Um... Hello .. I'm currently a dropper student and had been in a relationship for 1.5 years.. I liked her first. But we broke up. Before breaking up, we had fight on a topic for about 1 week. She is studying in a coaching institute and I'm self studying because of distance problem. But I got to know that a boy was always looking at her and he used to get jealous if she talked to anyone. But she didn't react and when I asked , she said that she knew that he liked her but she didn't say anything to him because he didn't propose to her. But until recently, she doesn't have time to spare with me but she talked with that guy for 8-9 hours . Even on my birthday , I asked her to give me time but she couldn't and she would talk to that guy for 9 hours straight .I used to wait for her for 12 hours straight when she was in coaching, but after she returned I hardly could get 20 mins but she used to talk to him for 3-4 hours. When I asked her, she gave the same excuse that the boy didn't propose yet so she will continue talking to the boy. And , when I take too much stress, my body gets sick , like nosebleed and suffocation and all, but she now treats my behaviour as mental torture as I share my insecurity and my worsening body condition. But last day when I asked the boy, the boy said that the girl(my girlfriend )was responsible for all this And when I said that I contacted the boy. She broke up. I tried to get in contact with her in every way possible but was blocked from every where. And she said that I didn't deserve love or friendship because I was being insecure about her that friend. Can you please.. please tell me where did I do wrong? Or what should I do?

Hi Ravi, I am currently in relationship of almost 7 years but after the COVID there was some conflict or no contact with my partner just because of a scenario. I always used to order some food for her at his flat. Let me clear one things we were in a long term relationship that time. So I ordered food and she got the order then called me in the night with a different voice tone, I said yes then It felt odd. Then she said someone is here I will call you back. Then she didn't so I called her after 2 hour she rejected and after sometime messaged me on whatsapp that deleted everything our chats and conversation because she caught by his brother (who is 10 years older than her), she told me to not contact her she will call or message only. I got scared I deleted all chats because her brother is so rude and arrogant. After 10 days she called me and said we are not going further with this relationship now on we will not be in touch, I was devastated by listening these things so I tried my best to make her understand that I will talk to your parents or brother but she denied NO and said I will again talk with bro. After these scenario she tried not to contact me and I kept trying to reach out to her via messanger because she has blocked me from everywhere. I cried alot in first 2 month then I started to link all those things that she said and try to find out the matter ( note - she got lot of friends) so I found that she in her flat then I got the tickets and go there to see what is happening I waited for the whole day then in the evening I go upstairs and open the doors, she got scared h and stunned by seeing me and I saw a guy in the flat they having hookah then I said give me my stuff and ask her to talk for the final tine 10 min downstairs. She said not now then didn't came. I took my stuff nd leave the next day I tried to over come this situation nd reaching out to his bro but didn't get connected. She also called me the next day nd her frnd but I was not able to talk. After we got disconnected for sometime. And I am a person who always wanted to know the truth behind the things because I can't live with these traumas in my mind so I tried contacting her asked lot of time why did you do that nd all but kept denying that he is just a friend. After sometime on day she came with sone massages nd saying my mom is not good nd there is nothing going well in my house plss sorry nd all so I took it normally but after sometime we got attracted again little bit then realise that we can try atleast once to be together. I know she loves me but I don't like her priorities she always put his frnds over me. Idk what to do pls tell me the way to cop up with this thing. Also I still have in mind that she has something to tell me about that boy but not telling me.