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Dating Coach - Answered on May 16, 2024

Shalini Singh is the founder of andwemet, an online matchmaking service for urban Indians living in India and overseas. After graduating from college as a kindergarten teacher, Singh worked at various firms specialising in marketing strategy, digital marketing and public relations before finding her niche as an entrepreneur. In 2008, she founded Galvanise PR, an independent communications and public relations. In 2019, she launched andwemet.
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Asked by Anonymous - May 15, 2024Hindi
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My girlfriend is ignoring me ...what should I do to get her attention back?

Ans: Few suggestions - Address the reason she is ignoring you for. Apologise if you have upset her and mean the apology. Give it time, allow her to calm down - wait for her to reach out.

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If gf have a problem how to fix
Ans: Dear Hruaia,

How to fix problem can be decided upon many factors like seriousness of problem, whom it is related to and how it is impacting. Without knowing much about problem I am sharing few general steps you can take.


Listen: When your girlfriend expresses a problem or concern, it's important to listen actively and attentively. Try to understand her perspective and avoid interrupting or dismissing her feelings.
Validate her feelings: Let your girlfriend know that you understand how she feels and that her emotions are important to you. Show empathy and offer support.
Offer solutions: Once you've listened and validated your girlfriend's feelings, offer solutions or suggestions to help resolve the problem. Brainstorm together and come up with a plan that works for both of you.
Communicate effectively: Effective communication is key to fixing problems in a relationship. Be honest and direct with your girlfriend, and avoid blame or defensiveness. Focus on finding a solution together.
Compromise: In any relationship, there will be times when you don't see eye-to-eye. Be willing to compromise and find a middle ground that works for both of you.
Take action: Once you've come up with a plan to fix the problem, take action and follow through. Show your girlfriend that you're committed to resolving the issue and that you're willing to work together to find a solution.
Remember, every relationship has its ups and downs, and it's normal to encounter problems along the way. By being a good listener, validating your girlfriend's feelings, communicating effectively, and taking action, you can work together to overcome any challenge that comes your way.

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Radheshyam

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MHT-CET, IIT-JEE, NEET-UG Expert - Answered on Nov 21, 2024

Asked by Anonymous - Nov 21, 2024Hindi
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Hello, I am 3 yr neet dropper.in 2025 it will be my third attempt... I'm trying my best to crack neet ...i don't know what will happen will i score good marks or not ... please help me in suggesting good career options if not crack neet .....there are many options through neet marks also like bhms , veterinary...etc. i will also give entrance exam also like cuet ,gbpuat ,....but i want that what to choose which course will be best for me ...i want to make my life good and happy... having a good degree, good job ,...
Ans: Hello.
Have you analyzed your failure in 2 successive attempts in the NEET examination? If yes, then the question is what you have done for improvement and not then again the question arises why not? Here, I would like to suggest you focus now only on the NEET examination which is your 3rd attempt. Don't think about any other options right now till May 2025. After the NEET exam is over, you have ample time to explore the options available. Depending on your score in NEET 2025, we will guide you at that time. But yet, if you are confused, then looking towards your question and anxiety, you need personal counseling where you can express yourself face-to-face. Only after the NEET exam is over, you contact a counsellor for one-to-one counseling. Till then, keep mum and focus only on NEET. Take this exam as your mission and project. Work on this project, apply forces from all sides, success is there which is waiting for you eagerly.
Best of luck for your bright future.

Some tips: (1) Analyse separately Phy, Che, Bio (2) Prepare a list of hard topics (3) First focus more on the topics which are easy for you and then try to excel in hard topics (4) Appear more and more online/offline examinations (4) Prepare your short-cut file for all subjects (5) Prepare a file for each subject having only synopsis of all chapters (6) Try to solve the problems at the lightening speed and observe the period on regular basis (7) Create your time table to revise the topics on regular basis (8) Do not hesitate to ask your difficulties to your teachers, if you have joined to offline classes (9) Keep the habit of marking the answers which you know 100%. Don't guess the answers and mark them, as there is -ve marking scheme. (10) Be calm, quite, and smiling all the time to release the tension and always have a healthy chat with your friends.

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