I cannot sleep till late night. Sometimes up to 4AM. There is plethora of thoughts running in my mind thru out the night. I admit that I over think. Over think about everything like my children health, there future, my health and future. Everything and anything keeps my brain active till late night.

Ans: With 54 marks in COMEDK (expected rank 36,001–43,000), admission to core branches like CSE/ECE in top colleges (RVCE, MSRIT, BMSCE) is unattainable, as their cutoffs typically close below 15,000 ranks. However, you can secure Mechanical, Civil, or Industrial Engineering in mid-tier private colleges like Dr. Ambedkar Institute of Technology (Mechanical), Srinivasa Institute of Technology (Civil), or East Point College of Engineering (Electrical), which accept ranks up to 40,000–50,000. These institutions, while lacking premium placements, provide decent infrastructure and regional industry connections. During counseling, prioritize lower-demand branches in colleges like New Horizon College or Maharaja Institute of Technology, and remain flexible with category upgrades if seats open in subsequent rounds. All the BEST for your Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Ans: Considering your situation, I recommend starting with a psychometric assessment to evaluate your innate strengths, interests, and aptitudes. This data-driven approach will help identify career paths aligned with your capabilities while reducing uncertainty in decision-making. Pairing these insights with guidance from a certified career counselor can further refine your options, empowering you to make informed, personalized choices. All the BEST for your Prosperous Future!

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Ans: Suresh Sir, Have Sathyabhama | Karunya | Hindustan | Sastra | SSN-If Fee is afforable for MQ Seat as back-up options. Regarding your question, please note, With a JEE Main OBC-NCL rank of 15,256 and CRL rank of 51,648, your son’s prospects for CSE in top NITs like Trichy (OBC cutoff: ~369) or Warangal (OBC cutoff: ~629) are unlikely, but he can secure CSE (AI) at IIITDM Kancheepuram (OBC cutoff: ~29,998) or CSE at newer IIITs like IIITDM Jabalpur (OBC cutoff: ~5,741–17,195) if seats remain in later counseling rounds. For reputable NITs, consider Mechanical Engineering at NIT Calicut (OBC cutoff: ~4,185) or Production Engineering at NIT Trichy (OBC cutoff: ~8,996), which offer strong institutional reputation and ~80–90% placement rates. Prioritize IIITDM Kancheepuram’s CSE (AI) during JoSAA counseling for tech-focused curriculum, and include NIT Trichy/Warangal’s non-CSE branches as alternatives balancing branch flexibility and institutional prestige. All the BEST for your Son's Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Ans: Singamala, With a VITEEE rank of 3,000, admission to VIT Chennai’s Structural Engineering (M.Tech) is feasible, as the cutoff for Category 1 in core civil branches typically extends beyond 15,000 ranks. However, placement opportunities for Structural Engineering at VIT Chennai are limited, with only 50–60% of M.Tech students securing core roles, as per student reviews. While the university’s overall placement rate exceeds 80% for tech branches, structural engineering graduates often transition to software roles or pursue higher studies due to fewer core-sector recruiters. The program’s curriculum aligns with industry standards, offering research and project opportunities, but aspirants targeting specialized structural engineering careers should prioritize institutes with stronger industry ties in civil domains. Opt for VIT Chennai if interdisciplinary flexibility and the VIT brand matter, but explore NITs/IITs for dedicated core placements. All the BEST for your Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Ans: Dear Anjali,
Kindly go to the cops; they will advise you accordingly!

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Ans: Dear Anonymous,
The virtual world is very exciting as it does not need any direct interactions with other humans and anyone can lose their way in this maze.
So, if you want her to be off gadgets, see that she is focused on sports or anything that will keep her active...as a family go on picnics, treks/hikes so that she realizes that being off the phone need not be boring and can be interesting as well..,
Having said that, she's at that age where her hormones can be all over the place, so talk to her more and listen to her more...she will possibly also talk to you about boys and learn from you on how to safely interact with them. Be open with your communication, you will see a change slowly!

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Ans: Dear Anonymous,
You surely are walking on a thin rope trying to balance both sides...it seems unfair, yes!
What I can suggest to you is: Find out what exactly is your mother-in-law's concern? What does she mean by 'lose their privacy'?
Usually, these statements are just reactionary to a much deeper concern. Try to address what bothers her; it could be as simple as your attention moving away from home and other responsibilities...she may possibly feel awkward being around your father...all these facts get masked under broad statements which to you may seem like excuses...so instead of playing this dance being the daughter and daughter-in-law, dig out more information, so that you can address concerns and not the reactions from them.

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Ans: With 83% in PCM from a state board, your son meets the 65–70% eligibility threshold for VIT’s Integrated M.Tech programs across campuses (Vellore/Chennai: 70%, AP/Bhopal: 65%), making him eligible for courses like CSE (Data Science) or Software Engineering. Category allocation (1–5) depends on merit-based 12th marks ranking, where higher PCM scores secure lower fee categories. While exact cutoffs fluctuate yearly, 83% typically falls within Category 2–3 (annual fees: ?1.59–1.92 lakh at Vellore), offering moderate fee concessions compared to Category 4–5. Prioritize VIT Vellore/Chennai for stronger academic infrastructure and placement networks, though admission certainty in these campuses requires higher PCM scores (≥85% for Category 1). If budget permits, Category 2–3 in AP/Bhopal provides balanced affordability and program quality, while maintaining backup options in emerging specializations. All the BEST for your Son's Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Ans: No, Every non-senior citizen taxpayer is required to disclose all the income (including income on which TDS is deducted) in its income tax return.