Hi Madam, i am in dilemma due to family pressured i got arrage marriage by spending two months time her.During chat or call its only casual discussion. I told abt my past love and told her i may come out from that but instead i convntinued my realtion with girl friend.now after 15 days of marriages i am feeling my girl is best for me. I am unable to adjust wth her. I told everyting abt this.its difficult to continue with her because of huge difference her love irritates me. Pls adviae how to come out from this.

Dear Anu, I don’t know how to start. My Age is 40. This is my second marriage. My first marriage was arranged and it lasted 6 months.  As I was in love we got divorced. We have one son who is 10 years old. Now the issue is my second wife and I have both betrayed each other. I caught her first having a deep love affair with her yoga friend. That fellow is married and we know his wife and daughter. She has started him when she was training for yoga and later they both started classes together. Meanwhile, I am in a relationship with a colleague. Now she is in a different organization. Although she has stopped it, I continue to chat with her. We are both struggling to come to a decision since last 9 months but nothing is working out. We both confessed; she is guilty, I am not. We've had a very rough time. Now she is at her mother’s home. My problem is that I can neither let her go nor forget her. She wants her freedom as earlier but I am not ready. So I am sad while I continue to torture her by asking past questions. I am worried more about my son. I am stuck so I end up bullying her. Please advice. I want to move on. I don’t want to be in relationship but i am afraid of taking decision. Sometime I feel miserable.

Hello mam , i am a male age 38 years and have 2 kids , one is in 9th Std and the other one is in Senior KG , I have a relation with another women from 6-7 years , we have done all relations like sex also , now in June month she married another man reason her family and she have 2 sisters to maary after her , She loves me still , but after her engagement and marriage i am not trusting her and we fight everyday on phone , She wants to mantain relations , but i cant accept her with another man , pls guide .

Hi i am 30yr old man i was in relationship with girl from school time since15 year with different caste in 2023 marriage proposal from another girl comes that time i talked with my family about my love they refused for marriage to her i did not put aggressive effort as i also don't want to hurt them after my marriage in a month i am remembering her continuously and start taking to her again i also told my wife about it she doesn't want to leave me (i also told her before our marriage but that time i told her that we broke up) after a year in this November her marriage is fixed by her parents now she is married since 2 month but she also don't want to live with her husband and want to come back We both wanted to come back to each other what should we do.??