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Asked by Anonymous - Feb 10, 2025Hindi
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Hi, i am 32 year old, Male. I have personal loan of upto 7 lakhs, (2.25L and 4.75L). The 2.25L i have been paying EMI regularly and no issues. The other one of 4.75L the EMI amount is quite big and since I lost my job in September 2024 i am finding it very difficult to pay the EMI for 4.75L loan. I had requested the lender to restructure the loan by reducing the EMI by 50% and extend the tenure or suspend the EMI for 3-6 months till I get a job and after the suspension period take the regular EMI. But both my request was rejected. I also sent a letter through lawyer mentioning the above request but even then that was rejected. I am delaying their EMI payments from last 2-3 months by 5-6 days and they start calling and disturbing the very next day. Please help me with other options that I have to reduce the EMI. Since I had health issues I lost my job in September 2024 and for health reasons i had to borrow money from friends and family. Right now I am doing odd jobs that help me pay the EMI for 2.25L loan and some part of EMI for other loan of 4.75L. please help me the options that I have.

Ans: Hello;

If it is an RBI regulated lending agency then you may lodge your grievance with ombudsman at RBI.

They can intervene to restructure the loan considering your job loss and illness.

Best wishes;
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Hi, i am 32 year old, Male. I have personal loan of upto 7 lakhs, (2.25L and 4.75L). The 2.25L i have been paying EMI regularly and no issues. The other one of 4.75L the EMI amount is quite big and since I lost my job in September 2024 i am finding it very difficult to pay the EMI for 4.75L loan. I had requested the lender to restructure the loan by reducing the EMI by 50% and extend the tenure or suspend the EMI for 3-6 months till I get a job and after the suspension period take the regular EMI. But both my request was rejected. I also sent a letter through lawyer mentioning the above request but even then that was rejected. I am delaying their EMI payments from last 2-3 months by 5-6 days and they start calling and disturbing the very next day. Please help me with other options that I have to reduce the EMI. Since I had health issues I lost my job in September 2024 and for health reasons i had to borrow money from friends and family. Right now I am doing odd jobs that help me pay the EMI for 2.25L loan and some part of EMI for other loan of 4.75L. please help me the options that I have.
Ans: Your financial situation is challenging but manageable with the right strategy. You need a structured approach to reduce your loan burden while ensuring financial stability. Below is a step-by-step plan to help you manage your EMI payments effectively.

Assess Your Current Financial Situation
You have two personal loans totaling Rs. 7 lakhs.
The Rs. 2.25 lakh loan EMI is being paid on time.
The Rs. 4.75 lakh loan EMI is difficult to pay due to job loss.
Your lender has rejected the restructuring request.
You are doing odd jobs to cover partial EMIs.
You have borrowed money from family and friends for health-related expenses.
Immediate Steps to Reduce EMI Pressure
Prioritise Essential Expenses

Focus on necessities like rent, food, and medical expenses.
Cut down on discretionary spending.
Avoid new loans or credit card debt.
Try Negotiating Again with the Lender

Approach the lender with a new repayment proposal.
Request a lower EMI based on your current earnings.
Highlight job loss and health issues in your request.
If needed, offer partial payments to show commitment.
Seek Financial Assistance from Family or Friends

Consider borrowing a small amount to clear missed EMIs.
Ensure you repay them once you secure a stable job.
Use Savings or Liquid Assets

If you have emergency savings, use them for EMI payments.
Consider selling small assets or non-essential valuables.
Medium-Term Solutions for Loan Management
Debt Consolidation Loan

Apply for a new loan with a lower interest rate.
Use it to pay off the Rs. 4.75 lakh loan.
This can reduce your EMI and extend the tenure.
Compare interest rates before applying.
Balance Transfer to Another Bank

Some banks offer lower interest rates for balance transfers.
Shifting your loan to another bank can reduce EMI pressure.
Check the processing fee before proceeding.
Freelance or Part-Time Work

Explore temporary jobs or online gigs.
Any additional income can help cover EMIs.
Consider skills-based freelancing for better income.
Emergency Loan from Employer or Community Groups

Some organisations offer interest-free loans to employees.
Community groups may provide financial assistance.
Check for government schemes supporting job seekers.
Long-Term Strategies for Financial Stability
Build an Emergency Fund

Once you secure a job, start saving for emergencies.
Keep at least six months' expenses as an emergency fund.
This will prevent future financial stress.
Improve Credit Score

Pay EMIs on time to avoid credit score damage.
Avoid multiple loan applications in a short period.
Good credit history will help in future financial needs.
Plan for Future Expenses

Set financial goals for savings and investments.
Avoid unnecessary borrowing in the future.
Invest in health insurance to cover medical emergencies.
Final Insights
Focus on paying the overdue EMI as soon as possible.
Explore options like debt consolidation or loan balance transfer.
Look for additional income sources to ease financial pressure.
Once stable, build an emergency fund to avoid similar issues.
Stay disciplined with spending and financial planning.
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Your JEE Main percentile (Convert your percentile into All India Rank with the help of a formula available in Google).
Your category (General-Open, SC, ST, OBC-NCL, EWS, PwD categories)
Preferred institute types (NIT, IIIT, GFTI)
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Step 1: Collect Your Key Details
Before starting, note down the following details:

Your JEE Main percentile (Convert your percentile into All India Rank with the help of a formula available in Google).
Your category (General-Open, SC, ST, OBC-NCL, EWS, PwD categories)
Preferred institute types (NIT, IIIT, GFTI)
Preferred locations (or if you're open to any location in India)
List of at least 3 preferred academic programs (branches) as backups (instead of relying on just one option)
Step 2: Access JoSAA’s Official Opening & Closing Ranks
Go to Google and type: JoSAA Opening & Closing Ranks 2024
Click on the first search result (official JoSAA website).
You will land directly on JoSAA’s portal, where you can enter your details to check past-year cutoffs.
Step 3: Select the Round Number
JoSAA conducts five rounds of counseling.
For a safer estimate, choose Round 4, as most admissions are settled by this round.
Step 4: Choose the Institute Type
Select NIT, IIIT, or GFTI, depending on your preference.
If you are open to all types of institutes, check them one by one instead of selecting all at once.
Step 5: Select the Institute Name (Based on Location)
It is recommended to check institutes one by one, based on your preferred locations.
Avoid selecting ‘ALL’ at once, as it may create confusion.
Step 6: Select Your Preferred Academic Program (Branch)
Enter the branches you are interested in, one at a time, in your preferred order.
Step 7: Submit and Analyze Results
After selecting the relevant details, click the ‘SUBMIT’ button.
The system will display Opening & Closing Ranks of the selected institute and branch for different categories.
Step 8: Note Down the Opening & Closing Ranks
Maintain a notebook or diary to record the Opening & Closing Ranks for each institute and branch you are interested in.
This will serve as a quick reference during JoSAA counseling.
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If the Opening & Closing Ranks for NIT Delhi | Mechanical Engineering | OPEN Category show 8622 & 26186 (for Home State), consider adjusting them to 8300 & 23000 (on a safer side).
If the Female Category rank is 34334 & 36212, adjust it to 31000 & 33000.
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Which rank is seen in jossa councling category rank or all India rank I got 97.61%tile and I am from obc category can I get tier 1 nit ?
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Once the January JEE Main session results was declared, many students and JEE applicants started asking common questions about eligibility for specific institutes (NITs, IIITs, GFTIs, etc.) based on their percentile, category, preferred branch, and home state.

Providing precise admission chances for each student can be challenging. Some reputed educational websites offer ‘College Predictor’ tools where you can check possible college options based on your percentile, category, and preferences. However, for a more accurate understanding, here’s a simple yet effective 9-step method using JoSAA’s past-year opening and closing ranks. This approach gives you a fair estimate (though not 100% exact) of your admission chances based on the previous year’s data.

Step-by-Step Guide to Check Your Admission Chances Using JoSAA Data
Step 1: Collect Your Key Details
Before starting, note down the following details:

Your JEE Main percentile (Convert your percentile into All India Rank with the help of a formula available in Google).
Your category (General-Open, SC, ST, OBC-NCL, EWS, PwD categories)
Preferred institute types (NIT, IIIT, GFTI)
Preferred locations (or if you're open to any location in India)
List of at least 3 preferred academic programs (branches) as backups (instead of relying on just one option)
Step 2: Access JoSAA’s Official Opening & Closing Ranks
Go to Google and type: JoSAA Opening & Closing Ranks 2024
Click on the first search result (official JoSAA website).
You will land directly on JoSAA’s portal, where you can enter your details to check past-year cutoffs.
Step 3: Select the Round Number
JoSAA conducts five rounds of counseling.
For a safer estimate, choose Round 4, as most admissions are settled by this round.
Step 4: Choose the Institute Type
Select NIT, IIIT, or GFTI, depending on your preference.
If you are open to all types of institutes, check them one by one instead of selecting all at once.
Step 5: Select the Institute Name (Based on Location)
It is recommended to check institutes one by one, based on your preferred locations.
Avoid selecting ‘ALL’ at once, as it may create confusion.
Step 6: Select Your Preferred Academic Program (Branch)
Enter the branches you are interested in, one at a time, in your preferred order.
Step 7: Submit and Analyze Results
After selecting the relevant details, click the ‘SUBMIT’ button.
The system will display Opening & Closing Ranks of the selected institute and branch for different categories.
Step 8: Note Down the Opening & Closing Ranks
Maintain a notebook or diary to record the Opening & Closing Ranks for each institute and branch you are interested in.
This will serve as a quick reference during JoSAA counseling.
Step 9: Adjust Your Expectations on a Safer Side
Since Opening & Closing Ranks fluctuate slightly each year, always adjust the numbers for safety.
Example Calculation:
If the Opening & Closing Ranks for NIT Delhi | Mechanical Engineering | OPEN Category show 8622 & 26186 (for Home State), consider adjusting them to 8300 & 23000 (on a safer side).
If the Female Category rank is 34334 & 36212, adjust it to 31000 & 33000.
Follow this approach for Other State candidates Option also and different categories.
Pro Tip: Adjust your expected rank slightly lower than the previous year's cutoffs for realistic expectations during JoSAA counseling.

If and whenever time permits, watch 180+ EduJob360 YouTube Videos on 'Jobs | Careers | Education'.

Hope this guide helps! All the best for your admissions!

Follow RediffGURUS to Know more on 'Careers | Health | Money | Relationships'.

...Read more

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