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Shalini Singh is the founder of andwemet, an online matchmaking service for urban Indians living in India and overseas. After graduating from college as a kindergarten teacher, Singh worked at various firms specialising in marketing strategy, digital marketing and public relations before finding her niche as an entrepreneur. In 2008, she founded Galvanise PR, an independent communications and public relations. In 2019, she launched andwemet.
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Asked by Anonymous - May 15, 2024Hindi
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My girlfriend is ignoring me ...what should I do to get her attention back?

Ans: Few suggestions - Address the reason she is ignoring you for. Apologise if you have upset her and mean the apology. Give it time, allow her to calm down - wait for her to reach out.

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If gf have a problem how to fix
Ans: Dear Hruaia,

How to fix problem can be decided upon many factors like seriousness of problem, whom it is related to and how it is impacting. Without knowing much about problem I am sharing few general steps you can take.


Listen: When your girlfriend expresses a problem or concern, it's important to listen actively and attentively. Try to understand her perspective and avoid interrupting or dismissing her feelings.
Validate her feelings: Let your girlfriend know that you understand how she feels and that her emotions are important to you. Show empathy and offer support.
Offer solutions: Once you've listened and validated your girlfriend's feelings, offer solutions or suggestions to help resolve the problem. Brainstorm together and come up with a plan that works for both of you.
Communicate effectively: Effective communication is key to fixing problems in a relationship. Be honest and direct with your girlfriend, and avoid blame or defensiveness. Focus on finding a solution together.
Compromise: In any relationship, there will be times when you don't see eye-to-eye. Be willing to compromise and find a middle ground that works for both of you.
Take action: Once you've come up with a plan to fix the problem, take action and follow through. Show your girlfriend that you're committed to resolving the issue and that you're willing to work together to find a solution.
Remember, every relationship has its ups and downs, and it's normal to encounter problems along the way. By being a good listener, validating your girlfriend's feelings, communicating effectively, and taking action, you can work together to overcome any challenge that comes your way.

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Sir My Age is 38 Now. Running Business In Pune city. Below are the My Assets & Liabilities. Current Values - Assets. Own Industrial Plot - Rs. 2.0 Cr Business Income Yearly Rs. 24.00 Lack Own Company Investment ( Machinery, Debtors Etc ) - Rs 2.40 Cr Mutual Fund & Share Market Investment Rs. 2.10 Cr Bank FD - Rs. 50.00 Lack Own 3 Flats in Pune - Rs. 75 lack, 50 Lack & 35 Lack ( Current Values ) Golds - Rs. 25.00 Lack Land - Agriculture - Rs. 50.00 Lack Term Insurances - Rs. 20.00 Lack ( Till Date Premium Paid ) Labilities. House Loan - Rs. 30.00 Lack ( EMI 26500.00 PM ) Loan will close after 17 years. Car Loan - Rs. 6.35 lack ( EMI 12500.00 PM ) Loan will close after 5 years. This Assets & investment sufficient for maintain 7 family members Expenses after retirement ? ( 4 Adult + 3 Children (Below 5 Years) ). I will retire at the age of 45.
Ans: Hello;

What is the expected monthly rental from industrial plot and machinery?

Are you currently occupying one of the flats mentioned here or are all of them given on rent?

Also your term life insurance is very low. You should have minimum term insurance cover of 2.4 Cr.

You have good assets in agri land, industrial land, gold, real estate but they are relatively illiquid when need arises hence term insurance cover with riders for critical care and accident benefit are an absolute must!

Considering the home loan tenure of 17 years and 3 small kids in the family to be supported for education and decent lifestyle, I am not sure if you can retire in 7 years timeframe from now.

However I would appreciate your reply to my queries above, before I give my firm view about your retirement in 7 years timeframe.

Best wishes;

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I have around 1 crore to invest. I am 61 years old retired defence officer and pension amounting to around ?1,50,000/- per month and medically covered. Need some sound investment plan for 1 crore. Don't have any liabilities?
Ans: Hello;

You may invest your corpus into following two funds in proportion of 50:50,

1. Kotak Arbitrage fund (low risk)
You may consider modest return of 6% from this scheme.

2. ICICI Pru equity savings fund (low to moderate risk). You may consider modest return of 8% from this scheme.

Theses investments will retain purchasing power of your corpus aginst inflation and deliver some real returns too with low to moderate risk.

This is in accordance with your age and commensurate risk appetite.

Happy Investing;

*Investments in mutual funds are subject to market risks. Please read all scheme related documents carefully before investing.

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