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Rajat Question by Rajat on May 23, 2023Hindi
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Dear Aruna, Just to brief we live in joint family and I lost my brother (suicidal) 4 months back he had few bad habits including steal the things. He left behind his wife and 2 sons ( 10 years and 6 years). Now my brother’s wife found herself incapable to take care of my nephews who is on wrong track, he stole lot of money and use it for his wish list .I and other family members sits with him no. Of times to make him understand that it’s bad habit and should stop this but still he is consistently stealing money from every corner of house and even some time kinds from home to sell outside. Due to my brother suicidal case we can not even think to force him above a limit..which we have already tried. Kindly suggest appropriate way to Handel him.

Ans: Dear Rajat,
I am truly sorry for your loss and may your family heal through this.
There is a reason why your nephew chooses to steal...Does he miss his father and doesn't know how to say it and is asking for attention by stealing? One would never know...

Right now, he is also in grief like the rest of you...but this behaviour cannot go unnoticed.
A lot of love and care for him to bounce back from this loss may help him get back on his feet.
But, if the stealing habit does not stop, kindly visit a child psychologist who might suggest simple behavioural therapies that can eliminate this from the source. This requires an in-person intervention...

All the best and kindly do not delay the further course of action!

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Ans: Hello Manish,
mental health issues can be complex, and professional guidance is crucial. Consult with mental health professionals to create a plan tailored to your family's specific situation. It's important to prioritize the safety and well-being of your family. If your brother's behavior becomes threatening or harmful, it may be necessary to maintain physical and emotional distance while encouraging him to seek help. Look for support groups or organizations that specialize in helping families dealing with mental health issues. They can provide guidance, resources, and a network of people who have faced similar challenges. Consider arranging a family intervention, facilitated by a mental health professional, where you can express your concerns about your brother's behavior and encourage him to seek help. It's important to approach this with empathy and understanding. while you mentioned that you don't want to go the legal route, in extreme cases, you may need to consider legal options like obtaining a court order for involuntary psychiatric evaluation. This should be considered as a last resort and only if your brother poses a serious threat to himself or others.
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Hi Kirtan, I am 55 Yrs. working in private company, with monthly income of 3.0 lacs. Current investments in SIP since 2018 are - (1)Aditya Birla Sun Life Frontline Equity Growth-4000/ month(2)HDFC Mid-Cap Opportunities Fund - Growth- 4000/ month (3)ICICI PRu Value discovery G - 4000/- (4)UTI Transportation & Logistics G- 4000/ month(5) From 2023 : 1)SBI Contra direct Plan Growth - 10000/month (2)Canara Rebeco small cap fund direct growth - 10000/month. Would like to achieve for retirement corpus of 2 crore- Kindly review my investments , and suggest if any modifications required. I have other investments in FD- 50 lac, can take risk for till retirement Raj
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It's commendable to see your proactive approach towards retirement planning. With a monthly income of 3.0 lacs and systematic investment plans (SIPs) since 2018, you've laid a foundation for your retirement corpus.

Let's review your current portfolio and provide some insights:

Equity Funds (SIPs since 2018):

Aditya Birla Sun Life Frontline Equity, HDFC Mid-Cap Opportunities, ICICI Pru Value Discovery, UTI Transportation & Logistics: These funds offer a diversified exposure across large-cap, mid-cap, and sector-specific themes. Ensure the funds align with your risk tolerance and investment horizon. Periodically review their performance and adjust if necessary.
New SIPs from 2023:

SBI Contra and Canara Robeco Small Cap Fund: SBI Contra focuses on undervalued stocks, and Canara Robeco Small Cap Fund aims for growth in small-cap companies. Given your existing SIPs, these funds could add a layer of diversification. However, small-cap funds tend to be more volatile; ensure they align with your risk appetite.
Fixed Deposits (FD):
Your FDs amounting to 50 lacs offer stability to your portfolio. While FDs provide security, the returns might not beat inflation over the long term. Consider gradually shifting a portion to equity mutual funds to potentially enhance returns, given your risk appetite.

Retirement Corpus:
To achieve a retirement corpus of 2 crore, ensure your investments are aligned with your retirement goals. Consider increasing SIP amounts periodically, taking advantage of compounding. Also, consider adding debt or balanced funds to reduce overall portfolio volatility as retirement approaches.

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Review & Rebalance: Periodically review your portfolio's performance and asset allocation. Rebalance if necessary to align with your retirement goals.
Diversification: Explore adding international funds or sector-specific funds to diversify further.
Tax Efficiency: Consider ELSS funds for tax-saving while aligning with retirement goals.
Given the complexities of retirement planning, consulting with a Certified Financial Planner can offer personalized guidance tailored to your retirement aspirations.

Your dedication to retirement planning is commendable, and with strategic planning, you're on the right path towards achieving your retirement goals.
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Hi, i am 52 years old, now i want to save some money for my daugters aged 27 and 20, i can save 25000 per month for 5 years, suggest me the good mutual funds, thanks
Ans: Dear Sir,

It's heartening to see your commitment to securing your daughters' futures. Saving for their milestones at this stage in life is a thoughtful gesture. With a monthly savings capacity of 25,000 INR for the next 5 years, let's craft a plan tailored to your goals.

Considering the time horizon and your daughters' ages, a balanced approach with a mix of equity and debt mutual funds could be beneficial. Here's a suggested allocation:

Equity Funds (60%): Equity funds have the potential to offer higher returns over the long term. Consider investing in well-established diversified equity funds or index funds that have a proven track record.
Debt Funds (30%): Debt funds can provide stability and reduce overall portfolio volatility. Opt for high-quality short to medium-term debt funds or hybrid funds that have a blend of equity and debt.
Liquid Funds (10%): For liquidity and ease of withdrawals, consider allocating a portion to liquid funds. They offer stability with the potential for slightly better returns than traditional savings accounts.
Some reputable mutual funds to consider across these categories are those with a consistent track record of performance, low expense ratios, and strong fund management.

Remember, while selecting funds is crucial, it's equally important to review and rebalance your portfolio periodically. Market conditions, economic factors, and personal circumstances may necessitate adjustments over time.

Given the intricacies of mutual fund selection and portfolio management, consulting with a Certified Financial Planner can provide personalized guidance aligned with your daughters' future needs.

Your dedication to their future is commendable, and with a well-structured plan, you're on the right path to achieving your savings goals.
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Dear Mr. Sunil Lala, I have been contributing 10,000 INR monthly to the Canara Robeco Emerging Equities Growth Fund for nearly seven years. Recently, I was advised that transferring investments from underperforming funds to better-performing ones is a wise strategy. Following this advice, I switched to the Canara Robeco Blue Chip Fund. However, I've noticed that the returns are not as expected. Should I consider switching back to the previous fund, or would it be more prudent to retain my position in the Blue Chip Fund? Please note, I am not currently enrolled in a SIP for the Blue Chip Fund
Ans: Dear Mr. Sunil Lala,

It's commendable that you've been consistent with your monthly contributions to the Canara Robeco Emerging Equities Growth Fund for nearly seven years. Making informed decisions based on performance advice is crucial, but it's equally important to understand the bigger picture.

Switching to a better-performing fund can indeed be a sound strategy, but it's essential to give investments time to perform and align with market cycles. Short-term performance fluctuations are common, and knee-jerk reactions may not always yield desired outcomes.

Considering your concerns about the returns from the Canara Robeco Blue Chip Fund, it's worth evaluating a few aspects:

Performance Analysis: Compare the historical performance of both funds over various market cycles to gauge their consistency.
Fund Objectives: Understand the investment objectives of both funds. Are they aligned with your risk tolerance and investment goals?
Exit Load and Tax Implications: Be aware of any exit loads or tax implications before making a switch.
If the Blue Chip Fund's performance doesn't align with your expectations, switching back to the previous fund could be an option. However, before making any decisions, consider consulting with a Certified Financial Planner to gain insights tailored to your financial situation.

Remember, investment decisions should be based on thorough research, understanding of fund objectives, and alignment with your financial goals. A well-informed choice will ensure your investments work effectively towards achieving your objectives.
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I am 44 yrs. of age. My corpus is approx. 3 cr with 1 cr in share market with SIP & 1 cr in banks FD & I cr in post office via KVP & other investment tools. I am doing monthly SIP of 30k in share market. . What way should I proceed so that I can get 2 lakh per month at age of 55 yrs.
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Given your current investments, let's consider some strategic steps:

Review Asset Allocation: With 1 cr in share market SIPs and another 2 cr in relatively low-yield options like FDs and KVPs, consider rebalancing to align with your income goals. A more growth-oriented allocation may be needed.
Increase Equity Exposure: To potentially boost returns, consider increasing your exposure to equities. Equity investments, especially in well-performing sectors or diversified funds, could offer higher growth potential over the long term.
Diversify Income Streams: Besides relying solely on investments, explore creating multiple income streams. Rental income, dividends from shares, or even starting a small business could supplement your monthly income.
Optimize Tax Efficiency: Ensure your investments are tax-efficient. Utilize tax-saving instruments and consider tax-free or low-tax income options to maximize your post-tax returns.
Regular Review: Periodically review your portfolio's performance and adjust your strategy as needed. Market conditions, economic trends, and personal circumstances can impact your financial plan.
Remember, achieving your goal requires a well-thought-out strategy and disciplined execution. Consulting with a Certified Financial Planner can provide personalized guidance tailored to your aspirations.

Your commitment to financial planning is the cornerstone of achieving your dreams. Let's embark on this journey together, ensuring a rewarding and secure future.
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Hello Sir, I have the following Mutual Funds Investments, request you to let me know if these can be continued with or need to discontinue any of them, also please let me know new good performing funds to invest in. One time investment: (1) ICICI/ India Opportunities Fund - Growth - ?2,50,000, (2) ICICI/ Value Discovery Fund - Growth - ?2,50,000, (3) ICICI / Transporation & Logistics Fund - Growth - ?2,00,000. SIP Monthly: (4) Axis Flexi Cap Fund - Regular Plan - ?5,000, (5) Canara Robeco Emerging Equities - Regular Plan - ?5,000, (6) Aditya Birla SL Focused Equity Fund(G) - â‚15,000, (7) HDFC Mid-Cap Opportunities Fund(G) - ?5,000, (8) ICICI Pru Bluechip Fund(G) - ?5,000, (9) Axis Small Cap Fund - Regular Plan - ?5,000, (10) ICICI Prudential Technology Fund - Growth - ?5,000, (11) L&T Midcap Fund - HSBC Midcap Fund - ?5,000, (12) ICIPRU Multi-Asset Fund - Growth - ?5,000, (13) ICIPRU Value Discovery Fund - Growth - ?5,000. Thank You.
Ans: Dear Sir,

Your proactive approach to investing is commendable, showcasing a diversified portfolio across various sectors and fund categories. Let's review and offer some insights.

The funds you've chosen cover a broad spectrum, from sector-specific to multi-cap and mid-cap funds. Each has its unique potential and risk profile.

However, have you considered the overlapping sectors or similar investment themes in your portfolio? Diversification is key, but too much overlap can dilute the benefits.

Moreover, while past performance offers insights, it's essential to monitor current performance and adapt to market trends. Are these funds still aligning with your investment goals and risk tolerance?

Regarding new investments, exploring funds with a consistent track record and aligning with evolving market trends could be beneficial. It might be worth considering funds that align with emerging sectors or thematic funds to diversify further.

Remember, a Certified Financial Planner can provide a holistic view of your portfolio, ensuring alignment with your goals and offering tailored recommendations.

Investing is a journey of continuous learning and adaptation. Let's make it rewarding and aligned with your aspirations.
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