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M. Question by M. on Apr 17, 2023Hindi
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Marriage ceremony was performed with the consent of girl & her parents family, after a month girl refused to come back and went with another boy. What action should be taken in this regard.

Ans: Dear M,
Most likely the girl was forced into this marriage and she found a way out and went with another boy. What can you do? The one thing that you can do is request the girl's family to return anything that you have given to the girl during the marriage as it makes no sense letting it be with them.
Besides that, if you think that there is any legal battle that you want to get into, consult a legal expert who will guide on this appropriately. Frankly, other than getting back the assets you gave the girl seems to be the only thing here; other than that indulging into a legal tussle will drain you off money and your peace of mind.

All the best!

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Hi, my only son aged 27yrs is in relationship with a girl aged 22yrs and she kept him as guarantor in her home loan of 20 lacs and took personal loan of 5 lacs from my son (which he took from NBFC and gave it to her). This all done without informing any of us in our family. She is from other state and she donot have any family members except her single mom. We have undivided family with conservative mind set. Our family members are not willing to accept her in the family as she is taking undue advantage from my son and feels untrustworthy....We have clarified to my son that in such a scenario you have to choose her or us leaving behind everything including the ancestral property. His girlfriend is not accepting him this and told him that she will accept him only if our family members accepts her. This has chaos in our calm and cool nature of our home as our son is throwing the tantrums everyday and disturbing the mental peace of every member of our family. Please advice us what can be done in this scenario as none of our family members are willing to accept her and also not wanting to part away my only son. Thanking you
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Either your family sees her as someone who wants family approval and be happy with it OR you can doubt her as someone who has managed to cheat your son.
Which of it is true, only time will tell...Your son is blinded by love...how can you appeal to him? What can you say that will make him realize that he possibly can be cheated?
One way is to invite her to your home and ask her to come out clean about these money dealings and why your son chose to keep this information away from his family...If you are all convinced about her honesty, it will be easier to accept her into the family; otherwise there is a possibility that your son maybe able to see through her lies...
So, whether she is the right person for your son or not will be better known when you warmly invite her over and without any judgements give her a chance...making sense?

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