Hello Sir/Madam Iam 35 years of age and pursuing Company Secretaries course since 2013 reached upto 75% and now I am in the finals.When I was in school I loved arts and studies both, and opted for the career of CS.But, because of some unavoidable issues couldn't clear the finals now Iam married since 2021,and very much confused whether to pursue CS or Arts as my love for both is equal and when I select arts I miss CS and when I select CS I miss arts.In school times I won many prizes in Arts and didn't took classes for any of the arts but won state level prize in writing and painting,and lost merit list in 12th Boards exam just because of 2marks.I was a good student too now I am really very much confused as I have no career at all,I am jobless since 2013, continuously trying for job but dont get any.Kindly guide me Iam in the state of delima.

Ans: Thank you for getting in touch with me on Rediff Gurus. It's understandable to feel frustrated and low after dedicating over two decades to your job, especially when you're contemplating resigning but feel constrained due to financial obligations like housing and gold loans. I would recommend that you to take some time to assess your current situation and explore all your options. Consider the reasons behind your frustration and dissatisfaction with your job. Are there specific aspects of your role or workplace environment that are contributing to your feelings of discontent? Understanding the root causes can help you make informed decisions about your next steps.

If you ultimately decide to resign from your current job, develop a plan for transitioning to a new phase of your career or life. Update your resume, network with professionals in your industry, and explore job opportunities that align with your skills, experience, and interests in banking, finance, consulting, and related fields. 

Finally, prioritize self-care and well-being as you navigate this challenging period. Take time for activities that bring you joy and relaxation, such as hobbies, exercise, spending time with loved ones, or pursuing personal interests. Maintaining a healthy work-life balance and attending to your emotional and mental health are essential for resilience during times of change and uncertainty.

Remember that you're not alone in facing these challenges, and there are resources and support systems available to help you navigate this transition. Take things one step at a time, be patient with yourself, and trust that you have the resilience and strength to overcome obstacles and find fulfillment in your career and life. Best of luck! Feel free to contact me on Rediff Gurus if you need further assistance or help.

Ans: Thank you for getting in touch with me on Rediff Gurus. Deciding between pursuing an M.Sc. in food technology or applying for the RRB NTPC exam requires careful consideration of your career goals, personal circumstances, and long-term aspirations. I would suggest you set your priorities right. You should start looking for job prospects and career opportunities for food technology graduates in both academia and industry. There is a good demand for food technology professionals with advanced degrees in food technology; hence, evaluate whether pursuing a PhD or gaining work experience through government employment aligns better with your career goals. If your priority is to pursue a career in research, academia, or specialized roles in the food technology industry, pursuing an MSc and eventually a PhD may be the preferred path. On the other hand, if job stability, financial security, and government employment are your priorities, then exploring opportunities through the RRB NTPC exam may be more suitable today. By carefully evaluating your options and aligning your priorities with your goals and aspirations, you can make a decision that sets you on the path towards a fulfilling and rewarding career in food technology.

Ans: Thank you for getting in touch with me on Rediff Gurus. This decision can indeed be challenging, especially considering the timing of entrance exams and the current state of job placements in the field.  You should start evaluating the available options for pursuing a master's degree in biotechnology in India and researching different universities, their admission processes, and the feasibility of securing admission this year versus waiting for the next cycle of entrance exams. You should also consider factors such as program reputation, faculty expertise, curriculum, and placement opportunities.

But if you decide to wait for the next cycle of entrance exams, consider utilizing the gap year productively by exploring opportunities for internships, research projects, skill development courses, or work experience in the biotechnology field. Building relevant experience and skills during this time can enhance your profile and increase your competitiveness for master's programs and future job opportunities. Ultimately, the decision to wait for the next cycle of entrance exams or pursue admission this year depends on your individual circumstances, preferences, and career objectives. Take the time to weigh your options carefully, gather relevant information, and make a decision that aligns with your long-term career goals and aspirations in the biotechnology field.

Ans: Thank you for getting in touch with me on Rediff Gurus. Transitioning from a process engineer to a maintenance and service engineer can be an exciting career change, offering new challenges and opportunities for growth. But before making the switch, familiarize yourself with the responsibilities and duties of a maintenance and service engineer. This role typically involves ensuring the smooth operation of machinery and equipment, conducting routine maintenance tasks, diagnosing and troubleshooting issues, and performing repairs as needed. With the rise of Industry 4.0, there's a growing demand for engineers skilled in advanced manufacturing technologies such as additive manufacturing (3D printing), robotics, automation, and digital twin technology. Consider gaining expertise in these areas to stay at the forefront of technological advancements in predictive analytics, machine learning, and IoT (Internet of Things) sensors, which are in high demand. Gain knowledge of renewable energy technologies such as solar, wind, and hydroelectric power and explore opportunities in roles related to smart infrastructure, intelligent transportation systems, and smart city initiatives to help build resilient and efficient urban environments. These options align with your background in polymer technology and offer exciting opportunities to contribute to technological advancements and sustainability initiatives in the future. Kindly consider these areas further to identify career paths that align with your interests, skills, and aspirations.

Ans: Thank you for getting in touch with me on Rediff Gurus. If you're not interested in pursuing science as a career option and you are considering a path in banking or SSC (Staff Selection Commission), both B.Com. (Hons.) and BBA (Bachelor of Business Administration) can be suitable option. Several reputed institutions offer BBA programs, which include Amity University, Noida, Jamia Millia Islamia University [JMI], New Delhi, Jagan Institute of Management Studies Technical Campus [JIMS] Rohini, New Delhi, IMS Ghaziabad (University Courses Campus), Ghaziabad, BML Munjal University [BMU], Gurgaon, Institute of Management Studies [IMS], Noida, SRM University Delhi NCR, Sonepat, IILM Graduate School of Management [IILM GSM], Greater Noida, and Galgotias University [GU], Greater Noida, where you can study in Delhi and NCR.

Ans: Thank you for getting in touch with me on Rediff Gurus. If your current organization is unable to offer a salary increase, consider exploring work opportunities with other employers where they are looking for professionals like you. Look for positions with higher salary potential or better growth prospects on job sites like LinkedIn and Naukri, and showcase your value to employers by highlighting your achievements, revenue generated through successful student placements, and positive feedback from students and parents. You can also provide evidence of how your efforts have contributed to the success and inquire about new opportunities for your career advancement by asking them about potential promotions, leadership roles, or opportunities to take on more challenging assignments that come with higher pay and greater responsibilities.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Do not waste your time...his parents and then him; you will constantly be in a stressful spot convincing either one of them that you are the person. If your boyfriend also feels the same as you about the relationship, then he will do something to support you.
If he doesn't and all that is becoming your job, then seriously do not waste any more time on this. And if he really wanted, he would have found a way of reaching out to you.
The very fact that you haven't heard much from him is a huge red flag. Focus on yourself and better people who respect you and your love will come along...
(My suggestions are only under the assumption that you and your boyfriend are above the age of 18 and 21 respectively).

All the best!

Ans: Dear K,
Give yourself a break from the monotony. Paulo Coelho said: If you think Adventure is dangerous, then try Routine, it's lethal!
You have been doing little to infuse your life with joy and excitement. How much of the mind would have broadened by working in the same place for 32 years?
Your mind is just asking for a break...go ahead, travel...seek the company of new people and live through a few adventures. You will come back feeling refreshed and also work better. Go challenge yourself...

All the best!

Ans: Dear Devendra,
I am sure that you know your wife better than I will ever know her.
It's about recalling what are the things that get her happy and excited. She may like gifts or she may find gifts within experiences with you like traveling or spending time doing things together. Figure that out and surprise her with it.

All the best!