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PD Question by PD on Sep 29, 2025Hindi
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As a late disabled, I am facing lot of challenges at work. They have not changed my profile since i became disabled (complete deaf) but have not even helped me shift within company in some other role. It is a big co. My current manager is making it very difficult for me to continue working by citing that I am not great at what I do, and hence I should look at other profiles. At 41, I am contemplating to quit altogether. Since I do not have kids, I can manage a middle class life in some tier 2 city of India, but what will I do with my time? Should I exit with grace and dignity, or keep a thick skin and continue getting salary despite being overlooked, underappreciated, and unwanted at work. It really affects my mental health and confidence, but I really work what I would I do next? With this disabled status, I would not get a new job with same salary.

Ans: Dear PD,
Isn't it time you took this to the HR? What are the policies regarding disability during employment? I suggest you look at these and make a good case which may work in your favor too. But of course, if your job profile involves a lot of calls, presentations, you may want to check how you can manage...even a new role, will come with its set of challenges which the HR can brief you on...
Why quit without looking at these options first?

All the best!
Anu Krishna
Mind Coach|NLP Trainer|Author
Drop in: www.unfear.io
Reach me: Facebook: anukrish07/ AND LinkedIn: anukrishna-joyofserving/

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Ans: I am not the expert to answer your question. However, since the question was directed to me, I will try to reply to you.

It sounds like you’re under a lot of stress, and that’s completely understandable given your situation. Workplace harassment and lack of support can deeply affect your mental and emotional well-being. The best remedy is to stay calm and protect yourself by documenting every incident of harassment with dates, details, and witnesses if possible. Politely but firmly communicate your boundaries and, if safe, raise the issue with HR or a trusted higher authority. Meanwhile, focus on upskilling or networking discreetly to keep future opportunities open. Outside of work, make time for self-care and talk to supportive friends or a counselor to manage stress. Remember, you deserve respect and stability; this situation is temporary, and taking small, steady steps will help you regain control.

You did not mention which field you are working in or what your educational qualifications are. Therefore, I am unable to guide you properly for the future. Remember, not only you, but almost every third person faces the same situation at the workplace. If you are talented, hardworking, and willing to learn new things, then no one can stop your progress.

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Dear Sir I hope you are doing well. I am seeking your independent opinion on a proposed switch of my existing Bajaj Allianz Goal Assure funds into the Nifty 500 Multicap Momentum Quality 50 Index Fund. My insurance advisor has recommended moving my entire current corpus (~₹10.3 lakh) into this fund gradually at ₹2 lakh per year. For your reference, here are the details of my current portfolio and SIP plans: Current Portfolio (as of latest statement): Fund Name Current Value (₹) Bond Fund 83,226.67 Equity Growth Fund - 2 1,88,982.12 Accelerator Mid Cap Fund - 2 36,080.50 Pure Stock Fund II 6,45,281.48 Small Cap Fund 51,194.39 Midcap Index Fund 29,979.86 Total Portfolio Value: ₹10,34,745.02 Current SIP Allocation (₹10,000/month): Accelerator Mid Cap Fund II: 2,700 Equity Growth Fund - 2: 3,000 Pure Stock Fund II: 2,300 Small Cap Fund: 2,000 Given my long-term investment goal (2035), I would like your expert advice on the following: The impact on portfolio diversification and risk if I move my entire corpus gradually into the Nifty 500 Momentum Fund. How this switch could affect the return of charges feature in my Goal Assure plan. Whether you would recommend a full switch as suggested, or a partial allocation, and why. Expected volatility and downside risk, especially considering the last 1-year market performance. Any hidden conditions or costs associated with this switch. I would greatly appreciate your independent and detailed guidance to help me make an informed decision. Thank you for your time and expertise.
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Asked by Anonymous - Nov 11, 2025Hindi
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Dear madam I have this suitaution in my life. Plz do guide me with this. So i have 2 married sisters and a brother with who i dont get along well. We used to be close back then. Later on my father passed away and then i got busy searching work. After getting work i got carried away with my newly found friendship with a boy i started spending much on him rather then my family. But still then i never neglected my family every kind of help i tried to give them. In the meanwhile i used to take care of my bedridden grandmother who used to stay in another state. Then my second sister started feeding everyone's mind against me saying i dont help them with money and i spend most on my grandmother and cousin. Though my sister were earning well still they waited me to spend on them which i stopped by then as they were earning. And there used to be a real good fight with my sisters and me regarding money issue and als my marriage thing and i gave them bitter words and also curses which i regret to this day thinking how could i do hated thing to my family .In next few years my sister got married but my second sister never invited me for her marriage and did all her wedding plans in my absence and i als never attended her wedding. I attended my 3rd sister wedding. After that my second sister plotted a plan against me by taking everyone on her side and kept me out of all the family functions. I just ignored them and decided to never to get bothered by any of this. Now the problem my 3rd sister is pregnant and they have planned a babyshower and like they are just telling me to attend it. To be honest they just told me a day before the function. How to handle this. Should i attend? And how to deal with such kind of people they seem to take advantage of my helpless. Please guide me on how to become a strong girl while taking desicion.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Learn the skill of staying away from all this drama. If you felt secure with who you are, you wouldn't think much whether you got invited or not. Do remember, people will be on your side sometimes and not on your side at other times. This goes for friends are family; so learn to be comfortable with that...
What you did for your grandmother is a choice that you made; why expect anything in return?
Life lived with least expectations is certainly a happier life...counting what people did or didn't do will take away your peace!
Real strength is not in fighting it out but knowing when to walk away from constant drama.

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Drop in: www.unfear.io
Reach me: Facebook: anukrish07/ AND LinkedIn: anukrishna-joyofserving/

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