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Dating Coach - Answered on Jun 01, 2023

Shalini Singh is the founder of andwemet, an online matchmaking service for urban Indians living in India and overseas. After graduating from college as a kindergarten teacher, Singh worked at various firms specialising in marketing strategy, digital marketing and public relations before finding her niche as an entrepreneur. In 2008, she founded Galvanise PR, an independent communications and public relations. In 2019, she launched andwemet.
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Asked by Anonymous - May 29, 2023Hindi

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I went on a bad date and I don't want to do it again. How can I thank the person and refuse politely without offending them?

Ans: Message the person - Thank them for their time and share that you do not wish either invests more time in getting to know for now and wish them the best.

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Hi how to break up without hurting the other person?

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- Care for their feeling when you break the news to them
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Break ups are never easy and if you are the one who is initiating the conversation on it, the onus of driving the conversation is on you. Expect (may not happen) that the other person will blame you as they will be in a space of hurt. So, empathy for them and respect for their reactions is what will help ease the situation and what follows.
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Asked by Anonymous - Jan 25, 2023Hindi

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Hi Ravi, I am single and active on multiple dating apps. However, I have never really had the courage to spend the night with a guy I have only met or known for a little while. I have noticed that a lot of boys move on after the first date if you act too tight. I am just being safe. How do I explain this without offending someone who may be genuine?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

First of all, that's good thinking on your part. The basics of being safe while dating online dictate you take mindful steps, and this is one of them. Now, coming to how you can convey your worries without offending, you don't owe anyone any explanation on why you choose not to spend the night with them. But, if you insist on explaining, you can tell the guy that you like him but would want to know him better and on a deeper level before taking the party somewhere private.

Guys who genuinely like you will never force you into doing something you are not comfortable with or even ask you to justify your choices. If he moves on because you act "too tight," or as I'd put it, act carefully and as you see fit, so let him; you deserve and will meet someone better than that. The number of dates you have been on does not decide anything; you do.

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Asked by Anonymous - Jul 11, 2023Hindi

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I am 21 and I want to go on a date with a cute girl I met on a dating app. I am nervous but excited and I don't want to goof up. What are some the best ways to start a conversation without making her uncomfortable? Also, what are the things I should absolutely avoid?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

Glad to hear you have found a date. I understand that you are feeling anxious and don't want anything to mess it up. Stick to the basics on the first date. For instance, ask her about her day, and dig a little to understand her family dynamics but don't be nosey. You can speak a little about your friends, and your likes and dislikes. First dates are all about getting to know each other. You can move to movies and music, hobbies, and maybe some career goals.

Among things to avoid, please avoid looking at your phone when you are with her. Also, don't order a burger if you don't want things to get messy. Do order it if that's what she wants. Don't come off too strong to her. Do not keep talking about your ex. And don't worry; it'll be fine. You will do good.

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