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CAT, XAT, CMAT, CET Expert - Answered on May 20, 2024

Patrick Dsouza is the founder of Patrick100.
Along with his wife, Rochelle, he trains students for competitive management entrance exams such as the Common Admission Test, the Xavier Aptitude Test, Common Management Admission Test and the Common Entrance Test.
They also train students for group discussions and interviews.
Patrick has scored in the 100 percentile six times in CAT. He achieved the first rank in XAT twice, in CET thrice and once in the Narsee Monjee Management Aptitude Test.
Apart from coaching students for MBA exams, Patrick and Rochelle have trained aspirants from the IIMs, the Jamnalal Bajaj Institute of Management Studies and the S P Jain Institute of Management Studies and Research for campus placements.
Patrick has been a panellist on the group discussion and panel interview rounds for some of the top management colleges in Mumbai.
He has graduated in mechanical engineering from the Motilal Nehru National Institute of Technology, Allahabad. He has completed his masters in management from the Jamnalal Bajaj Institute of Management Studies, Mumbai.... more
Abhishek Question by Abhishek on May 05, 2024Hindi
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I am 25 now and I had done my graduation in biology (bsc general). Currently working as a biology and chemistry teacher in a school and a coaching institute. want to run my own business in future but feel like I don't have suitable knowledge and most important network for my dream. I love to learn financial terms and knowledge regarding business. I am thinking to prepare for CAT exam , trying best to get IIM. please guide me, can I do this as my background is not so good like I didn't had any unique degree and knowledge?

Ans: Yes it is possible to get into IIMs if you are able to crack CAT. So start preparing for the entrance exams. If you diligently work and get a good percentile, you should be able to get into a good college.
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Hello Doctor, I’m in my late 20s, and lately, I’ve been feeling like something’s off with my body. My periods either show up way too early, sometimes not at all for months. And, I’ve been putting on weight even though I haven’t changed my diet or exercise routine. My skin has also turned into a battlefield with acne all over, which I never used to have before. My cousin, who’s around my age, just found out she has PCOS, and her mom (my aunt) went through something similar when she was younger. Now, I’m scared because I’ve been hearing all these horror stories about how it can affect fertility, and I’m not even married yet. What if it’s a family thing and I end up facing the same problems? My mom says, ‘Don’t worry, it’ll be fine,’ but I can’t stop thinking about it. Should I see a gynecologist, or is there another kind of doctor I should be visiting? What tests should I do to get to the bottom of this before it gets worse? Honestly, I’m feeling overwhelmed and just want to know what’s going on before it’s too late.
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Usg pelvis to rule out
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3) good adequate sleep 7 to 8 hours
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