Sir, My son doing 2nd year ECE from UIET Panjab university and now got CSE UIET panjab university . Can he move with CSE in first year . Request solicite . Arun Thakur

Ans: Dear Vijya,
From what I have understood, that your son's wife does not want to live with the extended family, right?
It's good to give the newly-weds sometime by themselves first to learn more about each other an establish a good marriage. A lot of Indian families now find it better to live away from their children and their families. When you give them sometime, they will also find the space to understand other family members before getting closer.
Give them space...

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Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Yeh sawaal aapko apne pati se karna chahiye. Ki kya yeh sahi hai? Us ladki ke rehte aapse shaadi kyon kari? Yeh baat shaadi se pehle aapko bataa dena chahiye tha ki kisi ke saath relationship mein the.
Ab kya matlab ki usse bhi shaadi karo aur use bhi ghar le aao. Aapko is waqt joh sahi lagta ho, use saamne le aaye aur apne pati ko bataana. Agar woh us ladki ki baat maanne lage toh phir ghar ke badon ke saamne hi baat le aayiye. Yeh aapki poori zindagi ka sawaal hai aur ab aap agar chup rahi, toh yeh maamla palat sakta hai. Toh pehle unse baat karna aur phir yahi silsisla jaari raha toh ghar ke badon ko is baat mein shaamil kijiye taaki koi hal nikal aaye,

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Ans: Dear Anonymous,
It is a difficult situation to be around someone who has issues with anger and in this case it's your wife!
Anger is just a call or cry for help. Have you seen a child display anger and throw his/her toys around just to get their mother's attention?
Now, what is it that you wife lacks is something only you will know. She feels a certain lack in her life.
It could be lack of achievement, lack of self-worth, lack of a healthy self-esteem, lack of healthy nutrients in the body, lack of good quality sleep, lack of useful social environment.

I also believe what and who we surround ourselves with will define how our day goes and how our life will pan out. Now, because she fails to see the role of a counselor, you are forced to work at this on your own. So, start by trying to find out:
- what area of lack is she in?
- what triggers her anger episodes?
- how does she come out of these episodes?
- are the people/friends around her very different from her value systems?
- when was the last time she had a general check-up to see if all the health parameters are good?
- how actively has she pursued a career or a hobby?
- how many hours of sleep does she get?
- does she eat nutritious food that's meant for her age?

Since you are on your own with this, get deeper into this; I do agree your feelings are on the back-burner BUT till you sort this, it's going to haunt you. Sometimes the display of anger is much bigger that forces us to believe that the problem is a big one. It could just be a simple cause...Only when you try to identify it, will you know how and what it is.

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Ans: Dear Anonymous,
If a professional diagnosis has been made that it's an OCD, then the person who diagnosed it will be able to guide as to what are the next steps to get rid of this behavior.
A lot many times behavioral therapy is employed and in many other cases, experts will go into the depth of the root cause of this behavior. The efficacy of these therapies depends on how well the client/patient employs strategies discussed during each session. It takes a lot of commitment from both sides to work on OCD and it is possible to eliminate it altogether.

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Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Why are you getting into the WHYs and WHATs and HOWs? This will be useful if you are researching this subject for your thesis. There is no rule or law that proves that girls are like this and boys are like that. The way LOVE happens is based on a situation, how much of compatibility exists between the couple, how much the values match and much more...If everything or almost all match, irrespective of being a boy or a girl, Love can blossom quickly.

When you see situations where cheating happens or someone falls out of love quickly, it only suggests that there was no love to begin with. It was something that satisfied them for that moment or a short while and when she/he gets bored, they will move onto another person.
Why you see more girls doing this is perhaps you are looking for cases to prove what you are thinking is right. It is not based on gender but on the reason why people/a couple get together. If the reason is beyond looks, money and other superficial things, it will last for a much longer time.
So, there's no truth or lies BUT the fact of WHAT builds love and trust between a couple that defines their being together or not.

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Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Inter-faith marriages are still a big NO NO in many homes and yours is not an exception. Like in many other cases, my suggestion has been that both sides must want to get to know the other person. Like your parents need to see a different side of your boyfriend to be willing to accept him.
What is it that he can bring in their daughter's life that will ease their concerns about his faith/religion?
So, your boyfriend must be willing to be patient and make efforts on his part to integrate into your family. It takes time, so be patient.
Now, for your job...do not confuse emotions and your job. Your parents feels that you might take drastic steps with your boyfriend and hence want you closer to home so that they can keep an eye on you. Address this concern by being mature and immersing yourself more into work that gives them the confidence that you are not about to do anything behind their back.
Addressing what bothers them is a better way out rather than trying to convince them...as the same issues will keep coming back if you force them to accept something. So, be patient and responsible for things to sort themselves out...

All the best!
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Ans: Planning for a steady income through mutual fund investments is a smart move. You need approximately Rs. 1 lakh per month. Let's dive into how to achieve this.

Understanding Your Need
Firstly, it's essential to understand why you need this regular income. Is it for household expenses, retirement, or any other purpose? Knowing this will help tailor your investment strategy.

Types of Mutual Funds
There are different types of mutual funds to consider. Each has its own benefits and risks.

1. Equity Mutual Funds
Equity funds invest in stocks. They offer high returns but come with higher risk. They are good for long-term goals.

2. Debt Mutual Funds
Debt funds invest in bonds and securities. They provide stable returns with lower risk. Ideal for short to medium-term goals.

3. Hybrid Mutual Funds
Hybrid funds invest in both equity and debt. They balance risk and reward. Suitable for moderate risk takers.

Choosing the Right Funds
Selecting the right mutual funds is crucial. Here are some pointers.

1. Look at Past Performance
Check the past performance of the fund. While past performance is not a guarantee of future returns, it gives an idea.

2. Fund Manager Expertise
A good fund manager can make a significant difference. Look for funds managed by experienced and successful managers.

3. Expense Ratio
Expense ratio is the fee charged by the fund. Lower expense ratios mean more returns for you.

4. Consistency
Look for funds that have provided consistent returns over time. Consistency is key in mutual fund investments.

Why Not to Recommend Specific Scheme Names
Recommending specific mutual fund schemes online has several drawbacks. Here’s why it’s not advisable.

1. Individual Financial Goals
Everyone’s financial goals and risk tolerance are different. A scheme suitable for one person may not be suitable for another.

2. Changing Market Conditions
Market conditions change. A scheme performing well today may not perform the same way in the future.

3. Personal Financial Situation
An individual's financial situation is unique. Recommending a scheme without understanding their situation can lead to poor outcomes.

4. Professional Advice
Investment decisions should be based on personalized advice from a Certified Financial Planner (CFP). They can tailor recommendations to individual needs.

5. Regulatory Guidelines
There are regulatory guidelines regarding investment advice. Providing specific scheme names online may violate these guidelines.

6. Limited Scope
Online forums have limited scope to provide in-depth analysis. Personal consultation allows for a comprehensive understanding of needs and goals.

How Much to Invest
To withdraw Rs. 1 lakh per month, you need a significant investment. Here's a simple approach.

1. Target Monthly Income
Your target is Rs. 1 lakh per month. This translates to Rs. 12 lakh per year.

2. Expected Returns
Assume an average return of 8% per annum from a mix of equity and debt funds. This is a conservative estimate.

3. Required Corpus
To generate Rs. 12 lakh per year at 8% return, you need a corpus of Rs. 1.5 crore. This is a rough estimate.

Building Your Portfolio
A diversified portfolio is essential. Here’s how to build it.

1. Equity Funds
Allocate a portion to equity funds for growth. Select funds with a good track record.

2. Debt Funds
Include debt funds for stability. They will provide consistent returns with lower risk.

3. Hybrid Funds
Hybrid funds offer a balance of growth and stability. Include them for a well-rounded portfolio.

4. Regular Review
Regularly review your portfolio. Ensure it aligns with your goals and market conditions.

Benefits of Actively Managed Funds
Actively managed funds have a professional fund manager making investment decisions. Here’s why they are beneficial.

1. Expert Management
Fund managers have the expertise to make informed decisions. They can adjust the portfolio based on market conditions.

2. Potential for Higher Returns
Actively managed funds can potentially offer higher returns. Fund managers can identify and invest in high-growth opportunities.

3. Flexibility
These funds are flexible. Fund managers can quickly respond to market changes.

4. Personalized Strategy
Actively managed funds can be tailored to your investment strategy. This ensures your goals are met.

Disadvantages of Index Funds
Index funds track a specific index. Here’s why they might not be the best choice.

1. No Flexibility
Index funds strictly follow an index. They cannot adjust based on market conditions.

2. Limited Returns
They offer returns similar to the index. Actively managed funds can potentially outperform the index.

3. No Professional Management
Index funds do not have a fund manager making decisions. This can limit their performance.

4. Missed Opportunities
They cannot invest in high-growth opportunities outside the index.

Importance of Regular Funds
Investing through a Certified Financial Planner (CFP) offers several advantages.

1. Professional Guidance
A CFP provides expert advice. They help you choose the right funds based on your goals.

2. Tailored Strategy
They create a personalized investment strategy. This ensures your investments align with your financial goals.

3. Ongoing Support
A CFP offers ongoing support. They monitor your investments and make adjustments as needed.

4. Better Decision Making
With a CFP, you make informed decisions. This reduces the risk and increases the potential for returns.

Creating a Withdrawal Plan
Withdrawing Rs. 1 lakh per month requires a proper plan. Here’s how to do it.

1. Systematic Withdrawal Plan (SWP)
SWP allows you to withdraw a fixed amount regularly. It ensures you have a steady income.

2. Tax Efficiency
Consider the tax implications. SWP can be tax-efficient compared to other withdrawal methods.

3. Monitor Withdrawals
Monitor your withdrawals. Ensure they do not deplete your corpus too quickly.

4. Rebalance Portfolio
Regularly rebalance your portfolio. This maintains the desired asset allocation and risk level.

You are taking a commendable step towards financial stability. Planning for a regular income shows foresight and responsibility.

It’s important to feel secure about your financial future. Investing wisely will give you peace of mind and financial freedom.

Additional Tips
Here are some extra tips to maximize your investments.

1. Diversification
Diversify your investments across different funds. This reduces risk and enhances returns.

2. Long-Term Focus
Focus on long-term investments. They have the potential to provide higher returns.

3. Avoid Emotional Decisions
Do not let emotions drive your investment decisions. Stick to your plan.

4. Stay Informed
Stay informed about market trends and fund performance. This helps in making better decisions.

Final Insights
Investing in mutual funds for a regular income is a sound strategy. By choosing the right funds and planning your investments, you can achieve your financial goals.

Regularly review your portfolio and seek advice from a Certified Financial Planner (CFP). This ensures your investments remain aligned with your goals.

Wishing you the best in your financial journey!

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in