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Asked by Anonymous - May 26, 2024Hindi
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Hi, I married 1 year ago my wife told me she was forced to do a marriage against her concern and she didn't want the marriage life and wanted to live as strangers, also she refused to take wife responsibilities at home i have waited trusting she would change but she never changed. She is alone daughter to her parents borned after 16 years to their parents and she used to live outside around 17 year for her studies. After marriage whenever her parents come she used to ignore me, also she work in private sector and not share even single rupee to home. However all house hold work i do being boy, also she is not at all interested in intercource as well. After marriage 2 week she stayed in PG stating that my close friend will go to native allow me to spend time with her reast all i will be with you like. I agreed. Later 6 Month she used to give reasons for intercource i got periods, rashes, not feeling good, tiered, no mood, etc this happen till 6 month. After this we had 4 times in 2 month with protection that too just for 1 or 2 min as she mentioned lot of pain, after that she started avoiding, since i was not fulfilled by sex desire i started making extra marital affairs in facebook and turned to whatsapp only text, one fine day she saw all msgs i did with extra marital affair and she took photos of that and went to PG without informing any one. Later both families elder sat and asked she used to show the msgs that i did with extra marital affairs and she wanted seperate now from me. Though i accepted the extra marital affairs only interms of msgs and since you not willing to do sex i choose this way i mentioned. But she dont like to come back now. Her father took 2 month of time that he will change her mind set but i dont think she can. As her mother is also not good women, suporting her daughter and making such big issues and she also not interested in this marriage itself.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Sometimes people are just not ready for marriage and here your wife certainly came along with a huge baggage of unresolved issues behind her.
Marriage requires both partners to be responsible not just towards one another but take an active interest in their roles. This calls for maturity from both partners here.
Now, this was never a possibility with your spouse as she felt the marriage was a forced one. That is enough to destroy any chances of the marriage falling in place. You are also in a soup now that she has found her 'proof' that gives her a ticket out of this marriage.
The question here is: Do you want this marriage? If YES, then you will have to start down the part of proving your innocence and what led to what and how and when...If NO, then since your spouse has found her ticket to freedom, the only thing you might have to do is clearly state and not explain anything as to how things went downhill right from the beginning. Her parents may believe you or not, but that's what your decision needs. They may try to malign you in the family, just stick to your version of what happened and move on.
So, you are at that point where you need to make a decision. What is it going to be?

All the best!
Anu Krishna
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Asked by Anonymous - Dec 13, 2023Hindi
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Hi, I married 1year ago my wife told me she was forced to do a marriage against her concern and she didn't want the marriage life and wanted to live as strangers, also she refused to take wife responsibilities at home i have waited trusting she would change but within 3 months she had medical issues and went to her home for treatment. after informing all her activities now her father is threating me and my family, also making false allegations against me for all her problems. Now he is demanding to go separately from my parents to send her back. if not they will file case against me in the court and make me and my family suffer. Now she was not telling the truth with their parents about her mindset and acting according to their portents guidance that i am the reason for her medical issues and she was not interested in the marriage because i didn't take care of her well. she have depression and anxiety issues from childhood her mother refused to see her face when she was born, as 5th girl child as they expect atleast 1 boy kid she said this to a doctor. she faces refusal and ignorance in her family she said this too the doctor i dont know the truth behind it. she has chronic gastritis also she is under weight (35kgs still at 27years old) and cant increase weight even after trying for 5 years of medication. Doctor suggested for a therapy but she refused to come with because she already had therapy before which we don't know. . even though we lived in same house but she lived in separate room all the days she was with me. Now due to her inability to handle her father she is acting along with them like i was the one who refusing her. Her father even knows about all these matters to hide is fraud he is now threatening me like police case and court. I did nothing wrong in this except married her. what should i do now ?. And I lost hope that she would change here after.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
There are many cases like yours where men are being trapped with false allegations.
First evaluate:
Do I want this marriage to continue?
If YES, I feel it's time your parents also step in to state your side of the story. It will be an uphill task to bring her back as she clearly had mentioned to you that she was forced into this marriage. Also, how do you plan on working out the home situation given that the condition is that you separate from your parents?

If NO, will you be able to prove all the allegations put on you are false? Hire a good lawyer, because you will surely need one. Tread carefully and make very calculated moves in terms of what you say (even if it's on a text message) as everything can be held against you. Your lawyer will advise you on this.

So, time to think what is the best option...lay all the cards on the table and play this very carefully...

All the best!

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Asked by Anonymous - Dec 15, 2023Hindi
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Hello, I have been married from 15 yrs. I have a 9 yrs old son with me. In oct 21 my wife (age 38) started making REELS on insta of the facial acting. She got involved and told me that she is just doing for followers and like. People used to comment good and bad which i didnt like. She was trying to make young guy friends. In april 2022 she had an affair with a 22-year-old boy who was not even financial stable. I could she changes in her every day. In June 2022 I caught her and she confess that she did affair and also done physical relationship. I had unconditionally loved her all these years and didn’t wanted to let her go. Also, didn’t wanted to hurt my son by taking a divorce. That guy refused to keep my son and their relation broke, but my wife still loved him and missed him. Few months she was in depression and I took her upmost care and swallowed what she did. I just told her that please come back to our life as you were before but she was not getting back. There used to be few quarrels, she was just staying alone within herself and I never felt that love which she used to give me. Later in feb23 there was a marriage at her family and I agree to go with her so she may get that feel during our times and she promised me to enjoy the marriage and make love with me. But she was happy with her relative and didn’t even bother to make that love and affection with me. from that time, I used to get angry and fight with her. I went into depression. In May 2023 she was getting worst and one day fight increased and I asked her to leave my house which I wasn’t intentionally wanted to. She left and went missing 24 yrs and then called from her mom mobile who was in her village, since she didn’t come back home and from last two month, she has been asking me money for herself and says it’s her rights. She doesn’t bother for my son and just show that she loves him. She works and stay with woman from 6 months and I’m looking after my son all alone. I told her u can work but just come home and make things better for my son. Her conditions is to give money security (money) then only she will return. All my family says she is just behind money and doesn’t care what I and my son is going through. She is not guilt for what she did. 15 yrs of marriage has been ruin and now she has no shame at all. She talks rudely if i dont send her money and now I refused sending her. Please advice what do I do now.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
You seem to have done a lot to try and get her back. What can you do if she doesn't want to acknowledge your efforts or appreciate what family life is! One would imagine that a child in the equation may bring about a change in heart but that doesn't seem to be the case here at this moment.
Your family members are right in their mind about the way that see your wife as they have been observing how this has impacted you and your son.
Either you wait for her to come to her senses OR simply learn to live life without her. If the outside world of social media is what seems to satisfy her, no matter what you do, she will be dissatisfied and unhappy. This only means that she has to learn and appreciate what she has with you and your son.
It is also possible that she has been disinterested in the marriage for a while now and has been seeking approval and validation from people on social media. Even if this is the case, being angry with you is understandable BUT what about her own child? What makes her not want to deal with that reality? If you need an answer to this, simply WAIT and WATCH without begging her to come back...That will give you an idea as to where her mind is and then decide on the future course...

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Asked by Anonymous - Nov 16, 2024Hindi
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Hi , I am a professor mech engineer , after death of my wife and due to having 5 year girl baby I planned for 2 nd marriage as I live alone away from home town because my of job with my little baby . I accepted a widow having 2 child ,she was working in a govt job 250 km away , after ensuring and agreeing her possibility of transfer and job vacancy @govt office near my house and ensuring she agreed that she will come to live with me along with her 2 kids and my little baby as her trasfer was due in comming few months . We lived apart during her job at 250 km away.,while meeting on weekly offs 6 /7 time in 6 months , then she take 360 degree u turn and said she will not get job transfer to my place and get her trasfer in other dept. in same previous office. And started telling many reasons like she will loose her children's inheritance in her in-laws property ,she will loose promotion , kids Don't want trasfer , and said we will live apart forever . This was contradictory to earlier agreed things .and my my purpose to live in family with my baby not fulfilled , so after long ruckus ,I mutually got divorce from her , Then After divorce I decided to marry non working women having no child and don't expect child as I am @48 year old and tired of living alone and managing job ,girl , house chores . I married to a divorcee girl from Pune ,she was BA first year college drop out girl of 44 yr age after 6 months of long dating on week ends . During 6 months I tried to know her indepth but was don't used to talk much as I was trying to know her true nature, we visited many places ,movies . She seemed perfect as per my requirement of girl wanting no child , and she is house wife . after marriage she behave well for 1 st week ,then she started trouble to hate my baby ( became kaikai )on pety things , she want my baby to house chores at the cost of her important year of 10th std study . She don't liked me taking tution of girl , she didn't like if I help my girl any way . She don't like if I spent some money on my girl . She used to fight all night and don't let me sleep . Now she stated demanding that she want baby , though I was against and b4 marriage agreed to not have any more child due to old age ,cost ,and no personal time for self , then I agreed to have child but b4 that I got her and my fertility tested ,she had weak eggs and syst on her reproductive organs and doc warned to not go for pregnancy due to risk and probability of unhealthy baby birth , but she kept repeating That she want child we consulted 4 Drs. She used to fight and go to her mother's home for 2/4 months after living with me for 2/3 days only . Now she wants divorce , and asks me to keep my girl in hostel if I want her in my life . This Ramayan has left me baffled , What should I do ??? .....
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
The reason to marry for you mainly has been companionship, a mother for your daughter...
And marriage is not a transaction BUT a meeting of minds...when there is no compatibility, there is no space for agreeing on the same things or wanting to make things work which is possibly what has happened with your 2nd and 3rd marriage.
If you want this marriage to work, there has to be an equal commitment by both of you, so, start by emotionally bonding first. Slowly build on this by making goals for the marriage and the future...your only goal can't be mother for your child...not all women are going to readily accept this and some may even falter along the way. Allow the lady and your daughter to bond together for sometime so they develop a unique relationship...
Understand that transactional relationships do not last; so, invest enough time in building trust in that companionship for it to become something meaningful

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Hello, I am 57 years working out of India and earning 35 lacs annually with PR of that country and having NRI FD of 3.5 crore and mutual fund of 20 lac and sip of 3lac per annum. I have own bungalow and flat in b town of Gujarat. My daughter went to U.S.A for master last year. I want to retire and want to enjoy rest of life exploring the world with wife. Please advise.
Ans: Your goal is clear—retirement and world travel with your wife. You have built a strong financial foundation. Now, structuring your investments for lifelong cash flow is important.

Assessing Your Current Financial Position
Income: Rs. 35 lakh annual income from work abroad.

Assets: Rs. 3.5 crore in NRI fixed deposits, Rs. 20 lakh in mutual funds.

Investments: SIP of Rs. 3 lakh per year.

Real Estate: Own bungalow and flat in Gujarat.

Family Responsibility: Daughter pursuing a master's degree in the U.S.A.

Retirement Goal: Financial independence and world travel.

Key Challenges in Retirement Planning
Cash Flow Management: Ensuring a steady income for expenses.

Inflation Risk: Expenses will rise over time, reducing purchasing power.

Investment Growth: Maintaining and growing wealth to last a lifetime.

Liquidity Needs: Quick access to funds for travel and emergencies.

Tax Efficiency: Minimizing tax burden on withdrawals.

Retirement Corpus Planning
1. Estimating Annual Expenses
Consider monthly lifestyle costs, medical expenses, and travel budgets.

Account for inflation, as costs will rise over time.

Keep an emergency fund to handle unexpected expenses.

2. Generating Regular Cash Flow
Fixed Deposits (FDs): Provide safety but lower returns after tax.

Systematic Withdrawal Plan (SWP): Ideal for steady monthly income.

Dividend-paying Mutual Funds: Useful for passive cash flow.

Corporate Bonds: Can provide stable interest income.

Optimizing Your Investment Portfolio
1. Reducing FD Dependence
Rs. 3.5 crore in FDs is too high. Interest rates may not beat inflation.

Shift a portion into mutual funds with a mix of equity and debt.

Debt mutual funds can provide stability with better tax efficiency.

2. Equity Exposure for Growth
Equity is necessary for long-term wealth growth.

Consider large-cap and multi-cap mutual funds for stability.

Keep a portion in international funds for global exposure.

3. Debt Investments for Stability
Short-term debt funds are good for liquidity.

Corporate bond funds can offer better returns than FDs.

Select tax-efficient debt instruments for fixed income.

Funding Your Travel Goals
Create a dedicated "Travel Fund" for expenses.

Use SWP from mutual funds to generate travel cash flow.

Avoid dipping into principal amount to maintain financial security.

Tax Planning for Retirement
1. Taxation on Withdrawals
SWP from equity mutual funds attracts LTCG tax after Rs. 1.25 lakh gains.

Debt fund withdrawals are taxed as per income slab.

Optimize withdrawals to reduce tax burden.

2. NRI Tax Considerations
Check tax liabilities in India and your resident country.

Double taxation treaties can help reduce excess taxation.

Plan withdrawals carefully to avoid tax inefficiencies.

Estate Planning and Succession
Create a will for asset distribution.

Nominate beneficiaries in mutual funds and FDs.

Consider gifting assets to your daughter for tax benefits.

Final Insights
Reduce FD dependency and shift towards mutual funds.

Maintain a balance between equity and debt investments.

Structure cash flow using SWP and tax-efficient investments.

Plan withdrawals wisely to minimize tax impact.

Set aside a dedicated travel fund for world exploration.

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is right time to invest in mutual funds short term
Ans: Your question on short-term mutual fund investment is important. Let’s assess if this is the right time and how to approach it.

Understanding Short-Term Investments in Mutual Funds
1. Market Conditions and Short-Term Investments
The Indian stock market is currently experiencing volatility.

Global economic uncertainties and interest rate policies are influencing market movements.

Short-term investments depend on market cycles and liquidity needs.

If invested for a short period, market timing plays a crucial role.

2. Risk vs. Reward in Short-Term Investing
Short-term mutual fund investments carry risks due to market fluctuations.

Equity funds may not be ideal for short-term goals due to volatility.

Debt funds can provide stability but may have lower returns than equities.

Risk assessment is necessary before investing for the short term.

3. Ideal Fund Categories for Short-Term Investment
Ultra-short duration funds: Suitable for 3–6 months with lower risk.

Short-duration funds: Ideal for 1–3 years with moderate risk.

Liquid funds: Best for parking surplus funds for a few months.

Corporate bond funds: Offer slightly higher returns but come with credit risk.

Key Factors to Consider Before Investing
1. Investment Horizon
Define the exact period you wish to stay invested.

If less than one year, avoid equity mutual funds.

If 1–3 years, prefer high-quality debt funds.

2. Liquidity Needs
Short-term investments should be easily accessible when needed.

Debt mutual funds offer better liquidity than FDs for short-term goals.

Exit loads and redemption timeframes should be checked before investing.

3. Taxation Impact on Returns
Debt mutual fund gains are taxed as per your income slab.

Short-term capital gains (STCG) on equity funds are taxed at 20%.

Consider post-tax returns while comparing investment options.

Evaluating Alternatives for Short-Term Investments
1. Fixed Deposits vs. Debt Mutual Funds
Bank FDs provide fixed returns but may have lower post-tax returns.

Debt mutual funds offer flexibility and tax-efficient returns.

FDs may be suitable if interest rates remain high.

2. Arbitrage Funds for Short-Term Investment
Arbitrage funds invest in equity but work like debt funds in terms of risk.

Tax-efficient for holding periods beyond one year.

Suitable for those seeking stability with slightly better returns than FDs.

Final Insights
Short-term mutual fund investments require careful selection based on the time horizon.

Debt funds are better suited for stability, while arbitrage funds offer tax efficiency.

Consider liquidity, taxation, and risk factors before investing.

Market fluctuations can impact short-term returns in equity funds.

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Dear Sir, I am 55-year-old corporate executive working in Delhi NCR. I own 3 house properties amounting to approx. INR 4 crores. Apart from these, I have PF of 45 lacs, PPF of 32 lacs, NPS of 40 lacs. I also have around INR 32 lacs in MFs & Equity, 30 lacs in FDs. My first child is studying engineering for which the expenses are around INR 2.5 lacs per annum while my second child would be going to college from next year. My monthly expenses are around 2 lacs. Am I in a position to retire ? Regards, SB
Ans: You have built a strong financial foundation with investments across multiple assets. Your key concern is whether your corpus can sustain your post-retirement lifestyle. Below is a detailed evaluation of your financial position.

Current Financial Position
Liquid Assets (Available for Retirement)
Provident Fund (PF) – Rs. 45L

PPF – Rs. 32L

NPS – Rs. 40L

Mutual Funds & Equity – Rs. 32L

Fixed Deposits – Rs. 30L

Total Liquid Assets = Rs. 1.79 Cr

Illiquid Assets (Not Considered for Regular Retirement Income)
Three House Properties – Rs. 4 Cr (Not included in the retirement corpus)

Liabilities and Key Expenses
Child 1 Education – Rs. 2.5L per annum (Few years remaining)

Child 2 College Fees – Future cost needs to be set aside

Monthly Household Expenses – Rs. 2L (Post-retirement, this will continue)

Key Factors for Retirement Decision
1. Corpus Required for Retirement
Your monthly expense is Rs. 2L, meaning Rs. 24L per year.

Inflation will increase this every year.

Your investments should generate income without depleting the principal too soon.

2. Children's Higher Education
Your elder child is already in college.

Your younger child will start college next year.

Education costs will impact your retirement savings.

3. Passive Income from Investments
Your NPS will provide a pension, but a portion must be annuitized.

PPF and PF can be used for systematic withdrawals.

FDs provide low returns and are taxable.

Mutual funds and equity investments can generate better returns with a structured withdrawal plan.

4. Withdrawal Strategy for Sustainability
Your corpus should last for at least 25-30 years after retirement.

Withdrawals should be planned to reduce tax impact.

A Systematic Withdrawal Plan (SWP) from mutual funds can provide regular cash flow.

Are You Ready to Retire?
Scenario 1: If You Retire Now (55 Years Old)
Your liquid assets may not sustain a Rs. 2L monthly expense for 30+ years.

Education expenses will add financial pressure.

You will need higher growth investments to support long-term needs.

Scenario 2: If You Work for 3-5 More Years
Your corpus can increase by Rs. 1.5 Cr - Rs. 2 Cr, strengthening financial security.

You can fully fund children's education before retirement.

Your investments will have a longer growth period before withdrawals begin.

You will have a better buffer against inflation and unexpected expenses.

Retirement Plan Recommendations
1. Postpone Retirement for 3-5 Years
This will ensure a more secure retirement.

Your corpus will have more time to grow.

2. Adjust Investment Portfolio for Stability
Increase exposure to balanced and hybrid funds.

Reduce dependency on FDs, as they provide low post-tax returns.

Retain some equity investments for long-term growth.

3. Secure a Tax-Efficient Withdrawal Plan
Plan gradual withdrawals from PF, PPF, and mutual funds.

Use Systematic Withdrawal Plans (SWP) to maintain tax efficiency.

Consider phased NPS withdrawals to manage tax liability.

4. Reassess Expenses and Future Goals
Reduce discretionary expenses if required.

Ensure you set aside emergency funds for health and other needs.

Maintain adequate health insurance to prevent medical expenses from impacting retirement savings.

Final Insights
Retiring now may put pressure on your finances due to education costs.

Working for 3-5 more years can improve financial stability.

A structured withdrawal plan will ensure your corpus lasts for 30+ years.

Investment allocation should be adjusted for a mix of growth and stability.

A well-planned retirement ensures financial freedom without compromising lifestyle.

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Sir, When is Indian market is expected to reach level of 80k? And presently what should I do with my MF investment? Pls. Advise.
Ans: Your question about the Indian stock market reaching 80,000 and your mutual fund investments is timely. Let’s analyze these aspects in detail.

Indian Stock Market Outlook
Current Market Scenario
The Indian stock market has seen fluctuations in recent months.

Major indices have experienced corrections due to global and domestic economic factors.

Factors such as inflation, interest rate changes, and geopolitical uncertainties have impacted investor sentiment.

Market corrections are a normal part of the growth cycle. These phases often present opportunities for long-term investors.

Foreign Investment Trends
Foreign investors have been pulling funds from Indian equities, shifting towards other emerging markets.

This withdrawal impacts liquidity, leading to short-term market volatility.

However, India remains a strong long-term investment destination due to economic growth and policy reforms.

As global economic conditions stabilize, foreign investments are expected to return to India.

Factors That Can Drive Sensex to 80,000
Corporate Earnings Growth: The stock market moves in sync with earnings growth. If Indian companies show strong earnings, the Sensex will rise.

GDP Growth & Economic Policies: A growing economy and pro-business policies will attract investments.

Domestic Institutional Investors (DII) Activity: Strong DII participation can balance out foreign investor exits.

Interest Rate Movements: Lower interest rates make equities more attractive.

Sectoral Growth: Growth in banking, technology, manufacturing, and consumption sectors will push the market higher.

Projected Timeline for Sensex at 80,000
Some analysts predict the Sensex could reach 80,000 within the next 12–18 months, provided corporate earnings continue to grow.

However, markets do not move in a straight line. There will be corrections and consolidation phases before hitting new highs.

Investors should focus on long-term wealth creation rather than short-term market levels.

What Should You Do With Your Mutual Fund Investments?
1. Maintain a Long-Term Perspective
Market fluctuations are normal. Staying invested for the long term ensures you benefit from compounding.

Short-term volatility should not impact long-term wealth-building strategies.

2. Continue SIPs Consistently
Systematic Investment Plans (SIPs) help in averaging costs and reducing risk.

Market corrections provide an opportunity to buy more units at lower prices.

Stopping SIPs due to market declines can reduce long-term wealth potential.

3. Diversify Across Categories
Avoid overexposure to any single category of mutual funds.

Ensure a balance between large-cap, mid-cap, and small-cap funds.

Consider sectoral and thematic funds only if they align with your financial goals.

4. Rebalance Your Portfolio Periodically
Review your portfolio every 6–12 months to ensure alignment with financial objectives.

Rebalancing helps maintain the right asset allocation between equity, debt, and other instruments.

Exit underperforming funds and shift to better-performing ones.

5. Taxation Considerations
Long-term capital gains (LTCG) from equity mutual funds above Rs. 1.25 lakh are taxed at 12.5%.

Short-term capital gains (STCG) are taxed at 20%.

Debt fund gains are taxed as per your income slab.

If planning to withdraw, consider tax implications to optimize post-tax returns.

6. Avoid Emotional Decision-Making
Market sentiment changes rapidly. Avoid panic-selling during corrections.

Stick to a disciplined approach based on financial goals rather than reacting to short-term market movements.

If needed, consult a Certified Financial Planner for strategy adjustments.

Final Insights
The Sensex reaching 80,000 is a possibility, but the exact timeline is uncertain.

Focus on long-term wealth creation rather than short-term index movements.

Continue SIPs, diversify your portfolio, and review investments regularly.

Avoid emotional reactions to market volatility.

A structured investment approach will yield better results over time.

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Asked by Anonymous - Mar 18, 2025Hindi
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I am 46 male working as a senior manager in IT with a corpus of 3.2Cr in MF, 80lacs in EPF, 2 individual house in Chennai with a value of 3 to 3.5Cr and a farm house of 50lacs near Chennai. I feel i should only consider my liquid assets for mt retirement not taking immovables ones. I have 2 Sons elder getting in to College this year (Planned around 30lacs) and younger one is in 07th Grade. I wanted to work for another 4 to 5 yrs to add another 3Cr to my corpus. Please let me know when is the right time to hang my boots.
Ans: You have a strong financial base with liquid assets and real estate. Your mutual funds and EPF together total Rs. 4 Cr. Your properties have an estimated value of Rs. 4 Cr. You plan to add Rs. 3 Cr in the next 4-5 years. You also have planned Rs. 30L for your elder son’s education.

Your key focus is on achieving financial independence and deciding when to retire.

Key Factors to Consider for Retirement
1. Corpus Required for Retirement
Your monthly expenses after retirement will define the required corpus.

Inflation will increase expenses every year.

Post-retirement, your investments should generate stable income.

2. Children’s Education and Other Goals
You have planned Rs. 30L for your elder son’s college.

Your younger son will need funds for higher education in 5-7 years.

Future expenses should be set aside before retirement.

3. Passive Income Post-Retirement
Your investments should generate a steady cash flow.

Withdrawals should be planned to last throughout retirement.

Avoid excessive withdrawals in early retirement years.

4. Investment Strategy for the Next 4-5 Years
Your goal is to add Rs. 3 Cr to your corpus.

Investments should balance growth and stability.

Asset allocation should be adjusted gradually.

Detailed Retirement Strategy
1. Segregate Retirement Corpus and Goal-Based Funds
Keep separate investments for children’s education and retirement.

This avoids disruptions in retirement planning.

Ensure liquidity for major expenses before retirement.

2. Adjust Investment Strategy for Stability
Move some funds to balanced and flexi-cap categories.

Reduce exposure to high-risk sectoral funds.

Increase allocation to investments providing consistent returns.

3. Systematic Withdrawal Plan (SWP) for Retirement Income
Plan an SWP strategy for monthly withdrawals.

Ensure withdrawals do not deplete the corpus early.

Diversify withdrawals from equity, debt, and hybrid funds.

4. Tax-Efficient Retirement Withdrawals
Minimise capital gains tax while withdrawing funds.

Use long-term equity taxation rules for mutual funds.

Plan withdrawals to stay in a lower tax bracket.

5. When Should You Retire?
You can retire when your retirement corpus can sustain expenses.

If your passive income covers 100% of expenses, you are ready.

Working for 4-5 more years will increase financial security.

6. Consider Health and Emergency Funds
Ensure adequate health insurance coverage.

Keep an emergency fund to cover unexpected medical costs.

Avoid withdrawing retirement funds for emergencies.

Final Insights
Your financial position is strong for retirement planning.

Continue investing for 4-5 years to reach Rs. 7 Cr corpus.

Set aside funds for education and emergencies before retirement.

Plan for tax-efficient withdrawals after retirement.

Ensure your portfolio has growth and stability for long-term security.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

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