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Paediatrician - Answered on Aug 22, 2023

Dr Deepa Suvarna is a practising paediatrician with 25 years of experience. She completed her MD in paediatrics from the TN Medical College and BYL Nair Hospital, MBBS from the King Edward Memorial Hospital and Seth Gordhandas Sunderdas Medical College and diploma in child health from the College of Physicians and Surgeons.... more
Asked by Anonymous - Aug 22, 2023Hindi
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Hi Ma'am I have a kid who is 4.5 years and my wife is a Home Maker. Post Covid unfortunately due to market challenges I have been focusing more towards work and less time for my family. This has been disturbing my family life which i am aware . My Son has been facing a few challenges like he is more addicted to mobile after working for over 12 hrs a day you are left with lesser energy to play with the kid. Also he has been in his own zone (world). Inspite of him being 4.5 years he does not respond on whatever we chat or we discuss with him he does not reply . Same challenges the teacher faces in school he does not respond to the teacher in school as well. He does maintain eye to eye contact he also understands what we say but fails to reply back? Don't know how to or whom to address this problem

Ans: This happens in children who develop mobile addiction. You need to consult a psychologist
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the most fantastic thing of having grown-up children is the world that they can show. Their world is the same as yours, just a different lens. Young adults when guilty shy away/keep to themselves/ or talk in few words. to bridge the conversations my suggestion is talking on neutral grounds. Both you and your child are viewing the world with different perspectives. A few questions that may start a conversation, on your next call, could be:
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6.Did I ever tell you about how I met your (mother)?
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Hello, I am 3 yr neet dropper.in 2025 it will be my third attempt... I'm trying my best to crack neet ...i don't know what will happen will i score good marks or not ... please help me in suggesting good career options if not crack neet .....there are many options through neet marks also like bhms , veterinary...etc. i will also give entrance exam also like cuet ,gbpuat ,....but i want that what to choose which course will be best for me ...i want to make my life good and happy... having a good degree, good job ,...
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