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Sandeep Question by Sandeep on Mar 10, 2021Hindi
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Hello Sir,
I am an account manager by profession.
I lost my job in September 2020 due to the lockdown and office politics.
In December, after lots of struggle, I found a job. I joined happily but the finance manager is harassing, taunting and misbehaving with me on a daily basis. He is not allowing me to meet the director directly.
Not finding any way out of this situation, I resigned from the job. They are refusing to clear my last dues for February 2021.
After that, I interviewed at lots of companies for the post of account manager and got selected in all the interviews. But they offered me a fresher’s salary of Rs 20,000.
I have work experience of 15 years and was drawing a salary of Rs 60,000.
I have become depressed as I have lots of expenses to fulfil on a monthly basis.
What should I do in this situation? How do I find the right job? Please advise.
Regards,
Sandeep Sharma

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Dear Sandeep.

My response would be very similar to the advice I gave another reader. I would recommend these specific steps.

1. Reach out to your managers and colleagues who you have worked in the past as references are still the best way to get a job.

2. Since you are from finance, you can also consider working as a freelancer as there are many opportunities for part-time gig workers.

3. Explore academics as a career option.

4. Connect with third party outsourcing companies that do accounting work for other companies.

5. Enhance your network through online channels like LinkedIn.

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Apply to family-friendly companies: Look for companies that have a reputation for being family-friendly. These companies may offer flexible work arrangements, such as telecommuting or part-time work.

Search for jobs with specific keywords: Use keywords such as “family-friendly,” “flexible hours,” or “work-life balance” when searching for jobs online. This can help you find jobs that are more likely to meet your requirements.

Consider freelancing: Freelancing can be a good option if you’re looking for more flexibility in your work schedule. You can work from home and choose the projects you want to work on.

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