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Dating, Relationships Expert - Answered on Jan 31, 2023

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Question by Prasanna on Jan 30, 2023Hindi

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Hi Ravi, do you think that all men/boys seek is only physical relationship when they befriend women/girls? And even when a relationship begins at an emotional level it ultimately ends up with men seeking to satisfy their lust and once their lust is satisfied the relationship too ends?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

It isn't true that all men and boys seek only physical relationships. I am sorry that you have had that experience, but please don't write off everyone based on them.

When an emotional relationship matures, there might be some expectations of being physically intimate; that's normal. It isn't necessary that soon as you get intimate with a guy, he'll be done with you. Physical intimacy can very well be another expression of love. At the same time, if you are uncomfortable with it, you don't have to go there. And no decent guy will ever force you.

Relationships don't end because you got physical too soon; they end because you fell for the wrong person.

Hope this helps.

Best wishes!

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Thank u for your reply . Actually, I am helping my friend on his work . I think your right I focusing mostly on girls. I have got three takeaways from your answers. 1) if cheating happens there was never loved , it was merely some momentarily satisfaction 2) compatibility matters, 3) there is no specific rule. So , can you please tell me what could be those things that satisfy short term and what is compatibility in relationship?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Thank you for responding.
Short-term satisfaction is something that does not build much but it is important to have those moments like coffee dates, short vacations/trips, joining a gym together...
Compatibility is defined by value systems match. This value system is found in every area of our life right from food choices to intimacy to money matters to children...
These things require a clear discussion before a couple decides to make it official, well ideally...when these matters are never discussed, it definitely gives rise to issues later on in the relationship/marriage. Relationships require a lot of work to keep it going and it takes the effort from both partners to have an almost great relationship.

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Asked by Anonymous - Feb 27, 2025Hindi

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I talked with a boy from November for marriage his parents came to my home then we started talking with each other every thing was going well we shared our thoughts values...then each passing day I get attracted towards him one day after 1 and a half month I found his changes in behaviour then I asked him he told he was same then one day he told me he is getting bored as I always talk about relationship he don't get anything friendly from mee..i asked him what is romance to him he told me philosophical thoughts discuss I was confused then ..days are passing then he send me some links of America's and has a debate ..with me always ..one day there was a misunderstanding and i told him what did he want he told me he don't get any friendly things from me and it will not work after 4 months i got very disturbed ...why did he do this to me he knows from the 1st how type of girl am I then why did he carried it 4 months. .after I got attracted towards him...it was very disturbed for me

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I am really sorry that this happened to you, but think about it this way- this happened now, but this could have happened after getting married. I know that it shouldn't have happened to begin with, but since it has already, it's better to look at it from a positive perspective. Why it happened is difficult to say. It is possible that he didn't really know the real you and was expecting you to be someone you are not. And once he realized the truth, he thought ending it now would be better for both of you. I am not sure why he did what he did, but I can tell you that there is no point in thinking about the "why" of the matter. Focus on moving on. I know you were getting attached but it's time to look forward and build a better future. Take some time off this matchmaking thing, and focus on yourself. And once you think you are ready, get back to it with a fresh and positive mind. I want you to understand that not everyone would turn out to be like him.

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