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Chintu Question by Chintu on May 11, 2024Hindi
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I m in relationship, Her Name is Anshu , What to do so that she can't leave me.

Ans: Dear Chintu,

It's very difficult to say how you can keep a person around forever. It is really up to them to decide if they will or will not leave you sometime in the future. But if you really want to make an effort to stop that from happening try to be kind and caring. Everyone can love, but not everyone can be kind. Make sure to keep things fresh. Go out on regular dates. Keep checking in on her. Ask her if there's something in her mind. Make sure there are no unresolved issues. Be trusting and trustworthy. Handle fights with maturity.

It is amazing that you want to make conscious efforts to keep the relationship from breaking, but I would also ask you to take care of yourself. Often we are so hellbent on being together with the one we love, that we start over-compromising or worse, we ignore all the warning bells. I am sure your partner is amazing but do not sell yourself short either. You both deserve the best.

Best Wishes.

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App padhaai pe dhayaan dena pehle and ladki ko bolna ki tab tak woh apne parents ko sambhal le...naukri ki talaask bhi jaari rakhiye taaki exam hote hi aap ladki ke pariwaar se milke shaayd unhe samjhaa sake...
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Uske baad faisla lena ka bhi haq ban jaayega aap logon ka...

All the best!
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