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MHT-CET, IIT-JEE, NEET-UG Expert - Answered on Sep 03, 2024

Radheshyam Zanwar is the founder of Zanwar Classes which prepares aspirants for competitive exams such as MHT-CET, IIT-JEE and NEET-UG.
Based in Aurangabad, Maharashtra, it provides coaching for Class 10 and Class 12 students as well.
Since the last 25 years, Radheshyam has been teaching mathematics to Class 11 and Class 12 students and coaching them for engineering and medical entrance examinations.
Radheshyam completed his civil engineering from the Government Engineering College in Aurangabad.... more
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Dear Sir,I am confused.I had asked the same question to Mr Mayank Chandel also and he replied that for Home state quota he needs to complete his 10th and 12th from same state.But as per your answer 11th and 12th need to be from the same state. Request you to please clear the confusion. Thanks a lot

Ans: Hi
Thanks for contacting us again and we want to remove the confusion in your mind.
The home state is determined by the school's location from which you have completed your 12th grade or equivalent.
If you complete your 12th grade in Maharashtra, your home state will be considered Maharashtra, regardless of where you completed your 10th grade.

Imp: it is not compulsory to complete both the 10th and 12th grades from the same state to be considered for the home state quota. The 12th-grade location is the critical factor.

For example, if you complete your 10th grade in Gujarat and your 12th grade in Maharashtra, your home state for college admissions would be Maharashtra.

Finally, Since you are completing your 12th grade in Maharashtra, you will be eligible for the home state quota in Maharashtra. You do not need to have completed both the 10th and 12th grades in the same state to be eligible for the home state quota; only the 12th-grade location matters.

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Ans: Dear Anonymous,
First of all, I am really sorry you are going through such a tough time. Secondly, from all the details you have given, you were certainly not manipulative. Now coming to your query, I understand that it can be very difficult to discuss such an intimate moment with parents or make them understand why you decided to break things off, but if that is the only thing holding you off, I would say it's better to have a few uncomfortable discussions than a lifetime of wondering "if your wife is thinking about her ex." And even if she does not, would you ever truly believe that? You have two options- either you postpone the wedding and ask for some time to figure things out, in the meanwhile seek couples' counseling and see if this is a compatible match, or you completely rethink the alliance. After all, it is a matter of your entire life. The one thing I would definitely suggest is not to make hasty decisions or decisions based on "will I find someone else?" These both will make you make choices that are made in desperation. Remember it is better to be alone than in an unhappy and lonely marriage. And why would anyone judge you? You are not in the wrong here.

One more thing, as far as telling your parents is concerned, you can cite a reason like "compatibility issues which are slightly personal." I am sure they won't press on it. But please do not rush into anything.
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