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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Nov 07, 2024

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Asked by Anonymous - Sep 17, 2024Hindi

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hi main 37 years ki hoon or mere 4 bachche h 16 saal meri shaadi ko ho gye h main shroo se he is shaadi main nhi rehna chahti mera pehla beta hua to mujhe lagaa sab thik ho jyega pr halat or kharab hone lage 1 saal 4 months ka beta tha to beti hogi Bete k hone k baad se mere husband ne mujhe marna shroo kr diya wo hr time mujh pr shaq krte h or tarah tarah k ilzam lagate h main finacially independent nhi hoon or na he wo mujhe bhar ja kr kaam krne dete h mere kafi baar suiside krne ka dil hota h pr main kr nhi pati plz batye kya karun

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Jab haalaat theek na ho toh ya toh haalat ko sudhaaro ya khud ko haalat se nikalo...
Zindagi jeene ke liye hi di gayi hai...mushilein joh hain woh sirf hume aur mazboot banaate hain toh isliye isse peeche na chudaaye par yeh soche ke bacchon ke liye aap kya kar sakte ho, apne liye kya kar sakte ho...bhaagna nahin hai, mushkilon ko bhagaana hai!

All the best!
Anu Krishna
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Dating someone older than you is not the problem, but the fact that you are making major life decisions based on what he wants and doesn't want is concerning. I am guessing that you decided to not get married because he doesn't want it either. Is that fair to you? You yourself mentioned that you often feel lonely. Don't you think you deserve better? Don't you deserve someone who would love you and would like to spend the rest of their life with you? Please reconsider this relationship. Speak to your partner and ask him what his plans are for the future. Does he want to settle down with you? How will you two continue this relationship in the future? There are many important questions that need answering. Sort them out and you will have the solution to your dilemma.

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