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Leadership Coach, Corporate Trainer - Answered on Mar 16, 2023

Dr Radhakrishnan Pillai is the director of the Chanakya International Institute of Leadership Studies, University of Mumbai.
He holds a PhD in leadership from the University of Mumbai and has 25 years of industry and academic experience training and mentoring future leaders and PhD aspirants.
Dr Pillai is an expert on Chanakya's Arthashastra, an accomplished TEDx speaker and has written 17 books on Chanakya including the bestselling Corporate Chanakya.... more
Abi Question by Abi on Mar 02, 2023Hindi
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Hello. I am a 40 yrs old female tech professional based in NCR. I am currently earning 45L pa plus ESOPs. On the family front, I am a single parent of a 12-year-old. I had been competitive in the early years of my career but had to slow down due to marital issues. I want to re-energise my career such that in the next 10-12 years, I can hold a top leadership position in a renowned company, and by the time I retire, I can be a member of a few boards. How should I plan my career moves henceforth?

Ans: Dear Abi, Now that you are having enough experience in your professional life - to aim for a leadership role is the best way to plan your career ahead. For that here are few suggestions - 1. Start reading more leadership books / watch leadership videos. 2. Do a course on leadership from a good academic institution to get yourself future ready for leadership roles with required skills and techniques. 3. Have a senior mentor (ideally retired from your field). They will handhold /guide you in the process. Also if you aim to be a board member check how to become one from the institute of independent directors. They even certify you as a capable board member. Check the site https://iica.nic.in/cid_about.aspx Best wishes...
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Hi Anu Mam Im 27 yrs old ( married) and 10 yrs old daughter. Im seperated from my husband since 2 yrs due to several reasons like he is drinking and Totally addicted to it. And he is totally dependent and now today also roaming on the roads of some streets of hyd. I belongs to an orthdox family. Now the question is one backward caste man who is married age : 33 he is interested in me and proposed me to a marriage after knowing all my past and saying that he accepts my child too. And the thing is he said a lie to me at first that he is unmarried and even though i had a good impression on him about the way he behaves with me he even treat me in a very polite manner. He says he loves me even though i too had a good impression but the things are the castes and can we both settle down with a marriage can we be happy or he is only trying to convince me to get him a wife to care care of him or only for his parents, he always talks about his own sister and also the office colleagues calls them sister and get emotional about them those who left the office. And he cries a lot which i dont trust on him and the face i see him that was not an real cry that looks like an act which i dont like in him. May he is acting ? Or really loving me, ge cares alot i feel like he is over reacting
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