I completed BE civil engineering after that I started my business in Government and Private sector But after 7 year of business unable to get Successful so i started Exam Study For competitive exam for 4 year but here also i fail exam by 2 to 4 mark what can I do now shall I go to Private Job or continue study Not interested in doing business after seeing lot of failure in business

Ans: Oftentimes, attitude and mental makeup matter more than qualifications. It is important for you to first stabilise yourself in at least one key area of your life and improve your self-confidence and self- belief. A focus on improving your financial situation first may be a start

Ans: I can understand the peculiar situation that you are going through. My advice is to get over all the negativity and adopt positivity as a way of work and life. As a young man don't shy away from hard work, private jobs offer great challenges and rewards. Civil Engineering is the foundational engineering discipline and lends itself to use of new tools and technologies through use of of software to build structures using design elements that use newer materials to build infrastructure, homes, industrial townships that further sustainability. Look at acquiring project management skills and explore opportunities with optimism and passion.

Ans: it is easy natural for many of us to get disheartened but the success comes to those who keep trying optimistically at life as a glass half full. Civil Engineering is the foundational engineering discipline and lends itself to use of new tools and technologies through use of of software to build structures using design elements that use newer materials to build infrastructure, homes, industrial townships that further sustainability. Look that gaining software skills used in Civil Engg field to add value to your current job. Look at acquiring project management skills and explore opportunities with optimism and passion.

Ans: I have gone through the details of your Efforts, Failures, Depression & Your family’s Economic condition.

Based on the above factors, here are the suggestions for you:

1) Till your age bars, try to attempt other comparatively easier (than UPSC) Competitive Exams for Government Jobs & prepare daily for 2-3 hours before & after you come back from work.

2) But AVOID attempting those Competitive Exams which you have already done a number of times and failed. Lack of change in preparation strategies / change in Govt. Policy are the reasons for your subsequent failures.

3) Keeping in view your family’s economic condition & your AGE now, it is suggested to DEFINITELY go for any work, related to your domain, to support your family.

4) Try to upgrade your skills by joining short-term courses with any Institute, related to your domain (or) any other domain you are passionate over. However, make sure that the Institute you join provides JOB GUARANTEE after you complete the Course. Or you can join any ONLINE Courses which are much in demand in job-market.

5) If time does not permit for you to prepare for Competitive Exams & if you feel you are highly demotivated for Govt. Exams, it is advisable for you to fully FOCUS on your Career, related to Civil Engineering & gain good experience.

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