Actually I like a girl but she had made me her brother my tieing a rakhi but way we speak to each other than we are meant to be but by expressing by love our bond might get broken so i thought that person is more important than my feelings. I don't express it.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

It is important to understand why she decided to have a brotherly relationship with you. Was it because she was not allowed to speak freely with you otherwise? Was it external pressure? Was she starting to understand that you like her and she did not want to mislead you? Or is the explanation as simple as her genuinely considering you her brother?

Now, what you can do in this situation is tell her that you don't think of her as a sister. It's the right thing to do. It's up to you if you want to confess your romantic feelings, but letting her know that your feelings towards her are anything but brotherly is important. Once it's out in the open, it's both of your choice how you want to proceed from there. You can remain friends, considering both of you are on board with the idea. Or this friendship might not survive the truth. It is just a mere suggestion. Think about it and don't forget, you are not obligated to play along as her brother because she decided to tie a rakhi.

I understand that it is absolutely terrible being friend-zoned or bro-zoned by someone you like, but if they truly don't reciprocate your feelings, there is nothing much you can do about it. Trying to convince someone to love you is not what you deserve. You should focus on other things and try moving on. You deserve someone who loves you as much as you love them. Wait for it.

Best Wishes.