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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Apr 18, 2023

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Question by M. on Apr 17, 2023Hindi

Relationship

Marriage ceremony was performed with the consent of girl & her parents family, after a month girl refused to come back and went with another boy. What action should be taken in this regard.

Ans: Dear M,
Most likely the girl was forced into this marriage and she found a way out and went with another boy. What can you do? The one thing that you can do is request the girl's family to return anything that you have given to the girl during the marriage as it makes no sense letting it be with them.
Besides that, if you think that there is any legal battle that you want to get into, consult a legal expert who will guide on this appropriately. Frankly, other than getting back the assets you gave the girl seems to be the only thing here; other than that indulging into a legal tussle will drain you off money and your peace of mind.

All the best!

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Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Either your family sees her as someone who wants family approval and be happy with it OR you can doubt her as someone who has managed to cheat your son.
Which of it is true, only time will tell...Your son is blinded by love...how can you appeal to him? What can you say that will make him realize that he possibly can be cheated?
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Ans: Dear Vijay,
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Hi, ma'am my GF told her parents last 4 months but still not agreeing for our marriage and 2 days ago she was beaten a lot by her mother and father..and they sent her to the village to her relatives and they also took her mobile phone and now we are not getting in touch so what should we do now?

Ans: Dear Akshay,
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