9 years significantly.

6. Retirement Planning (20-Year Horizon)
6.1 Ideal Portfolio Mix
At 40, you still have 20 years horizon—good time for equity growth.

Suggested long-term mix:

Large-cap actively managed funds – for stability

Flexi/mid-cap actively managed funds – for growth

Small-cap or thematic funds – small exposure for higher potential

6.2 SI P Structure for Retirement
Continue and increase current SIP:

Add Rs?10,000 monthly into large-cap fund

Add Rs?10,000 monthly into flexi/mid-cap fund

Add Rs?5,000 monthly into small-cap/fund

Total retirement SIP = Rs?20,000–25,000/month

6.3 Why Actively Managed Funds?
Index funds are passive; they can’t shift during downturns.

Direct plans lack advisory and review.

Active regular funds let managers adapt to market cycles.

You also get periodic fund evaluation through Certified Financial Planner support.

7. Insurance Review
7.1 Term Insurance
Term cover is Rs?1?cr—this is adequate.

Retain till dependency period ends or you accumulate sufficient corpus.

7.2 Health Insurance Adjustment
With a 9-year-old child, consider a family floater plan.

Increase coverage to Rs?5–10?lakh.

Medical emergencies are unpredictable and costly.

7.3 Geographical Cover
If your son lives away for education, ensure policy covers all cities.

This will reduce stress in emergencies later.

8. Liquidity and Buffer Funds
Ensure a liquid fund of Rs?1.5–2?lakh separate from education SIPs.

This fund is for unexpected family emergencies.

Avoid using this for SIPs or goal needs.

9. Budget for SIP Enhancements
Your monthly income is Rs?70,000.

Monthly obligations:

SIP (current + new) Rs?5,000 (existing) + Rs?20,000 (retirement) + Rs?8,000 (child) = Rs?33,000

Insurance + LIC = Rs?6,000

Living expenses around Rs?20,000

Total monthly commitment = Rs?59,000

You still have Rs?11,000 buffer monthly.

Great scope to increase investments later.

10. Tax-Saving via ELSS
If you need 80C benefit:

Direct LIC contributions to ELSS if you surrender LIC savings plan

ELSS has 3-year lock-in and equity growth potential

Monthly ELSS SIP of Rs?4,000–5,000 helps tax planning

Keeps diversification in your overall equity portfolio

11. Reviewing LIC Savings Policy
Your LIC savings have Lock-In and poor returns.

If this policy is traditional, consider surrendering.

Redirect future premiums into better wealth building instruments.

Discuss redemption and savings shift with your CFP to balance efficiency and tax.

12. Land as Asset – Use Wisely
This Rs?25 lakh land is a capital asset.

Treat it as legacy or backup asset.

Avoid counting it for goal funding or early withdrawal.

Consider selling if it doesn’t serve your goals, at right time and value.

Focus on goal-directed liquid investments for your child and retirement.

13. Annual and Periodic Review
Review all investments yearly with your CFP advisor.

Check SIP performances, alignment with goals.

Rebalance fund allocation if any fund underperforms.

Track if education fund is on track.

Monitor retirement corpus, step-up SIPs accordingly.

14. Pre-Retirement (~10 Years Before Retirement)
From age ~50, start shifting some portfolio into hybrid funds.

Prioritize capital protection with moderate returns.

Begin planning systematic withdrawals or partial SWP.

This prevents high exposure to market volatility during nearing retirement.

15. Common Behavioural Pitfalls
Don’t stop SIPs during market falls—these are buying opportunities.

Avoid chasing high returns from new funds.

Avoid using insurance plans as investment.

Don’t rely on property or land for long-term goals.

Don’t invest lumpsum without goal planning.

16. Role of Certified Financial Planner
A CFP helps assess fund performance.

Guides asset allocation and review timelines.

Helps adjust insurance and tax strategies.

Helps prevent emotional mistakes in market dips.

Provides periodic rebalancing and step-up advice.

17. Achieving Rs?50 Lakh+ Corpus for Education
With Rs?8,000 monthly (education SIP) in hybrid + debt fund

Over 9 years with step-ups, you can match projected education costs.

Regular funds ensure adaptability across conditions.

18. Building Rs?1 Cr+ Retirement Corpus
With Rs?20,000 monthly SIP (large + flexi + small)

Over 20 years with 10–15% annual increases

Equity compounding should help reach Rs?1 crore and beyond.

19. Financial Security Beyond Money
Build skills and job agility to protect income.

Consider passive income or side training.

Prepare your son for future education and responsibility.

Keep life simple and stress-free.

20. Final Insights
You already have insurance and some investments.

Additional buffer ensures job or income risk is covered.

Education goal needs hybrid-debt SIP now.

Retirement needs equity SIP with step-up approach.

Consider shifting LIC into ELSS if needed.

Land is a family asset, not goal funding.

Reviews every 6–12 months ensure alignment.

Your disciplined habit and low spending are strong foundations.

A CFP anchor gives you periodic adjustment and confidence.

With consistent monthly execution, you can secure both education and retirement needs.

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Hello Sir. I am 38 year old and in my family wife and 1 son 4 year old. I have my own house. Currently my annual family income (business) is 15 lac (after tax) and my expenses is 10 lac. I am saving around 5 lac per annum. My total savings till now is around 80 lac in fd-od. I get around 18-20% annual return on this. 7-8 % from fd and 10-12 % from ipo, ofs, short term secured loan and other small opportunity. It works very well till now don't know how it's work in future. I have a small portion of land also around 8.33% my share in that. That belongs to extended family and don't know when that liquid. Current value my share (8.33) is 18-20 lac. I have a health insurance of 15 lac. Term insurance of 2 cr till age 60. Emergency fund 5 lac in fd. I have started 20000 pm sip 2 month back In 3 fund hdfc flexi cap, bandhan small cap, and icici balance advantage fund. I want to know more about financial planning for my son education and my retirement.
Ans: Your current financial discipline is impressive. You have a good foundation. You also seem open to learning and improving. That mindset is your biggest asset.

Let’s now assess your financial situation from all angles. Then build a solid path for your goals—retirement and your son’s education.

» Income, Expenses and Savings Discipline

– You have a steady post-tax income of Rs. 15 lakh yearly.
– Annual expenses are Rs. 10 lakh. So, Rs. 5 lakh is saved each year.
– That gives you a 33% savings ratio. This is good at your income level.
– Try to push savings towards 40% as income grows.

» Investment Analysis: Current Allocation

– Rs. 80 lakh corpus is primarily in FDs and opportunity-based investments.
– Returns of 18–20% so far show good risk-taking and timing ability.
– But IPOs, OFS, and loans are not reliable long-term strategies.
– You’ve started SIPs of Rs. 20,000/month. This is the right step.
– 3 funds include flexicap, smallcap, and balanced advantage. Good blend.
– Your emergency fund of Rs. 5 lakh in FD is ideal for your lifestyle.
– Term insurance of Rs. 2 crore till age 60 is strong coverage.
– Health cover of Rs. 15 lakh is also reasonable for now.

» Risks in Current Strategy: What Needs Attention

Overdependence on short-term, high-yield plays (IPOs/OFS) is risky.

These options can dry up in economic slowdowns or policy changes.

FDs offer low real returns after tax and inflation.

Equity allocation is still low despite your high risk capacity.

SIP started recently and corpus is still low in long-term funds.

Your opportunity-based gains can be irregular in future.

Current portfolio lacks long-term compounding focus.

» Recommended Asset Allocation Strategy

You are only 38. You can hold higher equity exposure for next 15 years.

Ideal equity exposure: 70% of your long-term investments.

Debt exposure: 30% including emergency fund and contingency reserves.

Reduce idle FD share gradually and move to long-term funds.

Start this shift slowly over next 12-18 months.

Your 20K SIP can grow to Rs. 40–50K over 3 years.

Increase SIP by 10% each year without fail.

» Fund Category Allocation Suggestion (Within Mutual Funds)

40% in flexicap and large & mid-cap fund types.

25% in aggressive hybrid or balanced advantage funds.

20% in midcap and smallcap mix.

15% in international or thematic funds only after core is strong.

Don’t exceed 1–2 smallcap funds. They are highly volatile.

Don’t hold more than 4–5 total funds. Keep it manageable.

» Why You Must Avoid Direct Mutual Funds

Direct funds may look cheaper but are not guided.

No expert reviews or asset rebalancing is included.

Wrong fund selection can hurt long-term goals.

Market timing and exit strategy may be missing.

Investing via regular plans through a MFD with CFP ensures active monitoring.

You get behavioural guidance to stay disciplined.

Many investors lose more by reacting than by choosing wrong funds.

» Why Index Funds Are Not Advisable for You

Index funds simply copy the market.

No scope to beat market even if opportunity exists.

In India, active funds still outperform across cycles.

No downside protection during crashes.

Active fund managers shift sector exposure tactically.

That helps reduce volatility and improve returns.

Index funds offer no such benefit.

» Son’s Education Goal Planning

Your son is 4 years old.

You have 13–14 years till college.

Ideal target corpus: Rs. 50–70 lakh or more.

This can be met with a step-up SIP of Rs. 20K/month now.

Increase SIP by 10–15% yearly.

Use combination of flexicap and large & midcap funds.

Avoid using this goal fund for other needs.

Don’t mix this with your own retirement savings.

» Retirement Planning Strategy

You are 38 now. Let’s assume retirement at 60.

That gives 22 years of accumulation.

Try to build Rs. 3–5 crore in today’s value.

Actual target should be inflation-adjusted based on lifestyle.

Begin with Rs. 20K–25K SIP for this goal.

Increase SIP by 10–15% each year.

Add surplus from opportunity gains to this corpus.

In the final 5 years before retirement, reduce equity risk.

Use aggressive hybrid funds or dynamic asset funds in later stage.

» Insurance and Contingency Preparedness

Rs. 15 lakh health insurance is decent now.

After age 45, review this for a top-up of Rs. 20–25 lakh.

Term cover of Rs. 2 crore till 60 is fine for now.

At age 50, reduce cover if you have enough corpus.

Don’t mix insurance with investment.

If offered ULIP, endowment, or money-back policies, do not buy.

They block your cash flows and give poor returns.

Keep insurance purely for protection.

» Real Estate Inheritance: Don’t Depend on Timeline

Your land share is small and non-liquid.

Avoid planning any goal based on this.

These assets are uncertain and take years to unlock.

Keep this as passive or windfall wealth.

Don’t count it towards core goal funding.

» Taxation Perspective of Investments

Mutual funds offer better post-tax returns than FDs.

Equity mutual fund LTCG above Rs. 1.25 lakh is taxed at 12.5%.

STCG in equity is taxed at 20%.

Debt fund gains are taxed as per your slab.

FDs are fully taxable every year.

Shifting from FD to MF improves tax efficiency over long term.

» Structuring SIPs with Goal Linkage

Have 2 separate SIP buckets: one for retirement, one for son’s education.

Tag each fund to a specific goal.

Review performance once every 6 months.

Do not redeem unless goal is near.

When goal is 2–3 years away, move to short-term funds.

Don’t use SIPs for short-term plans.

» Emergency Fund and Liquidity

Rs. 5 lakh in FD is a good emergency reserve.

Keep 3–6 months of expenses in FD or liquid fund.

Don’t mix this with opportunity-based investments.

Liquidity is more important than return here.

Review this amount every 2–3 years.

» Roadmap for Next 5 Years

Increase SIPs to Rs. 40K/month gradually.

Allocate all extra income towards long-term mutual funds.

Cut down on FDs. Retain only for emergency and near-term needs.

Continue opportunities investing only with 10–15% of savings.

Review your portfolio structure every year with a CFP-led MFD.

Don’t do frequent fund changes. Stay patient.

Keep family involved in basic financial discussions.

» Review Support from MFD with CFP Credential

Investing via regular plans with a certified planner gives accountability.

You get access to timely portfolio reviews and goal tracking.

Behavioural support helps during volatile market phases.

Most wealth is built through staying invested, not timing exits.

Direct plan investors often chase past returns and lose discipline.

A good MFD-CFP helps you stay goal-focused for years.

» Finally

– You are already on the right path.
– Now bring structure and long-term clarity.
– SIP discipline will create serious wealth over next 15 years.
– Opportunity investing can be continued but not over-relied upon.
– Don’t fall for market noise. Stick to goal-based investing.
– Increase SIPs consistently and review goals once a year.
– Your child’s future and your retirement will both be secure.

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Hello Reetika Mam, I am 48 year having privet Job. I have started investment from 2017, current value of investment is 82L and having monthly 50K SIP as below. My goal to have 2.5Cr corpus at the age of 58. Please advice... 1. Nippon India small cap -Growth Rs 5,000 2. Sundaram Mid Cap fund Regular plan-Growth Rs 5,000 3. ICICI Prudential Small Cap- Growth Rs 10,000 4. ICICI Prudential Large Cap fund-Growth Rs 5,000 5. ICICI Prudential Balanced Adv. fund-Growth Rs 5,000 6. DSP Small Cap fund Regular Growth Rs 5,000 7. Nippn India Pharma Fund- Growth Rs 5,000 8. SBI focused Fund Regular plan- Growth Rs 5,000 9. SBI Dynamic Asset Allocation Active FoF-Regular-Growth Rs 5,000
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You can easily achieve your goal of 2.5 crores after 10 years. Your current investment value of 82 lakhs alone can grow to 2.5 crores assuming CAGR of 12% and monthly 50k SIP will give additional 1.1 crores, making a total corpus of 3.6 crores at 58.

But I see a problem with your current allocation. The fund selection is more aligned towards small caps of different AMCs and very concentrated and overlapped portfolio.
You need to diversify it so as to secure your current investment while getting a decent CAGR of 12% over next 10 years.
Focus on changing your current funds to large caps and BAFs and flexicaps and avoid sectoral funds.

You can also work with an advisor to get detailed analysis of your portfolio.
Hence you should consult a professional Certified Financial Planner - a CFP who can guide you with exact funds to invest in keeping in mind your age, requirements, financial goals and risk profile. A CFP periodically reviews your portfolio and suggest any amendments to be made, if required.

Let me know if you need more help.

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Financial Planner, MF and Insurance Expert - Answered on Dec 18, 2025

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Hi, I am 32 years old, married, and have a 4-year-old daughter. My monthly take-home salary is 55,000 rupees, and my wife's salary is 31,000 rupees, making our total income 86,000 rupees. I am currently in a lot of debt. Our total EMIs amount to 99,910 rupees (total loans with an average interest rate of 12.5%), and even with my father covering most of the monthly expenses, I still spend about 10,000 rupees. This leaves me with a shortage of approximately 25,000 rupees (debt) every month. My total debt across various banks is 36,50,000 rupees, and I also have a gold loan of 14 lakhs. I cannot change the EMI or loan tenure for another year. I also have a 2 lakh rupee loan from private lenders at an 18% interest rate. My total debt is over 52 lakhs. Now, with gold and silver prices rising, I'm worried that I won't be able to buy them again. I have an opportunity to get a 2 lakh rupee loan at a 12% interest rate, and I'm thinking of using that money to buy gold and silver and then pledge them at the bank again. Half of my current gold loan is from a similar situation – I took a loan from private lenders, bought gold, and then took a gold loan from the bank to repay the private loan. Given my current situation and my family's circumstances, should I buy more gold or focus on repaying my debts? What should I do? The monthly interest on my loans is approximately 50,000 rupees, meaning 50,000 rupees of my salary goes towards interest every month. What should I do in this situation? I also have an SBI Jan Nivesh SIP of 2000 rupees per month for the last four months. I have no savings left. I am thinking of taking out term insurance and health insurance, but I am hesitating because I don't have the money. I am looking for some suggestions to get out of these debts.
Ans: Hi Surya,

You are in a very complicated situation. This whole debt trapped needs to be worked on very judiciously. Let us go through all the aspects in detail.

1. Your total monthly household salary - 86000; monthly expense - 10000 contribution as of now; monthly EMI - approx. 1 lakhs.
2. Current loans - 36.5 lakhs from various banks at 12.5%; Gold Loan - 14 lakhs; private lenders - 2 lakhs at 18% >> totalling to 52 lakhs.
3. 50k interest per month payable - implies capital payment is very less leading to more problem.

- Keen on buying gold with loan. This is where more problem will began. Avoid buying gold using loan.
- Your focus should be on reducing your debt instead of increasing it.

Strategy to follow:
1. Close the loan with higher interest rate - 2 lakh personal lender. This will reduce your EMI and give you more potential to prepay other loans.
2. Try and take financial help from your family in prepaying small loans from banks. This can reduce your burden.
3. If you have any unused assets, can sell them to pay off your loans.

Points to NOTE:
> Avoid taking any more loans.
> When your EMI burden reduces, do make an emergency fund of 2-3 lakhs for yourself for any uncetain situation.
> Make sure to have a health insurance for yourself and family.
> Can stop your investments for now. They are of no use if your EMIs are more than your income. Can start investing once your EMI's reduce atleast by 20-30% for you.

Let me know if you need more help.

Best Regards,
Reetika Sharma, Certified Financial Planner
https://www.instagram.com/cfpreetika/

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Financial Planner, MF and Insurance Expert - Answered on Dec 18, 2025

Money
Hello Sir ; I am 55 years old & have decided to retire by end of 2025 . My wife is in teaching profession , earns appx. 3.5 L / annum & will continue her service till 2037( @60 yrs. of age ) . My only child is an intellectually disabled person ( with Autism ) , 14 years of age & will be incapable to earn . As on date , I have 60 L in MF , going to sell a property by end of this year @ 41 L ( it is fixed ) , appx 5L in Bank & postal FD . My wife have 45L in MF as on date & 3 fully paid premium ULIP policy which will be matured by 2030. She can get appx. 25 L from there . This is by and large my family financial status . Now , my queries to you that with this corpus , how we manage our ( myself & wife’s ) livelihood & most important that to manage a continuous cash flow for my disabled child till his age 65 i.e. 50 years from now . Primarily , I have thought of SWP & MIS schemes to get regular income for th retirement . My present family expense is appx. 1L per month . Therefore , I do seek your expert advice in this regards . I will be highly obliged if you kindly address to my query . thanking you , with best regards ; Suprabhat Jatty.
Ans: Hi Suprabhat,

Let us analyse all things in detail - one at a time.
1. 5L in Bank and FD - this is your emergency fund. But if there is a lock-in on the postal FD, you need atleast 5 lakhs in bank FD as your emergency fund.
2. Health Insurance - it is the prime requirement for you and your family. You should have one covering you, your spouse as well as your kid. It will help you in uncertain health conditions of youself and family.
3. ULIP Policy - Usually policies like such are not beneficial. But these are all paid-up, good point here. Whenever you get this, try to invest it in equity and hybrid mutual funds.
4. You will get 41 lakhs from property selling. Invest the entire amount in mutual funds, a mix of equity and debt funds.
5. Cumulative MF portfolio = 1.05 crores. As the entire corpus is huge, take the advice of a proper advisor on managing your overall investments and portfolio. A guided investment always generates better result than a random portfolio.

Your annual needs - 12 lakhs; Wife will earn - 3.5 lakhs till 2037. You need additional 8.5 lakhs per year to manage your expenses.
- You can initiate a SWP from your overall savings after allocating it in correct funds with the help of advisor.
- You need to have a dedicated corpus for your son's need in your absence. Atleast 50-70 lakhs should be kept solely for your son.
- The overall corpus seems insufficient to meet your requirements for now. You can either postpone your retirement and create an additional savings corpus for your future and son. Or you may consider to work on your monthly budget.

Do work with a professional advisor to guide you with exact funds to meet your desired goals.
Hence consult a professional Certified Financial Planner - a CFP who can guide you with exact funds to invest in keeping in mind your age, requirements, financial goals and risk profile. A CFP periodically reviews your portfolio and suggest any amendments to be made, if required.

Let me know if you need more help.

Best Regards,
Reetika Sharma, Certified Financial Planner
https://www.instagram.com/cfpreetika/

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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Dec 18, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Dec 17, 2025Hindi
Relationship
I am 43 years old married man, arranged marriage. Married for past 13 years with 4 kids (aged 2, 3, 10 and 13). I work abroad with good salary package and live with my family. My wife is MSc. and home maker. She teaches the kids and cooks and takes good care of kids. I am academic research scholar. From the start of our marriage, I noticed my wife does not open much and moderate religious person. I am also not very extrovert person. I work from 8 am to 5 pm in office which is walkable distance from my house. After coming from office, I help her in kichen daily, look after the kids, help kids in math, clean the house, put the yougest kid to sleep, then I get some 'me' time which happens only after 11:30 pm in the night. I dont use phone untill everybody is sleep or my kids dont allow me to use phone while i am playing with them. Now sometimes I feel we are just room mates with 1-2 times sex in a month. In terms of love with my wife, I initiate all the time, she never expresses love. I am not very possessive kind of person. She does not show any interest in my work and never ask me hows my day etc. She only smiles and rarely laught. I thought may be it will improve with time. There is no money issue, she buys what ever she likes. She has her own card and I provide extra money if she asks. I assumed may be she does not like me from the beginning but staying in marriage due to family pressure and kids. I am average looking person and dont accept everything what she says in terms of investment, holiday etc. I had accepted my fate. She started doing book writing and publishing online and now earning and keeping separate account, She is very excited about it and feels happy and shares with me the publication but not the earnings. I give suggestions and money what ever she asks for marketting and promotion etc. I am happy for her. Recently I came across an email in her phone which was from her ex. There was a long deleted chat, in summary they were madly in love but could not get married, i dont know the reason or even she never spoke about him. they kept chatting even after our marriage. Her ex got married and divorsed with one grownup kid. He is single and work abroad in a different country with good salary package (may be better than mine). She emailed him after long time I guess but now she is secretly chatting with him very often. she keeps her phone locked and deletes the chats. He is also interested and asking her to leave and marry him. She is not saying yes to him but regrets that she married me. At this point I dont know if I should talk to her regarding this but she will definitely be upset to know i checked her phone. Few years back we had a major fight (that time i didnot know about her ex), i had proposed for divorse and settle it mutually if she is not happy with me but she denied and stayed. I dont know what I should do to make her happy. we both are from very respected family in the society and I dont know if her parents knew about her affair. Even though she is chatting with him but she behaves very normal with me, no fight no argument, as if nothing is happening. I dont know whats in her mind, is she just casually chatting with him or buying time, waiting for the right moment to leave? Shall I file for divorse or accept my fate as room mates. Am I worrying too much?
Ans: First, let me say this clearly: you are not worrying “too much.” Your concerns are valid. When emotional connection, affection, and curiosity about each other’s inner worlds are absent for years, and when secrecy enters the relationship, it naturally shakes trust. The fact that she is emotionally engaging with a past love, hiding communication, and expressing regret about marrying you — even if not directly to your face — is not a small or harmless thing. It doesn’t automatically mean she will leave, but it does mean there is unresolved emotional business that cannot be ignored.
At the same time, it’s important not to jump straight to extremes like divorce or silent resignation. Right now, the most important thing is clarity — for you and for her. Living as silent roommates while carrying this knowledge will slowly erode your self-worth and peace of mind. You deserve honesty, and your marriage deserves a chance to be examined truthfully, not just maintained for appearances, family reputation, or routine.
If you choose to speak to her, the way you approach it will matter far more than the fact that you looked at her phone. Try not to lead with accusation or surveillance. Lead with your emotional reality. You can say something like: you’ve been feeling emotionally distant for a long time, you feel you’re always the one initiating closeness, and recently you’ve felt even more unsettled and insecure about where you stand in her life. You don’t need to reveal every detail of what you saw immediately; the goal is to open a conversation about emotional honesty, not to trap her in a confession.
Pay close attention to how she responds. Not defensiveness alone, but whether she shows willingness to reflect, to talk about her inner world, and to consider rebuilding emotional intimacy with you. A marriage can sometimes be repaired even after emotional betrayal — but only if both partners are willing to be transparent and actively work on reconnecting. If she avoids the conversation, minimizes your feelings, or continues secrecy, then you will have important information about where the marriage truly stands.
It’s also worth acknowledging something gently but honestly: your wife may have spent years emotionally closed not because of you alone, but because she never fully processed the loss of that earlier relationship. Her recent independence and success may have stirred unresolved emotions and old longings. That explains her behavior, but it does not justify secrecy or emotional infidelity. Understanding this can help you speak with compassion without sacrificing your boundaries.
Before making any legal decisions, I strongly encourage you to consider couples counseling, ideally with someone experienced in long-term marriages and emotional affairs. A neutral space can help both of you speak truths that feel too risky at home. It will also help you understand whether she wants to stay and rebuild, or whether she is emotionally preparing to leave.
As for “accepting your fate,” I want to be very clear: accepting a life where you feel invisible, undesired, and emotionally alone is not a virtue. It is a slow form of self-erasure. Your children benefit most not from parents who silently endure, but from adults who model honesty, self-respect, and emotional responsibility.
You don’t have to decide everything right now. But you do need to stop carrying this alone. The next step is not divorce or resignation — it’s an honest, calm, courageous conversation focused on emotional truth. From there, the path forward will become clearer, even if it’s difficult.

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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Dec 18, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Dec 16, 2025Hindi
Relationship
My husband doesn't lock the door when we have s**. This was the main reason for his ex-wife to divorce him. His parents feel that it is safer to keep the door unlocked in case of emergencies. But honestly,I feel awkward. I am not comfortable. Once his sister casually walked in to pick up some stuff, ignoring us on the bed. I was clothed but it still made me feel uncomfortable. We don't have a private bedroom but we use the bed at night. There are two shared wardrobes in the room which people need to access. I have explained this to my husband but he says I need to learn to adjust and work around it. Even if the door is closed, I always fear that someone might just walk in. What to do?
Ans: This is not a small preference issue. This is about personal boundaries and bodily autonomy. Even if nothing “bad” has happened, the fear of being walked in on is enough to make your body stay tense. That anxiety alone can affect your sense of dignity, desire, and emotional security. The fact that his ex-wife divorced him over the same issue tells you that this pattern is longstanding and not something you are imagining.
Your husband and his parents may frame this as “safety” or “emergency access,” but that argument does not hold when weighed against your right to privacy. Emergencies are rare; violations of comfort are happening now. A locked door during intimacy does not mean negligence—it means respect. Many families manage emergencies with simple alternatives like knocking, calling out, or keeping keys for true emergencies. What’s happening instead is that your need for privacy is being minimized, and you are being asked to suppress discomfort for the convenience of others.
The incident with his sister casually entering is especially important. Even though you were clothed, your body registered that as a boundary breach. The fact that it was brushed off is likely reinforcing your fear that this could happen again. Over time, this can quietly erode trust and sexual comfort—not because you’re “overthinking,” but because your nervous system is constantly on alert.
You need to shift the conversation with your husband away from “adjustment” and toward non-negotiable boundaries. This isn’t about arguing logic; it’s about stating a clear emotional and physical limit. You might say something like:
“I cannot feel safe or comfortable being intimate without privacy. This isn’t something I can adjust to. If intimacy continues without a locked door, I will start avoiding it—not out of punishment, but because my body feels unsafe.”
That’s not a threat. That’s honesty.
If the room layout is genuinely impractical, then the solution is not for you to tolerate discomfort, but for the household to change logistics—restricted access at night, fixed timings, or creating a private space. Privacy is a shared responsibility, not a burden placed on one person to endure.
If your husband continues to dismiss this after you clearly express it, that’s a deeper issue than doors. It signals a lack of attunement to your emotional safety, and that deserves serious attention—possibly with a counselor, especially given that this issue has already broken a marriage before.
You are not asking for something unreasonable. You are asking for respect.

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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Dec 18, 2025

Relationship
Mam, I know some ways by which i can change my state of mind from lazy to working.. and having pressure/deadline helps to move on. But still I'm get trapped in guilt of actions and don't feel confident that next time i will be able to control myself..( cuz some actions give short pleasure/gratification easily.. but guilts also). And in all those silent, sad, depressed emotional time my Real working time gets wasted.. and feels like I just live in more guilt and saddness..even if it hurts. But don't wanna live like that!! What I do?
Ans: Dear Work,
Focus in any area of Life comes only when you realize WHY you are doing WHAT you are doing in that area.
For eg: If you decide to lose weight and just randomly join the gym without understanding WHY you are in the gym, a few days later, you will drop out. Mind you, that LOSING WEIGHT is not your reason; WHY do you want to lose that weight is the only thing that will keep you focused and motivated.
Hence, if you are giving into short term distractions, then obviously whatever it is that you are doing is not interesting you and so you get easily distracted.
Take one area of your life at a time; drop your goals in paper and mark a strong WHY against each. If it isn't motivating you enough, go back to the Drawing Board and do the exercise until you find that fire in your belly.

All the best!
Anu Krishna
Mind Coach|NLP Trainer|Author
Drop in: www.unfear.io
Reach me: Facebook: anukrish07/ AND LinkedIn: anukrishna-joyofserving/

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