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Asked by Anonymous - Mar 20, 2024Hindi
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Hello..I am 36 hrs old, a doctor, got married for 2nd time in Apr 2022. My 1st marriage was with a doctor in 2011 but we hardly stayed together for 1 month since he was away in another state for higher education. Indifference arose and we got separated soon after 6 months and got divorced 5 yrs later. Then i did job on off and finally finished my post graduation in 2024. During my post graduation i wanted to desperately get married for 2nd time as my age was increasing and i was feeling very lonely and wanted to settle down n have kids. I met a guy (he too a doctor and divorced) on matrimony. He approached me. We started talking, meeting. Everything was going good. But his mother was against our relationship. In between the guy too cut the contact with me. But i was wo trully in love with him that I wanted to marry him only. Somehow we got connected again. He came to my place and we lived together. He said he can't get married so soon. He said he would marry me only of i wl get pregnant.then i got pregnant and finally he married me in temple. Soon i delivered our child and his parent's accepted me n i went to his house to stay. There we used to have lots of fights as he revealed his true nature of being extremely KANJUS. his whole family was extremely kanjus. My husbnd doesn't like to spend a single Rs too and he doesn't like it if i spend my money too. We used to have frequent fights. Then hardly after 2 months, his mother called my parents and she told them that their sje could not tolerate me and i should leave tbeor house ASAP! I became very furious as my baby was jst 4 months old. Where would i stay alone with my child as i was studying. I called police to intervene and my mother in law got very angry, she cursed me in front of police- she called me a pros***ute. (This was her thinking- any woman who marries for 2nd time is a pros***ute!!!) Finally that night around 10pm i left her house with my child and some essentials. My parents stayed with me to look after my child. My husbnd kept visiting me on weekends. But my husbnd used to avoid me, block my calls. He never paid for my daughter's expenses too. A year have been passed. I have sent my baby to my parents house 6 months back as they wanted to go back as they stay in different state. Now my husbnd has cut all the ties, he has blocked me everywhere and he never called to enquire about our child in last 8-9 months. Last time when my father called him- he said he didn't wanna stay with me and I either can keep our child with me or i can give the child to him for rest of the life. I slipped into depression after all these. I messed up in my exams. I'm so disturbed that i had thought of ending my life many times but i reminded myself about my child. Now I don't know what to do. I talked him about divorce but he said he won't give me a single Rs aftr divorce since i am also earning. My parents too don't want me to go for a divorce 2nd time in my life as they are worried- our relatives and society will shame them. I want to bring my child back but i am worried- how will i take care of my baby since i am working. Please help. Keep me anonymous please.

Ans: I'm truly sorry to hear about the challenges you're facing. It sounds like you're in a very difficult situation, but please know that there are options available to you and support systems that can help you through this.

Firstly, it's important to prioritize your and your child's safety and well-being. Given the circumstances, it might be beneficial to seek legal advice from a lawyer who specializes in family law. They can help you understand your rights and options regarding custody, child support, and divorce.

Regarding your depression, it's crucial to seek professional help. Depression is a serious condition that requires treatment, and there are therapists, counselors, and support groups available to provide you with the support you need.

In terms of bringing your child back, you may need to explore options for childcare that accommodate your work schedule. This could include hiring a nanny, enrolling your child in daycare, or seeking help from family members or friends.

As for the societal pressure and fear of judgment from relatives, remember that your well-being and your child's well-being are the most important considerations. It's essential to prioritize your own happiness and safety rather than worrying about the opinions of others.

Please don't hesitate to reach out to support services such as hotlines, counseling services, or support groups for assistance and guidance. You're not alone, and there are people who can help you navigate through this challenging time.

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My husband and I met through a matrimonial site in 2015. He send me request and called me over phone. At that time,I was doing as govt teacher job residing in an area which is 300 km away from my city. He met me at my rented house and proposed for marriage. He asked my age but I hesitated to tell my age as I was almost 40 years then. He told me that it would not matter if I would be older than him. He was also about to 4o then. I didnt tell my age age, as I wanted to get married, because I had my younger sister to marry. He was working in a different state that time. He sent his father to our home to fix marriage. His father asked my age but because of shame, I could not tell my real age. I told them Iwas 36. We were married in 2016 April. By that time my job was transferred to my ho.e city. So I was at my in laws home during 2016 and 2017. My inlaws i.e my father in law and my unmarried sister in law were never supportive to me. They always treated me as outsider. As my husband and me were livi g apart because of job we couldnot plan for baby. We both were pretty older to conceive naturally, so I contacted an ivf specialist. The doctor told that I have less chance to conceive naturally as my egg quality is not good. It was not impossible though. But since we were living apart, he suggested me to go for donor ivf. I was broken for a moment as I wont be able to give birth my own child. But I had to make my husband a father. So I went for do or egg ivf. In June 2018 a beautiful baby girl was born. I was very happy to get her. But pI noticed his father started to drink alot after her birth. He got tranfer of his job in 2019 and he took me from his ho.e to company quarter in home city in 2019 August. It was okay initially, but he drank a lot which I couldnot bear as l was from a totally non drinker family. He even said he could leave me but not drink. In 2020 hecame to know my real age from my matriculation certificate. He was seen upset, I apologise to him for not telling him my real age. I also told him about my and our family condition at that time. He cuddled me and said that he was not that kind of person. To be mentioned here, he is 6 month younger than me. But gradually his behaviour was changing, always treat badly at very very small things. In 2021 he again hot temporary transfer to a different place which is 500 km away from our homè. During this time he totally cut co tact with me. When I was having Corona and was hospitalized with my 3 years he didn't come to visit us. In 2022 January he was back home. He took my mother to stay with us. From March 2022 he started asking for mutual divorce. I was shocked. Since I didnot agree to that he filed a divorce case against me in 2023 August. Now It has been about one year, we are in concillation process. We are still living together. We are having physical also. Sometimes he becomes good but he always attend the concelling and says that he wants divorce for sure. I dont want divorce as my daughter loves him so much. I dont want to break the family, he is providing food, my daughter's school fees etc. I also do a job, so I dont need money from him. Only I wantvto stay as family.Is there any way to change his mind ? My job is contractual, so I dont have job security. He gets a handsome salary like 1.5 lacs per month with all medical and other facilities. Please suggest, how can I change his mindset or what may cause him to divorce me. I trust him. He also trusts me. He has mentioned only age criteria for divorce.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Any relationship that starts on a foundation of Lies is bound to go wrong. I am sure you had your reasons for hiding your real age.
Now, this has become a bone of contention between the two of you.
Also, staying apart has not really helped the two of you bond and the fact of not being able to go through the natural process of pregnancy which helps couple bond also eluded the two of you.
What does not make sense is why after the birth of the child, he has taken up to drinking. Did he see the whole process as a failure of marriage? Do go through the recommended number of counseling sessions and be sure to mention that you want the marriage.
But, its no use if your husband does not want the same. Allow the counselor to do their job and there's one thing that you can do. Genuinely apologize for hiding your real age. Maybe when he sees and feels your apology, he maybe willing to forget all about the lie. Genuine apology, please...

All the best!
Anu Krishna
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Hi, I am not yet mairred. I used to like a man and after a month we decided to get married. He was of my caste so I thought my parents won't deny this mairrage. I used to talk to and wanted to let him know everything about my past so that we can built a strong root of our relationship. I spoke every detail of my past life to him. Then before he proposed me for mairrage I went for a vacation with my male friend to dehradun. I didn't tell him that day as he didn't proposed me till that day then why would I tell everything about me to anyone. He was noone to me at that time. After that he came to visit me in Delhi and on the same when he was on train a friend of mine along with his fiance came to meet me after a very long time. I asked him and he didn't denied. After returning home he blocked me. I cried and cried, called multiple times but he didn't received my call. Even I went to his location and waited for almost 3 hr but he didn't came. Then I asked my sister to call him. Then he talked to me but he said me so much of harsh and vulgar words that I went in shock. I cried a lot but he went on humiliating me. But somehow I convinced him to stay with me. I never talked to that friend ever. Then I told my parents about him that I want to get married with this men. Being a girl's father my father enquired about him by being annonymous. And trust me noone has said anything good about him. Later on we get to know that his father has a murder case on him of his brother in law. But then I wanted to get married. Finally my parents agreed only for my happines. Meanwhile I was never being respected by him. He always doubt me, humiliate me, abuse me mentally and physically, and when I was like I don't want to be with you he used to say sorry and begged me to be with him. He even used to restrict to visit my uncle aunty. His mother wants used to defend him and never used to make him realise that he was wrong. Then before engagement we went to Kolkata to buy dress. Yes one more thing I have informed him on the very first day that I used to drink and smoke occassionally. So whenever he used to visit me he always wanted to drink with me whether I want it or not. He always used to abuse me and humiliate me in front of everyone after drinking, so after a period of time I used to avoid drinking. Then he used to fight with me for that also that why will you not drink. In kolkata the same thing happen. We stayed there for 3 days and he was convincing to go to club from the very first day but I refused. On 3rd he hit me. After engagement his family asked for dowry. After a lot of dealing my parents agreed for an amount. But I felt betrayed. I stopped talking. After after when I initiated the conversation he picked up a fight and said he won't marry. I tried to convince. But when everyone was blaming me then I broke my silence and said everything about him to my parent. But he manipulated everything and made me villain. My parents want me to get married What should I do
Ans: Dear Akriti,
After reading your question I can only give you one advice, please do not marry him no matter what people say. Even if we overlook every other red flag that he has exhibited, abuse of any form is unacceptable. Why are you trying to convince your parents to marry a guy who hits you? Do you think you deserve it or anyone, for that matter, deserves that?
Now, no matter who tries to manipulate you, or however much they try to convince you, get out of the relationship for the love and self-respect you have for yourself. It is a big decision but in your case, it is worth making that big decision. I'd normally never tell people they should this or they shouldn't do that, but in your case, no sane person would ever suggest you marry this man and be subjected to abuse for the rest of your life.

Please make the right choice.

Best Wishes

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Hi, I am not yet mairred. I used to like a man and after a month we decided to get married. He was of my caste so I thought my parents won't deny this mairrage. I used to talk to and wanted to let him know everything about my past so that we can built a strong root of our relationship. I spoke every detail of my past life to him. Then before he proposed me for mairrage I went for a vacation with my male friend to dehradun. I didn't tell him that day as he didn't proposed me till that day then why would I tell everything about me to anyone. He was noone to me at that time. After that he came to visit me in Delhi and on the same when he was on train a friend of mine along with his fiance came to meet me after a very long time. I asked him and he didn't denied. After returning home he blocked me. I cried and cried, called multiple times but he didn't received my call. Even I went to his location and waited for almost 3 hr but he didn't came. Then I asked my sister to call him. Then he talked to me but he said me so much of harsh and vulgar words that I went in shock. I cried a lot but he went on humiliating me. But somehow I convinced him to stay with me. I never talked to that friend ever. Then I told my parents about him that I want to get married with this men. Being a girl's father my father enquired about him by being annonymous. And trust me noone has said anything good about him. Later on we get to know that his father has a murder case on him of his brother in law. But then I wanted to get married. Finally my parents agreed only for my happines. Meanwhile I was never being respected by him. He always doubt me, humiliate me, abuse me mentally and physically, and when I was like I don't want to be with you he used to say sorry and begged me to be with him. He even used to restrict to visit my uncle aunty. His mother wants used to defend him and never used to make him realise that he was wrong. Then before engagement we went to Kolkata to buy dress. Yes one more thing I have informed him on the very first day that I used to drink and smoke occassionally. So whenever he used to visit me he always wanted to drink with me whether I want it or not. He always used to abuse me and humiliate me in front of everyone after drinking, so after a period of time I used to avoid drinking. Then he used to fight with me for that also that why will you not drink. In kolkata the same thing happen. We stayed there for 3 days and he was convincing to go to club from the very first day but I refused. On 3rd he hit me. After engagement his family asked for dowry. After a lot of dealing my parents agreed for an amount. But I felt betrayed. I stopped talking. After after when I initiated the conversation he picked up a fight and said he won't marry. I tried to convince. But when everyone was blaming me then I broke my silence and said everything about him to my parent. But he manipulated everything and made me villain. My parents want me to get married What should I do
Ans: Dear Akriti,
After reading your question I can only give you one advice, please do not marry him no matter what people say. Even if we overlook every other red flag that he has exhibited, abuse of any form is unacceptable. Why are you trying to convince your parents to marry a guy who hits you? Do you think you deserve it or anyone, for that matter, deserves that?

Now, no matter who tries to manipulate you, or however much they try to convince you, get out of the relationship for the love and self-respect you have for yourself. It is a big decision but in your case, it is worth making that big decision. I'd normally never tell people they should this or they shouldn't do that, but in your case, no sane person would ever suggest you marry this man and be subjected to abuse for the rest of your life.
Please make the right choice.

Best Wishes

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Asked by Anonymous - Oct 10, 2024
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Hi, I am not yet mairred. I used to like a man and after a month we decided to get married. He was of my caste so I thought my parents won't deny this mairrage. I used to talk to and wanted to let him know everything about my past so that we can built a strong root of our relationship. I spoke every detail of my past life to him. Then before he proposed me for mairrage I went for a vacation with my male friend to dehradun. I didn't tell him that day as he didn't proposed me till that day then why would I tell everything about me to anyone. He was noone to me at that time. After that he came to visit me in Delhi and on the same when he was on train a friend of mine along with his fiance came to meet me after a very long time. I asked him and he didn't denied. After returning home he blocked me. I cried and cried, called multiple times but he didn't received my call. Even I went to his location and waited for almost 3 hr but he didn't came. Then I asked my sister to call him. Then he talked to me but he said me so much of harsh and vulgar words that I went in shock. I cried a lot but he went on humiliating me. But somehow I convinced him to stay with me. I never talked to that friend ever. Then I told my parents about him that I want to get married with this men. Being a girl's father my father enquired about him by being annonymous. And trust me noone has said anything good about him. Later on we get to know that his father has a murder case on him of his brother in law. But then I wanted to get married. Finally my parents agreed only for my happines. Meanwhile I was never being respected by him. He always doubt me, humiliate me, abuse me mentally and physically, and when I was like I don't want to be with you he used to say sorry and begged me to be with him. He even used to restrict to visit my uncle aunty. His mother wants used to defend him and never used to make him realise that he was wrong. Then before engagement we went to Kolkata to buy dress. Yes one more thing I have informed him on the very first day that I used to drink and smoke occassionally. So whenever he used to visit me he always wanted to drink with me whether I want it or not. He always used to abuse me and humiliate me in front of everyone after drinking, so after a period of time I used to avoid drinking. Then he used to fight with me for that also that why will you not drink. In kolkata the same thing happen. We stayed there for 3 days and he was convincing to go to club from the very first day but I refused. On 3rd he hit me. After engagement his family asked for dowry. After a lot of dealing my parents agreed for an amount. But I felt betrayed. I stopped talking. After after when I initiated the conversation he picked up a fight and said he won't marry. I tried to convince. But when everyone was blaming me then I broke my silence and said everything about him to my parent. But he manipulated everything and made me villain. My parents want me to get married as the society will insult our parents. I am getting married in November only for my parents but I have already made up my mind that I'll divorce him after 1 year of mairrage and will live my life alone. Am I thinking right? What should I do?
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
No, you are not thinking right at all...This man is all RED FLAGS...
Are you actually thinking of spending one year with a person who physically abuses you? Seriously?
And then you expect him to agree to that divorce without any fuss? What world are you in? No compromises on your life please...
Be wise and protect yourself...

All the best!
Anu Krishna
Mind Coach|NLP Trainer|Author
Drop in: www.unfear.io
Reach me: Facebook: anukrish07/ AND LinkedIn: anukrishna-joyofserving/

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How to earn monyfr
Ans: Earning money is a very important goal for everyone. Let’s look at some clear and easy-to-understand ways.

I will keep each point simple, short, and useful.

 

 

1. Earn Through Job or Profession

This is the first and most common way.

 

Study well or learn a skill.

 

Get a job or start a service.

 

Work regularly. Get monthly salary or fees.

 

 

2. Earn From Business

If you don’t want a job, you can start a small business.

 

Sell products or services.

 

Begin with small investment. Grow step by step.

 

Keep costs low. Serve customers well.

 

 

3. Earn Through Freelancing

If you have a skill, work online.

 

Offer writing, coding, design, or editing.

 

Use platforms like Upwork, Fiverr, Freelancer.

 

Earn in rupees or dollars from home.

 

 

4. Earn Through Investments

Invest money in mutual funds or deposits.

 

Get monthly income through SWP.

 

Let your money work and grow.

 

Start with safe funds. Take help of a Certified Financial Planner.

 

 

5. Earn From YouTube or Social Media

Make videos or posts on what you know.

 

Teach, entertain or share ideas.

 

Build an audience. Earn from ads, sponsors, and products.

 

Takes time. Needs patience and good content.

 

 

6. Earn By Renting Assets

If you have a house or shop, you can rent it.

 

Earn monthly rental income.

 

If you have tools, car, or camera, rent them too.

 

Use safely. Maintain everything well.

 

 

7. Earn By Selling Items Online

Make or collect items to sell.

 

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Sell clothes, toys, food, crafts, or books.

 

Keep prices fair. Deliver on time.

 

 

8. Earn From Teaching or Coaching

If you are good at something, teach others.

 

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Charge fees for each session or month.

 

 

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Write clearly. Help readers.

 

Monetise using ads or sponsored posts.

 

Publish eBooks. Earn royalty.

 

 

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Invest for long-term in mutual funds.

 

Over time, get wealth and income both.

 

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Always plan with a Certified Financial Planner.

 

 

Finally

There are many ways to earn. You need time, effort and planning. Choose what suits you best. Use your skills, money, and energy wisely.

Keep learning. Stay honest. Be patient.

That is the secret to steady and strong income.

 

Best Regards,
 
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
 
Chief Financial Planner,
 
www.holisticinvestment.in
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How the SWP works? Is it safe to invest in SWP for 20 lakhs, please help me to understand and what are risk involved.
Ans: Wanting regular income from investments is a practical and necessary goal. A Systematic Withdrawal Plan (SWP) is one powerful option. It helps you withdraw money monthly from your mutual fund investments. But before you commit Rs. 20 lakhs to SWP, let’s study it from every angle.

Let us understand how SWP works, its safety, usefulness, and risks—clearly and completely.

 

 

What is SWP in Simple Words?

SWP is a feature in mutual funds.

 

It allows you to withdraw a fixed amount every month.

 

The money comes from your own investment in the fund.

 

The remaining amount stays invested in the fund.

 

That balance keeps growing with market performance.

 

It is the opposite of SIP. SIP adds money. SWP gives money back to you.

 

 

How Does It Work in Practice?

Suppose you invest Rs. 20 lakhs in a mutual fund.

 

You set up a SWP of Rs. 25,000 per month.

 

Every month, Rs. 25,000 is credited to your bank account.

 

This continues until you stop or your investment runs out.

 

The remaining capital continues to earn market returns.

 

If the fund performs well, your capital may grow despite withdrawals.

 

If the fund performs poorly, your capital may reduce faster.

 

 

Where Should You Invest for SWP?

Choose equity-oriented hybrid or balanced mutual funds.

 

These funds aim for stable and moderate growth.

 

Avoid high-risk funds like small-cap for SWP needs.

 

Avoid pure debt funds too. They may not beat inflation.

 

Select actively managed funds only.

 

Index funds are not suitable here.

 

Index funds have no human control. They just copy markets.

 

In falling markets, they provide no cushion.

 

Actively managed funds adjust risk and protect capital better.

 

A Certified Financial Planner can help choose suitable funds.

 

 

Is SWP Safe for Rs. 20 Lakhs?

SWP is not a separate product. It is a feature.

 

The safety depends on where your money is invested.

 

The fund's performance decides the return and capital safety.

 

If you choose well-managed funds, SWP becomes more reliable.

 

If you withdraw too much too soon, it becomes risky.

 

So, withdrawal amount must match the fund’s return capacity.

 

A Certified Financial Planner will help you set the right withdrawal rate.

 

 

What Are the Benefits of SWP?

You get regular income every month.

 

This is useful for retired people or families needing cash flow.

 

It is more tax-efficient than FD interest.

 

In equity funds, after one year, gains up to Rs. 1.25 lakh are tax-free.

 

Gains above Rs. 1.25 lakh are taxed at 12.5% only.

 

In FDs, the full interest is taxed as per your slab.

 

SWP gives better control over taxation.

 

You also decide how much and when to withdraw.

 

It does not lock your capital like annuities.

 

You can stop or change the amount anytime.

 

Your remaining capital still grows.

 

 

What Are the Risks Involved in SWP?

The biggest risk is market performance.

 

If the fund performs poorly for long, capital may reduce faster.

 

Withdrawing more than the return rate leads to capital erosion.

 

In early years, if there is a market crash, returns can fall.

 

This is called sequence of return risk.

 

If you panic and stop the SWP, you may lose long-term gains.

 

Therefore, fund selection and amount choice must be done carefully.

 

Do not withdraw too much from equity funds.

 

Stick to 5% to 7% withdrawal of the corpus per year.

 

Rebalance the portfolio annually with the help of a Certified Financial Planner.

 

 

How is Tax Calculated on SWP Withdrawals?

Tax is only on the gain portion, not the full withdrawal.

 

For equity funds, if held more than one year:

 

    • Gains up to Rs. 1.25 lakh in a year are tax-free.

    • Gains above that are taxed at 12.5%.

 

For withdrawals within 1 year, 20% tax on short-term gains.

 

For debt funds, entire gain is taxed as per your income slab.

 

Tax is deducted only on capital gain, not total SWP amount.

 

This makes SWP more tax-friendly than FD interest.

 

 

How Does SWP Compare With FD Interest?

FD interest is fixed but fully taxable.

 

SWP offers flexibility, better post-tax returns, and capital appreciation.

 

FD interest stays flat. SWP can grow if fund performs well.

 

FD locks your capital. SWP keeps your capital liquid.

 

FD maturity must be renewed. SWP can continue for years.

 

FD income stops when capital ends. SWP may continue even longer.

 

In inflation terms, FD income loses value. SWP may protect against inflation.

 

 

Should You Invest Rs. 20 Lakhs in SWP?

Yes, if you want steady monthly income.

 

Yes, if you don’t need the whole amount immediately.

 

Yes, if you invest in the right mutual fund category.

 

No, if you expect guaranteed income like FD.

 

No, if you cannot handle short-term fund fluctuations.

 

No, if you plan to withdraw high amounts monthly.

 

 

Tips to Make Your SWP Investment Strong

Choose hybrid equity funds, not pure equity or debt funds.

 

Use regular plans through a Certified Financial Planner.

 

Direct plans lack personalised advice and regular review.

 

MFDs with CFP credentials track markets and help in changes.

 

Avoid index funds. They don’t protect during market falls.

 

Active funds give better control and management.

 

Start small SWP first. Increase later if fund performs well.

 

Monitor performance every year with your planner.

 

Avoid withdrawing during deep market crashes.

 

Let the capital stay longer to recover and grow.

 

Rebalance every year. Shift gains to safe funds when needed.

 

 

Can SWP Be a Retirement Plan?

Yes, many retired investors use SWP.

 

It is a flexible, tax-efficient income source.

 

SWP protects principal if managed properly.

 

It also adjusts to your changing cash needs.

 

Unlike pension plans, you keep full control.

 

You can stop or increase SWP anytime.

 

You can leave the remaining amount for your family.

 

 

What Happens to Remaining Amount After SWP?

The remaining money stays in the mutual fund.

 

It continues to earn returns from the market.

 

You or your nominee can redeem the balance any time.

 

It is not locked. It stays liquid.

 

Capital not used becomes part of your legacy.

 

You can also use it to increase monthly SWP later.

 

Or withdraw lump sum for emergencies.

 

 

Finally

SWP is a very smart tool. It gives you peace, flexibility and tax benefits. But it needs careful planning. It is not risk-free. But with right fund, right amount and right advice, the risks reduce.

Use actively managed mutual funds. Avoid index funds. Avoid direct plans. Work with a Certified Financial Planner. They will guide, monitor and adjust when needed.

SWP is not just about monthly income. It is about freedom, control and dignity in retirement. Rs. 20 lakhs can give strong support for your goals.

Choose wisely. Plan clearly. Review regularly.

 

Best Regards,
 
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
 
Chief Financial Planner,
 
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Hi Sir, I am 51 years old. I have 2Cr in PPF, 4Cr in Deposits and 1Cr in MF. I have recently sold property and have accquired 15Cr. Given how volatile the financial landscape is, where should I invest the 15Cr looking at a horizon of next 20 years for self and family. Besides this I also own 2 other properties totaling 5 Cr.
Ans: You have managed your money with maturity. The assets you’ve built show your disciplined approach. Now, with Rs. 15 Cr in hand, decisions must be thoughtful. Your focus on the next 20 years is correct and forward-thinking.

Let us now assess this with a 360-degree view. This is important for long-term clarity. Let us structure your Rs. 15 Cr for wealth safety, regular income, tax-efficiency and family needs.

Let’s look at each important area.

 

 

Understanding Your Current Asset Allocation

You have Rs. 2 Cr in PPF. This is long-term, safe and tax-free.

 

You have Rs. 4 Cr in deposits. These offer safety but may lag inflation.

 

You have Rs. 1 Cr in mutual funds. This shows some market participation.

 

You have Rs. 15 Cr in liquid form from recent sale.

 

You have Rs. 5 Cr in property. These are non-liquid, and for wealth holding.

 

Your overall wealth is Rs. 27 Cr. That is impressive. But over-dependence on fixed income can hurt wealth growth. Your PPF and deposits together form Rs. 6 Cr. These do not beat long-term inflation. That is a risk to family security.

 

 

Create Clear Financial Buckets for Purpose

Divide your Rs. 15 Cr into three buckets. Each has a different goal.

 

Bucket 1: For Emergency, Stability and Safety.

 

Bucket 2: For Medium-Term Needs in 5 to 10 years.

 

Bucket 3: For Long-Term Wealth Creation.

 

Let us now explore these buckets.

 

 

Bucket 1: Safety and Liquidity (Rs. 1.5 Cr)

This is to protect against sudden health or family emergencies.

 

Keep Rs. 75 lakhs in liquid funds or ultra-short-term funds.

 

These provide better returns than savings account. Still safe.

 

Rs. 75 lakhs can go to laddered fixed deposits.

 

Split this into 1-year, 2-year and 3-year ladders. Renew based on rates.

 

This bucket is not for growth. Only for comfort and liquidity.

 

 

Bucket 2: Medium-Term Stability (Rs. 3.5 Cr)

This money is not needed now. But may be required in 5 to 10 years.

 

Here, consider hybrid mutual funds.

 

Choose a mix of aggressive hybrid and balanced advantage funds.

 

These offer steady returns with lower volatility.

 

They shift between equity and debt. This reduces downside.

 

Choose actively managed funds. Avoid index funds.

 

Index funds copy the market. In falling markets, they give no protection.

 

A skilled fund manager in active funds can protect downside better.

 

Also, invest these in regular plans via a Certified Financial Planner.

 

Regular plans offer expert reviews and advice.

 

Direct funds lack this. Mistakes can cost more than small commission.

 

A CFP can rebalance when needed. Direct plan holders often ignore this.

 

This medium-term bucket protects you from inflation with lower risk.

 

 

Bucket 3: Long-Term Growth and Wealth Building (Rs. 10 Cr)

This is your most powerful wealth creation engine.

 

Equity mutual funds are the ideal choice.

 

Choose from flexi-cap, large and mid-cap and small-cap funds.

 

Diversify across 6-8 funds. Avoid fund duplication.

 

Avoid index funds here too. They follow the market blindly.

 

Active funds can outperform with right strategy.

 

Fund managers in active funds research deeply before investing.

 

Index funds don’t do that. In volatile markets, they may lag behind.

 

Active funds also book profits smartly. Index funds don’t do this.

 

Invest through a Certified Financial Planner in regular plans.

 

A CFP monitors performance and does course correction.

 

Direct funds don’t give that support. You may miss key changes.

 

CFPs also help with capital gain planning and tax harvesting.

 

Do not invest this money at once.

 

Use Systematic Transfer Plan (STP).

 

Start by parking Rs. 10 Cr in liquid funds.

 

Gradually shift to equity over 18-24 months.

 

This reduces entry risk due to market timing.

 

This is your family’s future security. Plan this layer with care.

 

 

Tax Planning and Capital Gains Efficiency

Your existing PPF is already tax-free. Keep it intact.

 

The Rs. 4 Cr in fixed deposits may be fully taxable.

 

Spread maturities to reduce tax burdens in one year.

 

Invest new money via mutual funds to lower taxation.

 

Equity mutual funds have better post-tax returns than FDs.

 

After the new rule, LTCG over Rs. 1.25 lakh is taxed at 12.5%.

 

This is still better than FD interest taxed as per slab.

 

Also, mutual funds offer more control over tax timings.

 

Stay invested for over one year to qualify for LTCG in equity mutual funds.

 

Debt mutual funds are now taxed as per slab for all durations.

 

So, use equity or hybrid equity-oriented funds more for tax efficiency.

 

 

Plan for Family Income Needs in Retirement

Even though you have 20 years, some income may be needed.

 

Create a passive income plan from mutual funds.

 

Use SWP (Systematic Withdrawal Plan) from balanced or hybrid funds.

 

They allow tax-efficient regular cash flow.

 

Better than FD interest. FDs offer less flexibility.

 

Reinvest what you don’t spend. Let compounding work for longer.

 

Avoid annuities. They lock funds and give low returns.

 

Mutual funds give liquidity and better growth.

 

 

Protect Your Wealth with Risk Management

Recheck your term insurance cover. Ensure it’s enough for your family.

 

Medical insurance should also be reviewed. Family floater with Rs. 25 lakhs is ideal.

 

Do not mix insurance and investment.

 

If you hold LIC, ULIPs or other bundled policies, evaluate now.

 

Surrender them if they are underperforming.

 

Reinvest proceeds in mutual funds.

 

You need pure insurance and pure investment. Not a mix.

 

 

Estate Planning and Family Financial Clarity

Your wealth is large. Create a Will now. Don't delay this step.

 

Mention asset distribution clearly.

 

Assign nominees across all investments.

 

Tell your family where documents and investments are kept.

 

Add joint holders or Power of Attorney if needed.

 

Consider forming a family trust if your estate is complex.

 

Consult a lawyer for this. Your Certified Financial Planner can guide you too.

 

Estate clarity gives peace of mind to all.

 

 

Ongoing Portfolio Review and Adjustments

Markets change. Goals shift. Health changes. Family needs evolve.

 

Review your portfolio every year.

 

A Certified Financial Planner helps track progress.

 

They rebalance funds based on market and your risk.

 

They help adjust tax strategy as per rule changes.

 

They assist in aligning investments to changing family goals.

 

Avoid doing this alone. Mistakes compound over time.

 

 

Finally

You’ve built a strong financial foundation. That’s a rare achievement.

 

Now, shift focus from only capital safety to capital growth.

 

Your Rs. 15 Cr can become a family legacy. Let it grow wisely.

 

Avoid chasing returns. Instead, follow a disciplined process.

 

Work with a Certified Financial Planner. They bring vision and discipline.

 

Keep your investments simple. Keep your goals clear.

 

Review regularly. Protect your wealth from inflation and taxes.

 

And keep your family informed at every step.

 

This is how you create wealth. And protect it for 20 years and beyond.

 

Best Regards,
 

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
 
Chief Financial Planner,
 
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I am retiring from my Job. I have only 50 lakhs corpus to run my family.Can you please advise where to invest 50 lakh money to get 50000/m monthly income.
Ans: You’ve taken the right first step. With Rs 50 lakhs and a goal of Rs 50,000 monthly income, it is critical to design a well-planned investment strategy.

Understanding the Income Need
You want Rs 50,000 per month, which means Rs 6 lakhs per year.

This works out to about 12% per year of your Rs 50 lakh corpus.

Expecting a 12% withdrawal yearly is risky. The corpus can get exhausted early.

A sustainable withdrawal rate is around 6-8% per year only.

This means Rs 25,000 to Rs 33,000 per month is safer long-term.

So first we need to decide: do we want high income now or stable income for life?

Retirement Stage Planning
At retirement, preservation of money is top priority.

Income generation comes second. Growth comes third.

But inflation will reduce purchasing power. So growth cannot be ignored.

Your portfolio must balance growth, safety and liquidity.

So we use a “bucket strategy”. Let us see what that means.

Bucket-Based Investment Planning
Bucket 1: 2 Years of Expenses
This is for monthly income now. Very low risk.

Keep Rs 12 lakhs in this bucket (Rs 6 lakhs per year × 2 years).

Put it in ultra-short debt funds or senior citizen savings scheme.

This will give you predictable cash flow.

You can set up monthly SWP (systematic withdrawal plan) from this.

Bucket 2: Next 3 to 5 Years
This is for income after 2 years.

Slightly higher return potential. Still low to moderate risk.

Invest Rs 15-20 lakhs in hybrid funds or conservative balanced funds.

These funds have 20-30% equity and rest in bonds.

They aim to beat FD returns, without too much fluctuation.

Bucket 3: Long-Term Growth
Remaining Rs 18-23 lakhs can be invested in pure equity mutual funds.

Choose large and flexi cap funds with regular plans via Certified Financial Planner.

This helps protect your lifestyle 10-15 years from now.

This part grows slowly now, but helps fight inflation later.

How SWP Can Help
SWP means you get monthly income from mutual funds.

You can set a fixed monthly amount like Rs 50,000.

Only the withdrawn amount is taxed, not entire profit.

For equity funds: STCG is taxed at 20%, LTCG above Rs 1.25 lakh is taxed at 12.5%.

For debt funds: All gains are taxed as per your tax slab.

So plan your SWP smartly, and avoid early redemption from long-term buckets.

Avoid These Mistakes
Don’t invest everything in FD or debt. It won’t beat inflation.

Don’t rely on dividend plans. They are not predictable.

Don’t go for annuities. They lock your capital and give low returns.

Don’t go for direct plans unless you are a full-time expert.

Always go via regular plans with a CFP for advice and monitoring.

Disadvantages of Index Funds
Index funds copy the market. No active research is done.

In falling markets, they also fall badly.

They can’t protect you during market shocks.

Actively managed funds give you better risk-adjusted returns over time.

Certified Financial Planners monitor fund quality and help you exit poor performers.

Direct vs Regular Plans
Direct plans have lower cost but no guidance.

You end up making emotional decisions.

Regular plans come with expert advice from Certified Financial Planner.

CFPs give behavioural control, tax planning and fund monitoring.

For retirement, discipline and peace of mind matter more than saving 0.5%.

Inflation and Longevity Risk
Today Rs 50,000 is enough. In 10 years, you may need Rs 90,000.

Life expectancy can go up to 85-90 years.

So your corpus must keep growing even during retirement.

That is why some part must always remain in equity.

Your goal should be to never touch the principal fully.

Rebalancing Every 2 Years
Every 2 years, shift money from Bucket 2 and 3 into Bucket 1.

This way, you refill the income bucket.

Review fund performance, tax laws and personal needs with your CFP.

Don’t withdraw from equity bucket in a bad market year.

Keep 1 year of expenses always safe and liquid.

Emotional Peace is Priority
Retired life should be relaxed. You should not worry every month.

That is why a structured plan works better than ad-hoc FD or real estate.

You get monthly income, principal protection and long-term growth.

Your wife also feels secure with a system in place.

You can focus on health, hobbies and family—not markets.

Do You Hold LIC, ULIP or Insurance-Based Investments?
If yes, surrender them now. These do not give good returns.

Redeem them and reinvest into mutual funds.

Keep term insurance if needed, but no savings-insurance mix.

Review all old products with a Certified Financial Planner.

Final Insights
Rs 50,000 income is possible, but you must plan carefully.

Aim for 6-8% withdrawal rate for long-lasting corpus.

Use 3 buckets for income now, income later, and growth forever.

Avoid annuities, index funds, and direct plans.

Take help from a Certified Financial Planner who understands your retirement dreams.

Review every 2 years and adjust based on expenses and market.

Retirement is not an end. It is a new phase that deserves full financial attention.

Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
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Hi sir. I am 65 yrs old with wife, Sir just to get approx 1 lakh per month for my further life for surviving how much money i required to invest in mutual fund etc . Having own house no rent. Pls advise. Regards
Ans: It is thoughtful to plan for peaceful retirement life.

You have already built a strong foundation. You own a house and have no rent burden. That’s a major relief. Now, your goal is simple and clear—receive about Rs 1 lakh per month to cover expenses for yourself and your wife.

Let me now explain your options and investment plan in a detailed and practical way.

Understanding Your Income Need
Your monthly income requirement is Rs 1 lakh

That is Rs 12 lakhs yearly, for living and medical care

You also want to ensure the money lasts lifelong for you and your wife

This means your investment must give steady monthly income and beat inflation slowly

You will also need some growth, not just fixed income, to maintain purchasing power

Estimating the Ideal Corpus
You are 65 years old. Your financial plan must cover 25 years or more

This is because medical support and expenses increase from 70 years onward

With inflation considered, your Rs 1 lakh monthly need will rise in the future

So, the investment corpus should be large enough to:

Give you Rs 1 lakh per month now

Increase income over time, through partial growth-based funds

Stay safe and not run out before your lifetime

Based on current conditions and long-term returns of mutual funds, you may need Rs 2.1 crores to Rs 2.4 crores approx.

This amount will be divided into different types of funds for safety, income, and growth

If you already have some existing investments, that will reduce the gap

How to Structure the Investment
To ensure income and safety, you need a three-part approach.

Each part has a clear role. This is known as a bucket approach.

Bucket 1: Income Now – High Stability

This bucket gives monthly cash flow from safe and stable sources

Use debt mutual funds (regular plan), which suit retired investors

Only select high-quality, low-risk funds. Do not chase returns here

Choose regular plan and invest through a Certified Financial Planner for tracking and rebalancing

This bucket will cover 3 to 5 years of income, approx. Rs 40 to 60 lakhs

Withdraw monthly from here

Refill this bucket every few years using growth from other buckets

Bucket 2: Income Later – Conservative Growth

This gives returns better than FDs, with moderate risk

Invest in hybrid mutual funds, which balance equity and debt

Prefer regular funds with a Certified Financial Planner for guidance

SIPs are not needed here. Use lump sum with gradual SWP later

This portion may be Rs 60 to 80 lakhs, depending on your comfort

It helps maintain the next 6 to 10 years of income

Bucket 3: Long-Term – Growth and Inflation Protection

Invest in carefully selected diversified equity mutual funds

Choose active funds with experienced fund managers

Do not use direct funds. Use regular plan via a CFP for right entry, exit and strategy

This bucket keeps growing silently and will beat inflation

Withdraw only after 7 to 10 years, in parts, to refill Bucket 1

Allocate Rs 70 lakhs to Rs 90 lakhs here

This part ensures your funds don’t run out at 80 or 85 years

This three-bucket structure keeps your income stable. It also grows your money silently. You don’t have to sell equity in a bad year.

Why Mutual Funds and Not Fixed Deposits?
FDs give low returns. They do not beat inflation

FDs are fully taxable as per slab, unlike mutual funds

FDs do not allow gradual withdrawal (SWP)

In FDs, once you exhaust the amount, there's no backup

Debt mutual funds in regular plan allow you to withdraw monthly, and rebalance annually

Long-term capital gains tax on equity mutual funds is only 12.5% after Rs 1.25 lakh gain, which is efficient

Tax is only paid when gains are withdrawn

Debt mutual fund gains are taxed as per your slab, but only on redemption

All this makes mutual funds more flexible and tax-smart than FDs

Why Not Index Funds or Direct Funds?
Index funds are passive. They don’t adapt to market risk or sector weakness

In retirement, you need funds that protect capital, not just follow markets

Index funds cannot avoid bad sectors or weak companies

Active mutual funds managed by experienced fund managers give more stability in volatile years

Direct funds have lower expense ratio, but no advisor or help when markets fall

At your age, you need review, support, and guidance, not DIY investing

A Certified Financial Planner will help you adjust your SWP, rebalance funds, and guide redemptions

So, prefer regular plans via a CFP who understands retirement planning

Do not take risk with direct funds or online platforms without guidance

How Much to Withdraw?
Use Systematic Withdrawal Plan (SWP) instead of withdrawing full amounts

Withdraw Rs 1 lakh monthly from debt bucket for 3 to 4 years

After that, shift matured growth from hybrid and equity funds to refill Bucket 1

This way, you are not touching equity money during market lows

Your capital remains safe, and money flows monthly like a pension

Withdraw only what you need, not extra

What If You Live Longer?
This is the most important concern in retirement planning

Your corpus must last at least 25 to 30 years

That’s why we kept a large equity portion to grow with time

Medical inflation, caregiving, and lifestyle will change in 15 to 20 years

You must prepare now, not later

This structure ensures you never run out of money, and your capital can outlive you

What About Health Emergencies?
Keep a separate emergency fund of Rs 5 to 7 lakhs for medical support

Do not mix it with mutual fund buckets

Prefer senior citizen health plans, even if costly. Premium is worth it

If you already have a plan, great. But renew carefully each year

Medical inflation is nearly 10% per year now

Avoid depending on children or borrowing for health care

Tax-Efficient Withdrawals
Equity mutual fund gains beyond Rs 1.25 lakh are taxed at only 12.5%

If you withdraw in small parts, tax is reduced

Debt mutual funds are taxed as per slab, but only when you redeem

Use SWP to keep yearly gains below threshold

Regular plan through CFP ensures you plan withdrawals and avoid heavy tax in one year

Do not redeem all at once. That will trigger higher tax

Review and Rebalance Every Year
Sit with your Certified Financial Planner once a year

Review performance of each bucket

Shift from growth to income bucket as needed

Reduce exposure to equity slowly after 75 years, if required

You can also leave extra funds as inheritance for spouse or children

This review ensures discipline, control, and peace of mind

Final Insights
To get Rs 1 lakh monthly, you may need Rs 2.1 to Rs 2.4 crore corpus

Divide this wisely into three buckets for income, safety, and growth

Avoid FDs, index funds, and direct funds. They may hurt your long-term financial safety

Regular mutual funds via a Certified Financial Planner give support, safety, and flexibility

Use Systematic Withdrawal Plans to create a pension-like flow

Keep an emergency fund for medical expenses separately

Review portfolio yearly and adjust slowly. Don’t panic in market changes

Your wife’s future must be protected even after you. This structure ensures that too

You have lived wisely. Now, invest wisely to live peacefully

If you share the exact amount available for investing, I can show the exact plan in numbers. You may also explore a written financial plan with a Certified Financial Planner for even more clarity.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
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Hi , Need help , my brother in law has decesed and left shares in USA which is he got as part of his compensation and benefits , the broking firm says that they dont have beneficiary process , hw do get that transffered to my sister who is legal hire
Ans: I’m very sorry to hear about your brother-in-law’s passing. In such times, handling legal and financial formalities can feel overwhelming. But don’t worry—we’ll walk through this step by step in a clear and practical way.

Let’s now see how to help your sister claim those US shares in a structured and smooth process.

Step 1: Understand the Account Type
First, confirm if the shares were held in a brokerage account (like E*TRADE, Schwab, Fidelity, etc.)

If it's an individual account, and there is no named beneficiary, then it becomes part of the estate

If it’s a joint account or transfer-on-death (TOD) account, transfer may be easier. But as you said, no beneficiary process, so likely an individual account

Step 2: Contact the Brokerage Firm
Your sister (as legal heir) must inform the broker of the death, in writing

Include death certificate copy and ask them for their formal estate transmission process

Every broker has a survivor claim or estate settlement team—you must reach them

Even if they don't have a "beneficiary form", they will have a probate transfer process

Step 3: Probate and Court Documents
Since there is no beneficiary, the assets will be distributed based on:

Will, if your brother-in-law made one, or

US State intestacy laws, if there was no Will

So:

Your sister needs to check which US state the brokerage account was in (where it was opened or where he worked/lived)

She needs to apply for probate in that US state or seek a court order to declare her as legal representative of the estate

This will likely need:

Death certificate (with apostille, if required)

Proof of relation (marriage certificate, if she is wife, or legal heirship certificate)

No objection from other legal heirs (if needed)

A US-based probate attorney can help if it's complex

Step 4: Prepare Essential Documents
Usually, the brokerage will ask for:

Original or notarized copy of the Death Certificate

Court-certified documents showing your sister as the executor or legal heir

Letter of Testamentary or Letter of Administration from US court

ID proof and address proof of the claimant

W-8BEN form, if she is not a US citizen/resident (this is for non-resident tax purposes)

Step 5: Tax Withholding and Reporting
US stocks may have capital gains or dividends subject to US tax rules

If the shares are transferred or sold later, the IRS may withhold tax for non-resident heirs

Your sister should consult a tax advisor in India for Indian tax obligations on these shares (especially if sold and proceeds brought to India)

Step 6: Receiving the Shares or Funds
Once the brokerage accepts all documents, she has two options:

Transfer shares to her own brokerage account (in USA or India, depending on broker’s policy)

Or, sell the shares and get proceeds wired to her bank account in India (this may take 4–6 weeks)

She must keep:

Copies of all forms submitted

Tax statements and brokerage letters

Confirmation of transfer/sale, for her own IT return in India

Final Insights
The process may take 2 to 4 months, depending on state laws and document completeness

Please avoid any panic sales or agents who promise shortcuts

Stick to the official channel of the brokerage firm and US court for a smooth, legal transmission

A probate attorney in the US may be required if the estate is large or complex

A Certified Financial Planner in India can help with reinvesting those proceeds wisely after they are received

Helping your sister through this legal maze is a powerful support. She needs clarity and calm guidance, and you’re doing the right thing by seeking this advice.

If you need help connecting with US-based estate attorneys or structuring her future investment in India post-transfer, I’ll be happy to help.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
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Dear Sir / Madam, I purchased a flat for Rs 29.3L on Sept 2013. The registration cost was Rs 1,46,500/-. I sold the flat for Rs 89L on Feb 2025. The brokerage fees was Rs 1.5L. How much would be the capital gains amount that I need to invest in Capital gains bonds ? Which tax regime would result in lesser tax, the earlier tax regime or the revised tax regime of last year Thanks Jay
Ans: You’ve clearly explained the purchase cost, sale value, and related expenses. That helps a lot in giving an accurate and comprehensive answer.

Let us now assess your capital gains liability, step by step, and guide you on how much to invest in capital gains bonds, along with which tax regime may benefit you more.

Understanding Long-Term Capital Gains (LTCG)
Since you purchased the flat in September 2013 and sold it in February 2025, the holding period is more than 24 months.

So this is classified as a long-term capital asset.

Therefore, the profit from this sale is considered as Long-Term Capital Gains (LTCG) and taxed accordingly.

Indexed Cost of Acquisition
To calculate LTCG, we must use the Indexed Cost of Acquisition, as per the Cost Inflation Index (CII).

Let’s now list down the known values:

Purchase Price = Rs 29.3 lakhs

Registration Charges = Rs 1.465 lakhs

Total Purchase Cost = Rs 30.765 lakhs

Year of Purchase = FY 2013-14 → CII = 220

Year of Sale = FY 2024-25 → CII = 363

Now apply indexation:

Indexed Purchase Cost = (Original Cost × CII in year of sale) ÷ CII in year of purchase

So:

Indexed Cost = (30.765 × 363) ÷ 220 = approx Rs 50.79 lakhs

Net Sale Proceeds
Sale Price = Rs 89 lakhs

Brokerage paid = Rs 1.5 lakhs

Net Sale Consideration = Rs 87.5 lakhs

Long-Term Capital Gain
Now compute the LTCG:

LTCG = Net Sale Value – Indexed Purchase Cost

= Rs 87.5 lakhs – Rs 50.79 lakhs = Rs 36.71 lakhs (approx)

This is your taxable long-term capital gain.

Exemption via Capital Gains Bonds (Section 54EC)
You can invest in capital gains bonds under Section 54EC to save tax.

Eligible bonds are from REC, NHAI, etc.

Maximum investment allowed = Rs 50 lakhs per financial year

Minimum lock-in period = 5 years

Interest = around 5.25% p.a. (taxable)

In your case:

LTCG is approx Rs 36.71 lakhs

So, invest Rs 36.71 lakhs in Section 54EC bonds before 6 months from date of sale (i.e., by August 2025)

This will give you 100% LTCG exemption

Earlier vs Revised Tax Regime
Here is how to think about it:

Earlier Regime:
Allows deductions like Section 80C, 80D, HRA, LTA, and home loan interest.

LTCG tax on property is 20% after indexation. This applies in both regimes.

However, if you have many deductions, earlier regime may reduce total tax.

New Regime (as per Budget 2023-24 onwards):
Lower slab rates but no major deductions allowed

LTCG tax on property remains the same – no extra benefit here

So the decision depends on your other income and deductions

In most cases:

If you claim 80C, 80D, housing loan, etc., then earlier regime is better

If your income is purely salary, and you don’t claim deductions, then new regime may help

But in your case, LTCG tax remains same in both

Additional Tips
Capital Gains Bonds must be held for 5 years. Premature exit is not allowed.

Interest is taxable every year. So factor that into your ITR.

Keep bank receipts, bond certificates, and sale documents safely for 6+ years.

File Schedule CG in ITR-2 next year (AY 2025–26)

What If You Don’t Want to Invest in Bonds?
You can also save LTCG tax by buying a new residential property under Section 54

Property must be bought within 2 years (or constructed within 3 years)

If planning to reinvest in property, do it within deadline

If not, 54EC bonds are simpler, more flexible

Final Insights
Your capital gain is around Rs 36.71 lakhs

Invest that amount in 54EC bonds before August 2025

You can save 100% capital gains tax legally

Choose earlier tax regime if you have deductions like 80C, housing loan, etc.

Keep proofs for cost, sale, brokerage, and 54EC investment for future tax queries

Plan carefully. This one-time decision affects your long-term finances

If you want help calculating future taxes or planning retirement income from property sales, always consult a Certified Financial Planner. It’s not just about tax-saving—it’s about protecting your wealth over time.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in
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