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With over 30 years of experience, Dr Nandita is managing 10 centres across India.
She has written over 100 papers, edited 25 books and given over 1,000 lectures and speeches.
She has also won several prestigious awards, including the Dronacharya Award (2021), the Bharat Gaurav Award at the House of Commons in London (2014) and the Inspiring Gynaecologists of India (2018) to name a few.
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Asked by Anonymous - Oct 30, 2024Hindi
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Hi Madam, I am 47 year old woman and my husband is 50 year old. We have a son who is 16 year old. I am a housewife. My husband is busy with his startup work and my son is independent and good in his studies. At this point of my life, I feel lonely and keep thinking of adopting a child. Can I still think of adoption of a child. Please advice.

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Wife 47 yrs and husband 50 years having son 16 yrs old, having a startup business
Can adopt a child but not of same gender which you have from the marriage
The minimum age difference between the child and the prospective adoptive parent must at least 25 years
Composite age of husband and wife is 97 years (if composite age between 90 to 100 years. Can adopt child above 2 years and upto 4 years)
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When you seem to have decided that your wife is not going to change, no matter what happens, you will not be able to see that change. Everything about her will be irritating and annoying.
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