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General Physician - Answered on Jan 02, 2024

Dr Karthiyayini Mahadevan has been practising for 30 years.
She specialises in general medicine, child development and senior citizen care.
A graduate from Madurai Medical College, she has DNB training in paediatrics and a postgraduate degree in developmental neurology.
She has trained in Tai chi, eurythmy, Bothmer gymnastics, spacial dynamics and yoga.
She works with children with development difficulties at Sparrc Institute and is the head of wellness for senior citizens at Columbia Pacific Communities.... more
Lokesh Question by Lokesh on Dec 07, 2023Hindi
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Is that OK to have ear surgery done? I have had and even now also discharge in both my ears time to time since my childhood. I had got it checked and advised surgery as there are holes in both the ears which cannot be repaired without surgery. I have developed hearing issue also overtime and it is impacting my work life already. I am 49 years old and may years of working life pending, needless to mention the responsibilities. Please advise whether it is safe to go with ear surgery??

Ans: Technology has advanced so well that your surgery can be done so well with minimal hospitalisation .It is worth giving it a try ,considering the quality of hearing and thereby listening
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