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Anu Krishna is a mind coach and relationship expert.
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Question by raji on Jun 19, 2024Hindi

I'm a girl. I love a person who is married to a girl in 2020 and got seperated in 2021. they agreed to seperate permanently on 2022 and signed in a bond paper without going to court as they don't have children and she don't want any money from him. after that, the girl married someone else and have childen with second husband. now I want to marry that man but my parents are opposing and blackmailing us if I marry him, they will put him into jail. we got seperated after that he asked his first wife to sort out this issue. but she refused to help us.then he put a contested divorce case in court. first hearing is on 18.07.2024. i got engaged with other man and marriage was fixed on 5.9.2024. I'm not interested in this marriage. if i tell this to my parents,they will kill me. can anyone tell me when will my lover get divorce. how many days will happen? anyone help me legally to join with my loved one. anyone help me what to do

Ans: Dear Raji,
Maybe you are seeking an astrologer's response.
But since, this question is staring at me, I can tell you one thing...you are inviting more stress into your life by pursuing a man whose divorce has not been finalized. You are constantly going to be dealing with uncertainties and to top it all, your parents are totally against all of this.
But if you are absolutely sure that this is the man that you want to marry, then you have to be patient and wait it out. Do tell your parents about your decision and of course, you have to be strong enough to deal with their opposition as well. Be patient...

All the best!
Anu Krishna
Mind Coach|NLP Trainer|Author
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