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Asked by Anonymous - Aug 17, 2024Hindi
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My daughter is studying in 2nd standard ,an average kid who scores above 80 for 100.Myself, being her mother scored well while studying and used to be school first when I was studying and now seeing my kid as an average person effects me mentally and how to improve her,to score above 90 and make her do well in everything she does

Ans: Dearest Mumma of a beautiful girl child..... I am sorry to be a little blunt here.. DO NOT COMPARE, period!! Your times and her times are different. She is just in 2nd std...allow her "TO BE", please. Your job as a mother is to nurture her and ensure that she is joyous and healthy!! Teach her , train her, expose her to a lot of activities if you want but with lots of love and understanding. DO REMEMBER that childhood is not a preparation for adulthood....and who said scoring 90 is the only way to feel empowered, anything above 80 means your child is doing good!! Your child is unique, do not compare her with anyone, every child has her own pace...allow her to run her own race and WIN!! All the best and happy parenting!!!
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