Sir.
Iam a single mother aged 45 earning 1.3 lakhs take home.. iam having housing loan 18 lakhs.. no others debts. My monthly expenses are arround 50k. Iam have gold worth of 30 lacs. I own a house worth of 75 lacs where iam paying HL. Iam having a plot worth of 10 lacs. My husband a property of agri land of arround 25 lacs.. however he a lot of debts.. so that's of no use... Financially we are seperate now.. i have 2 kids... One in college and 1 in school i have a important question.. I would like sell some gold and save the balance from my salary and close the housing loan.. or I need to invest.. i have a no knowledge in investments and actually I want to invest in sip... Iam totally not comfortable in HL... Pls advise.. thank you
Ans: Your life has many responsibilities now. You are managing everything on your own. Being a single mother with two kids and handling a home loan is not easy. Still, you are thinking wisely about money, and that is a big strength. That mindset will protect you and your children.
Your Present Financial Picture
Your age: 45
Take-home monthly income: Rs. 1.3 lakh
Monthly expenses: Rs. 50,000
Balance monthly surplus: Rs. 80,000
Housing loan outstanding: Rs. 18 lakh
No other loans
Assets you hold:
Gold worth Rs. 30 lakh
Own house (with loan) worth Rs. 75 lakh
A plot worth Rs. 10 lakh
Husband’s agri land: Rs. 25 lakh (not usable due to his debts)
Family situation:
You and your husband are financially separate
Two kids — one in college and one in school
You are not comfortable carrying housing loan
You want to start investing through SIP
First Step: Organising Goals and Priorities
Let us understand what you truly want right now:
You want to feel safe and stable
You want to remove debt stress
You want to secure your kids’ future
You want to start investment but with low risk
These are important and valid goals. You have done a good job in managing so far.
You also have strong assets — gold, house, and plot. That gives you good support.
Should You Close Housing Loan Now?
This is your main question.
You have Rs. 18 lakh loan and gold worth Rs. 30 lakh.
So, yes — you can close the loan by selling part of your gold.
But let’s understand both sides first.
Advantages of closing housing loan now:
Monthly EMI burden will stop
You will feel mentally free
You can redirect EMI amount into SIPs
You will own house fully in your name
No more bank control over your house papers
Disadvantages of closing housing loan fully:
You lose tax benefits under 80C and 24B
Gold value may grow in future
Selling gold now may fetch slightly lower rate
You may lose liquidity if full gold is sold
So, you need a balanced method, not extreme.
Recommended Action on Loan and Gold
Do this: Sell part of your gold, around Rs. 10–12 lakh.
Then, use this along with your savings over next 12 months to fully close loan.
Step-by-step plan:
Sell Rs. 10 lakh worth gold now
Use Rs. 60,000–70,000 monthly from salary for 12 months
You will save Rs. 7–8 lakh from income
Use both to close Rs. 18 lakh loan
Keep Rs. 20 lakh gold untouched as emergency backup
This way, you keep some liquidity too
Your mental comfort is very important. Loan-free life is peaceful. You will also avoid future interest costs.
After Loan Closure: What to Do With Savings
Once your loan is closed, you will have Rs. 80,000 every month as surplus.
Now, you must build long-term wealth and secure kids’ education.
Start investing through mutual fund SIPs. This is the best option for your stage.
Mutual funds help grow money over long term. You can start SIPs even with Rs. 5,000 per goal.
But avoid these mistakes:
Don’t invest in index funds — they just copy the market
Index funds don’t protect in falling markets
Use actively managed funds. They are better for growth
Don’t invest in direct funds yourself
Direct funds don’t come with guidance or advice
Choose regular plans through a Certified Financial Planner
You will get goal-based portfolio review, tracking, rebalancing
How to Allocate Your Monthly Savings
After loan closure, Rs. 80,000 monthly will be available.
Split this into 3 goals:
1. Children’s Education – Rs. 30,000/month
Start SIP in equity mutual funds through CFP
Use mix of diversified and hybrid funds
Target usage after 3–7 years
Review every year
2. Retirement Planning – Rs. 30,000/month
You are already 45
Retirement corpus must grow for 10–15 years
Use a good mix of active funds
Don’t withdraw in between
Don’t stop SIP even if income reduces
3. Emergency and Health – Rs. 20,000/month
Keep 6 months expenses in liquid mutual fund
It helps in job break or medical issues
This is not for investment, but for protection
Risk Protection Essentials
As a single parent, your family fully depends on you.
So, you need strong protection.
1. Life Insurance
Take term insurance of Rs. 50 lakh to Rs. 75 lakh
This is only for safety, not for saving
Premium will be low if you are healthy
Don’t buy LIC or ULIP policies
If you have such policies already, surrender them and reinvest in mutual funds
2. Health Insurance
Take family floater health cover of Rs. 10–15 lakh
Include yourself and your children
Don’t depend only on employer policy
A personal policy gives full safety
Tax Planning Advice
As your income is Rs. 1.3 lakh/month, your annual income is over Rs. 15 lakh.
So you are in a high tax slab.
Do the following to save tax:
Invest in ELSS mutual funds under 80C
Pay health insurance premiums for deduction under 80D
Use 24B deduction till your housing loan interest is paid
After loan is closed, focus fully on SIPs
When you start selling mutual funds, taxation applies:
For equity funds, long-term capital gain above Rs. 1.25 lakh is taxed at 12.5%
Short-term gain is taxed at 20%
For debt funds, gain is taxed as per your slab
Your CFP will help you plan redemptions smartly
Real Estate Note
You already have a house and a plot. That is enough.
Don’t buy more real estate. It won’t give monthly income.
It is not liquid. Hard to sell quickly.
Investing in mutual funds gives more flexibility and higher returns in long run.
Real estate also has high maintenance and legal risks.
Planning for Your Children’s Future
Your biggest goal is your children’s life.
Plan step by step.
Education corpus in next 3–7 years
Marriage corpus in next 10–15 years
Don’t mix these goals with retirement funds
Keep SIPs separate for each goal
Avoid gold or land investment for them
Use mutual funds with flexibility and growth
Take their names as nominees in all investments
Finally
You are already strong. You just need to organise and move forward.
Do not delay. Start small if needed. Stay consistent.
Your biggest asset is your mindset.
You are debt-aware, family focused, and open to learning.
Here is the full plan again:
Sell part of gold, close housing loan
Build emergency fund
Start SIPs through regular mutual funds via Certified Financial Planner
Take term insurance and health insurance
Create separate goals for education, retirement, and safety
Track and review every 6 months with expert
You will feel peace. Your children will have security. Your future will be confident.
You deserve that.
Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment