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MHT-CET, IIT-JEE, NEET-UG Expert - Answered on Aug 26, 2024

Radheshyam Zanwar is the founder of Zanwar Classes which prepares aspirants for competitive exams such as MHT-CET, IIT-JEE and NEET-UG.
Based in Aurangabad, Maharashtra, it provides coaching for Class 10 and Class 12 students as well.
Since the last 25 years, Radheshyam has been teaching mathematics to Class 11 and Class 12 students and coaching them for engineering and medical entrance examinations.
Radheshyam completed his civil engineering from the Government Engineering College in Aurangabad.... more
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Sir I am getting rnsit CS and bit ece which is better

Ans: Hi Shadow.
Prefer RNSIT CS for broader opportunities in software, IT, and tech industries.

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