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Help! My wife hasn't had her period since October - Am I a father again?

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Asked by Anonymous - Nov 21, 2024Hindi

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Sir/Ma'am, my wife aged 36 years old suffering from constipation as well as TSH 9.7. we are blessed with two children girl 12 yrs and 6 yrs old boy. She is undergoing treatment under a good Consultant Physician (Ex Resident AIIMS New Delhi) Dr Kamal Bandhu at Samastipur Bihar. She was treated for low Hb and Calcium by single dose Encicarb IV and medicine. Lal path lab report for Hb -9.5 and HB1ac -5.7, Vitamin B12- 135 and vitamin D- 45. Recently she missed the period after last period was on 18 Oct 24 but till now no period came. Urine pregnancy test was also carried out twice with the help of two different UPT strip and result was negative twice. We are not in physical contact since 19 Sep 24 due to job location. Kindly suggest in case she missed her period

Ans: History noted
Since she missed her periods, tsh higher side
Urine pregnancy test twice negative
I would advise
1) to get one usg pelvis done to rule out any cyst
2) hormonal test
Tsh , prolactin
Since TSH is high, advisable to start thyroid medications tab thyronorm to bring down the tsh level to within normal limits
If usg pelvis is normal
Can give withdrawal bleed in form of progesterone pills to get periods.
Keep a watch on further cycles
If still irregular, then to keep on cyclic oral contraceptive pills to regularize periods
To maintain menstrual diary
To control TSH LEVEL

Asked on - Nov 28, 2024 | Answered on Nov 30, 2024

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Thanks Doctor and your advice means a lot for my wife health. I will follow your advice and I will report you after diagnostic tests and med

Ans: Yeah, please if pregnancy test is negative
You please visit your gynec
She will advise you the blood hormonal test and usg pelvis if needed
If all good then, you will be given medicines to get your periods.

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I am 48 and my wife is 44. We have 2 kids.. She has having quite irregular periods and not at all interested in inter course. She says it’s natural. Please let me know is there any solution for her problem

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my wife is 53 year old have menopause (no Periods) since last 6 years , she have any chance of pregnancy

Ans: Menopause is the end of a woman's reproductive years and is marked by the cessation of menstrual periods for at least 12 months. During menopause, the ovaries stop producing estrogen and progesterone, and stop releasing eggs, making it impossible to conceive.
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I am 38 year old in IT, draws a little over 3L per month, married and 3 kids. First one in 5th standard, second in UKG and third is in play school. Wife working in IT as well drawing 2L per month. We have Two houses - one individual house estimated value (1.5 CR) with 18L loan pending paid by me (26.5k per month EMI) and other apartment nearing completion estimated value (1CR) with 50L loan pending paid by my wife (47k per month EMI). As far as other savings are concerned I have around 50L in MFs and my wife has 20L. I have 5L in stocks, 5L in FDs and 5L in other markets. My PF value is around 25L. My wife PF and Gratuity together around 20L. We have Vehicles estimated to give 10L. Currently living in a metro city for our work with expenses upto 2L per month including loans, kids education, rent etc Please tell us what more needed for us to retire and move to less expensive tier 2 place where living expenses can be between 50k - 1l name month.

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Age: 38 years

Monthly Income: Rs. 5 lakh (combined)

Monthly Expenses: Rs. 2 lakh (including EMIs)

Assets:

Mutual Funds: Rs. 70 lakh

Stocks: Rs. 5 lakh

Fixed Deposits: Rs. 5 lakh

Other Investments: Rs. 5 lakh

Provident Fund: Rs. 45 lakh (combined)

Vehicles: Rs. 10 lakh

Liabilities:

Home Loan 1: Rs. 18 lakh (EMI: Rs. 26,500)

Home Loan 2: Rs. 50 lakh (EMI: Rs. 47,000)

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Target Monthly Expenses Post-Retirement: Rs. 1 lakh

Expected Retirement Age: 50 years

Life Expectancy: 85 years

Inflation Rate: 6%

Expected Return on Investments Post-Retirement: 8%

Based on these assumptions, you would require a retirement corpus of approximately Rs. 6 crore to maintain your desired lifestyle in a tier-2 city.

Children's Education Planning
Child 1: Currently in 5th standard

Child 2: Currently in UKG

Child 3: Currently in play school

Assuming higher education costs of Rs. 25 lakh per child in today's terms and considering an education inflation rate of 10%, the future cost for each child could be significantly higher. Therefore, it's essential to start dedicated investments for each child's education.

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Increase Savings: Aim to save at least 40% of your combined monthly income.

Debt Reduction: Prioritize paying off high-interest debts to reduce financial burden.

Investment Strategy:

Continue investing in mutual funds with a focus on long-term growth.

Diversify your portfolio to include a mix of equity and debt instruments.

Emergency Fund: Maintain an emergency fund equivalent to 6 months of expenses.

Insurance:

Ensure adequate life insurance coverage for both you and your wife.

Obtain comprehensive health insurance for the entire family.

Final Insights
You're on a solid financial path with a strong income and investment base.

Focus on increasing your savings rate and reducing liabilities.

Plan systematically for your children's education expenses.

Regularly review and adjust your investment portfolio to align with your retirement goals.

Consider consulting a Certified Financial Planner to tailor a comprehensive financial plan for your family's needs.

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Hii sir muje aaose puchhna hai mere bete ne ssc kiboard ki exam fi hai aage ki padhai k bare me thoda confuse hai hambe dmit bhi karvaya ...to dmit k councelar ne hame science stram lene se mana kar diya hai aur engineering me bhi dalne se mana kiya hame use cse diploma me karvana chahte the lekin councelar ne commers aur arts me jane ki salah di hai dmit test par kitna trust karna chahiye kya kare

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