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ABHIJIT Question by ABHIJIT on Aug 16, 2024Hindi
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Hello sarveshji, My Son 13 years, is in 8th std ,ICSE student, When he was in 7th std he was doing good in his MCQ pattern ,But when he entered in 8th std he's become a average student academically, From 8th std school has started taking written Exams of 40marks Terminals,& its found that he's not good at learning the answers by heart, Till the 7th std there were no written exams and from 8th std regular written exams has started ,its looks difficult for him to by heart the answers in History,Geography,Science,Hindi, subjects, So how to solve this issue

Ans: I think important is to understand the concepts then rote learning.
Make him understand the concepts by giving him the concept based learning, paired with activities and objective tests from each lesson before you start giving him more Lessons to learn. Divide the task into shorter achievable goals to develop the intrest.
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My Son 13 years, is in 8th std ,ICSE student, When he was in 7th std he was doing good in his MCQ pattern ,But when he entered in 8th std he's become a average student academically, From 8th std school has started taking written Exams of 40marks Terminals,& its found he's not good at learning the answers by heart, Till the 7th std there were no written exams and from 8th std regular written exams has started ,its looks difficult for him to by heart the answers in History,Geography,Science,Hindi, subjects, So how to solve this issue.
Ans: Hi Abhijeet

This is a very usual case. Whenever a child shifts from one method to another, it takes some time to upgrade himself to the new pattern. MCQ test pattern and Written test pattern are different. Both patterns require different skills.

In short, your son is struggling to adapt to the new format of written exams in 8th grade. This shift from MCQs to written exams requires different study techniques, such as active recall, effective note-taking, and practice writing.

To help him improve, you can:
1) Encourage him to use active recall techniques like flashcards and quizzes.
2) Teach him effective note-taking methods like the Cornell method or mind mapping.
3) Help him practice writing essays and join a writing group if possible.
4) Assist him in creating a study schedule and breaking down assignments into smaller tasks.

At last, keep patient, every child is different. Give him some time to adjust to the new pattern. Your motion and support are much needed at this stage and that too without showing any panic on your face.

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I am 61 minimalist, self disciplined BACHELOR and self dependant, living in the life style of NO ILL; NO PILL. I have medical insurance of Rs.15 lacs Term Insurance of Rs.50 lacs traditional insurance of Rs.20 lacs (all ppt over). I have created a corpus with mutual fund in equity and balanced fund which can take care for next 15 years of my present living expenses. I do not want to leave legacy. Now living in rented home. Getting a rent for a disciplined bachelor is challenge, so I am plannng to buy a small plot and construct a tiny home, for which I need to drain the mutual fund investment; which I can set as self financing by repaying (investing back in mutual fund) the amount of rent after moving to tiny home. But I am also thinking is it good to invest at 61, where I do not require to leave legacy; on the flip side, retal accomodation at late 60 is not viably available and getting admission to old age home will also lose independence. So I am in dilema to decide on this whether to drain the mutual investment corpus to lock in dead in tiny home. please guide me should I step out to buy tiny home; or stay back with rental option or prefer old age home (compromising independance and self dependance)
Ans: Your clarity about life, discipline and independence is very strong. At 61, you have already done the hardest part — you built a corpus that can support your lifestyle for the next 15 years. Now the decision is not about returns, it is about peace, control and dignity of living.

This is a very important life decision. Let us evaluate it calmly.

» Your current situation strength

– No dependents and no legacy requirement
– Medical insurance already in place
– Corpus available for 15 years expenses
– Simple lifestyle and controlled spending

This gives you flexibility. Your decision can focus on comfort and certainty, not only returns.

» Understanding your main concern

Your real issue is not investment return.

Your concern is:

– uncertainty of getting rental house in later years
– loss of independence in old age home
– desire for stable, peaceful living space

So this is a lifestyle security decision, not just a financial one.

» Option 1 – Continue in rented house

Advantages:

– liquidity remains intact
– flexibility to move
– no large capital lock-in

Risks:

– difficulty in getting rental in late 60s or 70s
– dependence on landlords
– mental stress of shifting
– uncertainty at older age

For a disciplined bachelor, this risk is real and increases with age.

» Option 2 – Move to old age home

Advantages:

– no property management
– basic care support
– social environment

Concerns:

– loss of independence
– fixed lifestyle rules
– emotional discomfort
– not aligned with your “self-dependent” mindset

This option does not match your personality.

» Option 3 – Buy plot and build tiny home

Advantages:

– full independence
– lifetime housing security
– no landlord dependency
– emotional comfort and control
– stable living in later years

Concerns:

– large capital withdrawal from mutual funds
– reduced investment corpus
– money gets locked (illiquid)

But here is the key point.

This is not “dead investment”.

This is conversion of financial asset into life security asset.

» Is it right to use mutual fund corpus for this

Yes, but with discipline.

You should not drain the entire corpus.

Better approach:

– use only required portion for land + basic construction
– keep at least 10–12 years expenses still invested
– maintain emergency fund separately

This ensures:

– housing security
– financial security

Both are balanced.

» Your idea of “self-financing” by reinvesting rent amount

This is a very smart thought.

Once you move:

– rent you would have paid becomes your SIP
– this rebuilds part of corpus gradually
– helps maintain investment discipline

This approach reduces the impact of initial withdrawal.

» Key risk to manage before buying tiny home

Before you proceed, ensure:

– location has hospital access
– basic services nearby (grocery, transport)
– low maintenance property
– simple construction (no luxury spending)
– legal clarity of land

Avoid over-investing in construction. Keep it functional, not emotional.

» How to decide finally

Ask yourself one simple question:

What gives you more peace at age 70?

– depending on landlord?
– adjusting in old age home?
– or living independently in your own small space?

Your answer will guide you clearly.

» Finally

In your case, buying a small, simple home is not a financial mistake. It is a life stability decision.

But do it with balance:

– do not exhaust entire mutual fund corpus
– keep sufficient investments for living expenses
– use only required portion for the home
– continue investing (recycling rent as SIP)

This way you protect both:

– your independence
– your financial security

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in

https://www.linkedin.com/in/ramalingamcfp/

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