Software Engineering or Real Estate? My Daughter's Big Decision

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Prefer IT @ JIIT 128 for a better perspective.

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Prefer CS @ NIT Delhi over other options. The final choice will be yours.

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Chances appear to be slim. NIT Calicut is also a good choice. Stay positive, as many aspirants don't get admission to any NITs or IIITs.

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For the targeted goal, NIT Surat Mathematics provides a stronger pure-math foundation than BIT Mesra MNC, which is more focused on applied computing.

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Continuing KL is advisable for broader tech exposure compared to NFSU Dharwad. The final decision will be yours.

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Both are good options. Prefer EEE @ IIIT Nagpur. But is the distance is the main issue, then no harm with VIT Chennai.

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Prefer HKBK if possible.

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Ans: Dear Ashok.
First, don’t make major decisions in the middle of emotional chaos. Take time to process, and lean on a few trusted people — friends, relatives, or a counsellor — who can help you think clearly without being swayed by anger alone. Document everything you know about the affair and any incidents of intimidation or harassment from her or her family. This isn’t just for peace of mind — it’s also to protect you legally if things escalate.

From there, decide what matters most for your future — peace and separation, or an attempt to repair (though after seven years of betrayal, reconciliation is extremely rare unless both partners are deeply committed to rebuilding). If you choose separation, speak to a lawyer before making any moves, so you know your rights regarding property, finances, and reputation. Do not let threats or aggressive behaviour pressure you into unfair agreements.

Emotionally, you’ll need to grieve not just the relationship you thought you had, but also the vision of the life you believed you were building together. That grief will come in waves, but every step you take to reclaim control — over your home, your finances, your time — will strengthen you.

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Choose a calm moment to speak to them face-to-face, without arguments or interruptions. Share why you married him — talk about his qualities, how he treats you, and how you both plan to build a stable future together. Avoid making it sound like you’re challenging their authority; instead, present it as a life decision you made out of love and trust.

It may take time for them to come around, so don’t push them to meet him immediately. Let them adjust slowly — first by hearing about him more, then perhaps allowing a casual phone conversation, and eventually meeting in person. Meanwhile, make sure your husband also shows patience and respect toward your parents, even from a distance.

If tensions stay high, you might need a mediator — a trusted relative, family friend, or elder who can explain your side in a way they will listen to without anger. Acceptance might not be instant, but consistent respect, patience, and transparency will give you the best chance.