Hi Anu, I'm a guest faculty working at a government educational institute.

I have a son who will be 5 years on August 13.
He is very active, smart and kind.
Recently I have noticed him crying and scared of death- Thanatophobia.
Every day in the evening he will start crying thinking the world will end. He will die or me and his Dad will die.
I explained him quiet spiritually that no death can come shiva will protect us. But he is not satisfied.
This particular behaviour of him has started since his school started.
Is this separation anxiety. Please help me how do I make him lead a normal life as he used to be?

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6-Month Strategic Timeline - July-August (Foundation Phase): Complete diagnostic assessment to identify weak topics across Physics, Chemistry, and Mathematics. Focus on strengthening basics through NCERT textbooks, which form the foundation for 60-70% of JEE Main questions. Allocate 8-10 hours daily study time—morning sessions for challenging topics like Physics and Mathematics, evening for Chemistry.

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Focus on accuracy over attempts—avoid negative marking by answering only confident questions initially, returning to doubtful ones later. Practice time management: allocate 40-45 minutes per subject initially, with final 30-40 minutes for revision.

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Previous Year Questions: Solve 10-year question papers to understand exam patterns and frequently tested concepts. Revision Material: Create concise notes and formula sheets for quick revision during final weeks.

Avoiding Common Pitfalls - Droppers often repeat previous mistakes—analyze previous attempt thoroughly to identify specific weaknesses. Don't accumulate excessive study materials; focus on mastering limited, quality resources. Maintain consistent revision schedule to prevent forgetting earlier topics.

Avoid social media distractions and maintain a disciplined routine. Don't attempt new topics close to exam dates; focus on strengthening known concepts.

Mental Preparation & Consistency
Maintain a positive mindset and realistic daily goals. Track progress through weekly assessments and adjust strategy accordingly. Remember that quality study matters more than study duration—focused 8-10 hours trumps distracted 12+ hours.

Final Recommendation: Start with a thorough diagnostic assessment to identify specific weak areas, then implement a structured 8-10 hour daily study schedule emphasizing NCERT mastery, targeted problem-solving, and intensive mock testing. Prioritize accuracy over speed initially, gradually building both through consistent practice. Complete the syllabus by November, dedicating December to revision and daily mock tests while maintaining physical and mental health throughout the journey. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Your maths
60 k take-home
40 k spends (15 k of that is EMI on a 9 L loan)
→ 20 k buffer

A newborn will nudge monthly costs up by 8-10 k. Cash cushion shrinks fast.

So the plan must earn while you learn, not leap blind.

Keep the paycheck six more months.
Use evenings to test micro-ideas. Risk stays capped at ?0 for now.

Choose a “cash-this-month” niche, not a moon-shot.
Pick work that turns inventory ≤ ?50 k into sales inside 30 days.

Tiffin + office snacks (two dishes, 40 boxes) - ?25 k utensils, ?10 k FSSAI, ?5 k flyers - ?120 per box × 40 = ?4.8 k /day

Amazon / Flipkart reselling (phone cases, cables) ?40 k stock, ?15 k ads 25 % net margin on ?2 L monthly sales = ?50 k

Weekend print-on-demand & personalised gifting kiosk ?45 k heat-press kit (other options are there too) ?300 profit per mug × 200 pcs → ?60 k Bring Your Mug - Take Away Memories.

Local social-media management for clinics & salons ?0 gear, ?3 k Canva Pro ?8 k-?12 k per client; 6 clients hit target

None need heavy staff or rent. All can run beside your day job.

Set one simple goal: ?15 k profit by Day-30.
Hit it twice, raise target to ?35 k. Only when side income beats salary three months straight do you quit.

This is critical - Plug leaks early. Refinance personal loan to longer tenor; shave EMI to ~?10 k.

Park 1 L of savings in an emergency account—no touch.Skill up tiny, daily.
Watch a YouTube on ad copy, take a WhatsApp course on GST filings. Low cost, immediate payback.

Start small, sell fast, reinvest every rupee. Freedom comes, but by steps, not by one loud jump.