
Hi. I am 42 and have lost job. Have a fully paid 3cr flat with 45k rent and my wife earns 80k monthly. I have a 12year class 7th kid. I have approx 30L in PPF and expecting pf of 20L from previous organization. I have approx 12L fd or account balances and approx 30L invested in stocks directly. I need to pay 40k to my parents monthly, 12k school fees, 10k monthly to maid and other monthly expenses of 25k, 40k of sip which i am planning to stop and 30k of rd which i am planning to discontinue. How do I plan these monthly expenses, 30L for kids graduation in 2030, and 50L for his marriage in 2037 and our next 35yrs of life. 24k emi Pending for 28months and 24k emi Pending for 36 months. Also, my father owns a 350ghaz plot, but we need 3cr to build it. Shall we sell the flat and build this considering 4 built floors would generate approx 2.40L monthly rent. Cost of building is inclusive of 10% last minute overheads. Also there is no legal issue within the family, my father / brother. So 2 floors for myself and 2 for brother. We both presently stay in another parental owned house only and thats sufficient for the next 30- 40 years
Ans: You have been very thoughtful with your finances so far. Your asset base is strong. You have valuable real estate, a decent equity exposure, and disciplined saving habits. Let’s now go step by step and assess how to streamline and plan your finances going forward.
? Assessing Your Current Financial Situation
– You have a fully paid-up flat worth Rs 3 crore.
– It generates a monthly rent of Rs 45,000.
– Your wife earns Rs 80,000 per month.
– You have Rs 30 lakh in PPF.
– PF withdrawal from your last job is expected to be Rs 20 lakh.
– Cash and FDs amount to Rs 12 lakh.
– Stocks directly held are valued at Rs 30 lakh.
– You have two EMIs of Rs 24,000 each pending for 28 and 36 months.
– You spend Rs 40,000 on your parents, Rs 12,000 on your child’s school, and Rs 10,000 on a maid.
– Monthly household expenses are Rs 25,000.
– You were contributing Rs 40,000 in SIP and Rs 30,000 in RD.
This overall financial snapshot shows you are asset-rich. But income pressure is visible after job loss.
? Monthly Cash Flow Analysis
– Current family income = Rs 80,000 (wife) + Rs 45,000 (rent) = Rs 1.25 lakh.
– Fixed obligations: Rs 24,000 x 2 EMIs = Rs 48,000.
– Parental support = Rs 40,000.
– School and maid = Rs 22,000.
– Household = Rs 25,000.
– Total monthly outgo = Rs 1.35 lakh.
So, your monthly expenses exceed your current income by Rs 10,000. This is excluding SIPs and RDs.
It’s good that you are pausing SIPs and RDs now. You are making the right move temporarily. You must prioritise stability for the next 6 to 12 months.
? Managing Current Expenses Without Active Job
– Use part of your Rs 12 lakh FD/cash reserves to fill any monthly gaps.
– Pause all discretionary spends like holidays or high-end purchases.
– Avoid starting any new SIPs or investments till cash flow is secure.
– Do not stop EMIs. Protect your credit score.
– Even with rent and wife’s salary, draw around Rs 10,000 to Rs 20,000 monthly from reserves.
Your reserves can support you for 12 to 18 months comfortably. But getting back to a stable income path must be a priority.
? Goal 1: Rs 30 Lakh for Kid’s Graduation by 2030
– You have 5 years till your child’s graduation.
– Equity exposure is fine, but direct stocks carry high risk.
– Switch a portion of your direct equity to mutual funds.
– Choose diversified equity mutual funds through a MFD with CFP credential.
– Regular plans have built-in advisor guidance. Direct funds lack this support.
– An MFD-backed regular plan ensures active management and handholding.
– SIPs in regular funds can be resumed after 6-9 months when cash flow improves.
– Track this goal every year and adjust investment as per market movement.
Stay disciplined but flexible in execution.
? Goal 2: Rs 50 Lakh for Marriage in 2037
– You have 12 years for this goal.
– Long horizon allows equity investing for better returns.
– Shift your long-term stock holding into equity mutual funds gradually.
– Avoid putting this in real estate.
– Use a mix of large-cap and flexi-cap mutual funds via MFD-backed route.
– Equity mutual funds have professional fund managers with deep market research.
– Direct stock investing lacks such built-in research and discipline.
– Invest systematically to avoid timing the market.
Also, review progress every year. Adjust amounts if markets overperform or underperform.
? Building the Plot vs Keeping the Flat
– Flat gives you Rs 45,000 rent monthly. This is low yield on Rs 3 crore.
– The plot can give Rs 2.4 lakh rent post construction. Higher income is tempting.
– However, building cost is Rs 3 crore. That is a huge capital deployment.
– At present, job loss creates income uncertainty. Avoid large capital commitments now.
– Construction brings risks – delays, cost overruns, stress.
– You are already residing in a parental house. You don’t need a second big house now.
– Even if you do sell and construct, rental gain takes time to come in full.
– Instead of selling flat now, you can wait and explore later when income is secure.
There’s no urgency. Your current flat gives rental income and can be retained till things stabilise.
? Retirement Planning for Next 35 Years
– You are 42 now. Life expectancy of 85+ years means 40+ years of planning.
– Job loss does affect accumulation phase. But you still have 10-15 years to save.
– PPF of Rs 30 lakh is a good base.
– Future PF withdrawal of Rs 20 lakh adds to the cushion.
– Shift FD money and equity holdings to mutual funds after 6-12 months.
– Begin SIPs again in balanced and large-cap funds, preferably regular plans.
– Keep investing steadily till age 58-60.
A Certified Financial Planner can help create a goal-wise retirement strategy tailored to your needs.
? About Existing Equity Stock Holdings
– Direct equity needs knowledge, tracking, and discipline.
– Common mistake: holding poor stocks for long or selling good ones early.
– A Certified Financial Planner can help review your stocks and exit non-performers.
– Gradually transfer holdings to mutual funds where professional teams manage it better.
– Diversification, asset allocation, and rebalancing are better in mutual funds.
Also, direct equity attracts high volatility. That may harm your long-term stability if unmanaged.
? Loans and EMIs: What Should Be Done
– Your two EMIs of Rs 24,000 each will run for 28 and 36 more months.
– Continue paying on time. No pre-closure now. Liquidity is more important.
– Don’t divert large lump sums to reduce EMIs yet.
– If job income resumes strongly, you may prepay selectively later.
– Until then, maintain EMI discipline and keep credit intact.
? Parental Plot: When to Consider Construction
– No need to rush now.
– Use flat rent and wife's salary to manage expenses.
– The plot has long-term potential.
– Construction cost of Rs 3 crore is too heavy today.
– Once career stabilises or a lump sum comes (like inheritance or bonus), re-evaluate.
– Since family terms are good, the plot can be built anytime later.
– For now, keep paperwork, permissions, and joint ownership clarified legally.
Construction can wait. Liquidity can’t.
? Child’s School Fees and Future Education
– Present fees are Rs 12,000 monthly. It is affordable.
– Don’t compromise on child’s school quality.
– Graduation fund of Rs 30 lakh should be grown safely over next 5 years.
– Use low-volatility mutual funds once cash flow supports new SIPs.
– Future education loans can also be considered partially if needed.
Also, track your child’s interest and possible career choices from class 9 onwards.
? Insurance and Emergency Corpus
– Ensure your term life insurance is sufficient. If not, buy a term policy.
– Medical insurance for family must be active.
– Emergency funds = 6 to 9 months of expenses. Your FD balance is fine for now.
– Don’t use PPF for emergency. Keep it for long-term corpus.
Review your insurance cover every 2 years.
? Tax Planning Suggestions
– Use PPF and other Section 80C options wisely.
– Avoid unnecessary endowment or ULIP policies.
– If holding such policies, check surrender value and shift to mutual funds.
– Use regular mutual funds via MFDs to get full guidance on tax harvesting.
– Mutual fund redemptions have tax implications:
LTCG above Rs 1.25 lakh taxed at 12.5%.
STCG taxed at 20%.
For debt mutual funds, gains are taxed as per slab.
Keep capital gains tracking clear for smooth returns filing.
? If You Find a Job or Start Consulting
– Rework your entire plan with a CFP once income resumes.
– Resume SIPs slowly after monthly surplus crosses Rs 25,000.
– Use bonus or lumpsums for goal-based lumpsum investing.
– Explore new career paths, consulting, teaching or freelancing if job search takes time.
Keep learning. Stay active. Your career is not over.
? Final Insights
– You are not in a crisis. You are in a transition.
– You have assets. You have no major liability burden.
– Your family is supportive. Rent and wife’s salary give safety net.
– Pause, reassess, and resume once cash flow improves.
– Avoid large capital expenses now like construction.
– Don’t take high risks in stock markets.
– Stick with mutual funds via experienced MFDs and CFPs.
– Prioritise kid’s education, parental support, and health insurance.
– Keep updating your financial roadmap every year.
– Patience, clarity, and slow steps will help you emerge stronger.
Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment