my sister refuses to visit the doctor( whom she visited earlier) as she says that only others need to go to doctor. she does not want to visit doctor nor take medicines. she fights with other brothers and sisters on this matter.

I have a friend who complains about her health constantly. She is in her late thirties and for the 7-8 years i have known her she has been complaining about her health all the time. She is a mother of two and even at this age she complains about her period problems like a teenager. I have seen her complaining that she cant move one moment earlier and the next moment dancing. Many times i wonder if the issue is not her health but she wants to escape from her household work. She takes advantage of her husband, relatives and friends by feigning sick and getting some work done by others. We live in a different country and in spite of earning well we cannot afford maids. Initially whenever she complains I would feel sorry for her and help or at-least talk to her comfortingly but now-a-days I just cant listen to her complain. Now her family and other friends have also started questioning her why she is sick all the time and now running out of excuses she has added depression to her list of sickness. She is in a better position financially and socially with good family support so i don't think any of that should worry her. She has some manageable problems like every other person but nothing big enough to feel depressed. She compares her life with others who do very well and says she is not able to have that peaceful life like them and lists her problem. She complains about her husband and even her kids. Many of her friends started moving away from her and I don't react to any of her whining I just talk to her sometimes but i feel whenever she talks she just talks about her so called problems. And now when she says depressed I want to believe that and be supportive but I just cannot understand how any normal person with everything good in her life be depressed. I feel that as an excuse to get sympathy or attention just like the physical illness excuses she has been giving. How should I handle her?

Dear Madam, My wife suffers fever, or feeling like fever, every month. She is lean and 41+ having asthmatic condition and takes an inhaler when breathing problems come only. She tensions even for small things (over tensioned) due to which her neck and ears get first scratching (NEARLY FOR THE PAST 1.5 YEARS) and recently skin top comes out like scales. She suffers acute constipation and overall body dryness. Can you direct me to whom we should consult? ABRAHAM

Dear Madam, My wife suffers fever, or feeling like fever, every month. She is lean and 41+ having asthmatic condition and takes an inhaler when breathing problems come only. She tensions even for small things (over tensioned) due to which her neck and ears get first scratching (NEARLY FOR THE PAST 1.5 YEARS) and recently skin top comes out like scales. She suffers acute constipation and stomach is not clear prone to overall body dryness. Can you direct me to whom we should consult or what kind of medication do we start? ABRAHAM

my sister is having some psychiatric issue (has illusions of some relatives talking with her - mind voice) and got treated with medicines for about 2 months. 99% they all stopped now. some thing is still left in mind. she refuses to take medicines telling that she is ok and others not Ok and they only need to take medicines. how to make her take medicines. she is having knowledge of medicines and one can not cheat her telling that these medicines are only vitamins eic.

my sister is not talking to me im in over dipression because of this i cant able consentrate on my busines . pls help me to talk with me .. important im heart patient she is doctor in gynocology .. she is very close to my heart ..