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General Physician - Answered on Jun 12, 2024

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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 04, 2024Hindi
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I am aged 47 but my looks gives feeling to other ad my age is above 60, slowly my hairs on head also vanishing and am already 25% bald. How can I return back to my normal self.

Ans: If there is a family history of early baldness, then not much one can do to prevent this. One can always follow certain lifestyle changes which combats accelerated ageing. Dietary discipline plays a very important role. Clinical research reveals that fasting in periodic intervals help slowing this ageing process. So achieve this, considering your age, Eat just two meals. Brunch around 10.30 /11 am followed by dinner by 6.pm.Physical exercise also plays a vital role in improving your muscle tone and circulation
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If you are not following an exercise regime, start with 30-40 minutes of daily walks.

Alongside, start face yoga (consult a certified practitioner and do it for at least two months). Basic neck exercises and pranayams will also help.

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Sir I am now 53 yrs and grown bald in the front that really embarrasses me in office or whenever I give an interview it is worsened since I also wear specs. Kindly suggest something to reduce my embarrassment
Ans: I understand that hair loss and wearing glasses can sometimes lead to feelings of self-consciousness and embarrassment. Here are a few suggestions that may help you feel more confident:

Embrace your appearance: Remember that baldness is a natural occurrence for many men and doesn't define your worth or abilities. Embracing your appearance as it is can help boost your self-confidence. Focus on your positive qualities, skills, and experiences instead.

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