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Vivek Question by Vivek on Jun 23, 2023Hindi
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Hello Mayank,my twin daughters in 10th,,which direction/subjects would be advisable for a promising future for them. Both are good in studies

Ans: Hi Vivek, It's great to hear that your twin daughters are doing well in their studies and that you're considering their future prospects. ​A​t this stage, it's important to learn about their interests, strengths, and goals.

​a) You can start by having open conversations with your daughters about their interests​: what subjects do they enjoy studying the most​, what activities or hobbies do they have outside of school​, and also understanding their passions can help guide their choices.​ Are they more inclined towards science, mathematics, literature, arts, or a combination? Leverage their ​academic strengths when deciding on subjects.

​b) Research the types of jobs that align with their interests​. It is important to note that many careers require specific educational paths, so understanding their potential career options ​at an early stage can help narrow down subject choices.​ Also, it is advised to research emerging industries and technologies that will likely play a significant role in the future. This could help guide their choices towards fields with promising job prospects.

​c) Science, Technology, Engineering, and Mathematics (STEM) fields are highly sought after and offer a wide range of opportunities. If your daughters have an aptitude for subjects like mathematics, physics, chemistry, and biology, they might consider careers in engineering, medicine, research, data science, or technology.​ Alternatively, if your daughters have a flair for creativity, languages, literature, or the arts, they might consider careers in fields like literature, journalism, languages, visual or performing arts, design, communication, and more. It's ​also possible to combine interests. For example, they could pursue careers in fields like medical illustration (combining biology and art), science communication (combining science and writing), or technology and art (such as graphic design for websites or games).

​d) Most importantly, encourage participation in extracurricular activities, as they can help develop important skills and interests. These activities can also shape their character and add depth to their college applications.​ Keep in mind that educational and career paths are not set in stone. Many people switch careers multiple times in their lives. What's important is that they develop a strong foundation of skills, critical thinking, and adaptability that will serve them well in any field.
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Hi sir, I am 40 yr old having work-expereince of 10 yrs behind me in ITes, customer support & service, banking and sales & marketing (product). My life till now can easily be converted into a bollywood biopic having its own twist & turns, roadblocks, struggles laughter, joy and sorrow. Change is the only constant in life and that exactly applies in my case. Although it has been a satisfactorily life till now given that I know myself and how I lead my life. Whenever I start to read something new I feel like going deep into it. I am also easily attracted to novel things & concepts. I usually get into procastination mode whenever I come across something entirely new and start to imagine myself trying it out in realilty.Why does this happens? Why can't I focus on one single thing at a time and see it to completion? I know in todays world generalists are looked down upon and it is an era of specialists, experts and professionals having good domain knowledge of their area of work. It is always better to be an expert than be a jack of all trades (which seems very filmy nowadays where a hero is expected to do everything on his own). Lately I have developed an avid interest in technology and i keep on reading various articles & books on IT and technology. I am also pursuing an online cyber security course from Great Learning Institute, Bangalore. I want to know am I going in the correct direction in life or is it something else I should do which ensures more satisfaction in life? Lately, I have become bit irriiated as well due to the above reasons as I tend to do multiple things at a time (multitasking). My parents are also fed up of me now. My mother keeps nagging me all day.I dont know how to really deal with her, as she always finds perfection in everything. That becomes too much at times. Does this happens in every household? Should I go out and travel to some place in order to temporarily escape from all this? Kindly suggest me some course of action. Pls answer. Thanks
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You will be distracted and keep trying new things until you actually figure out what you want for yourself in life.
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- What must you do NOW to actually get to where you want in life?

And to answer these questions, you first need to identify a strong, solid goal in life. Either you work with a mentor or your boss or a friend or an expert who can help you identify your goal and purpose. That might help you stay the course and actually streamline your thoughts, your job and your daily life.
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The reason to marry for you mainly has been companionship, a mother for your daughter...
And marriage is not a transaction BUT a meeting of minds...when there is no compatibility, there is no space for agreeing on the same things or wanting to make things work which is possibly what has happened with your 2nd and 3rd marriage.
If you want this marriage to work, there has to be an equal commitment by both of you, so, start by emotionally bonding first. Slowly build on this by making goals for the marriage and the future...your only goal can't be mother for your child...not all women are going to readily accept this and some may even falter along the way. Allow the lady and your daughter to bond together for sometime so they develop a unique relationship...
Understand that transactional relationships do not last; so, invest enough time in building trust in that companionship for it to become something meaningful

All the best!
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