I am 48 and my wife is 44. We have 2 kids.. She has having quite irregular periods and not at all interested in inter course. She says it’s natural. Please let me know is there any solution for her problem
Ans: Dear Vinay,
yes, it's natural as she says. she's responding to the hormonal fluctuations related to menopause.
So, there is no solution to a problem, as there is no problem in the first place. It's just the natural progression of a woman through various stages of her life. Support her by understanding her and her emotions better.
And intercourse isn't the only way to connect. Intimacy can be non-sexual as well; cuddling, kissing, holding hands are forms of being close. This may take the pressure of the performance and it may lead to intercourse. But if you are simply going to obsess over it, neither of you are going to be ready and it will just drive a wall between the two of you. Instead focus on the beautiful things that you have shared so far and what you can build on from no on....a lot of support, care, love and understanding is the need of the hour...
All the best!