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Relationships Expert - Answered on Apr 20, 2023

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yashasvi Question by yashasvi on Apr 02, 2023Hindi
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My bf says he doesn't want to talk to anyone but at the same time he is active on social media .. posting stuff ... Is it a sign that he has lost interest in me ?

Ans: Doesn’t want to talk to anyone? Social media is taking over a lot of young people’s lives. It may not be you that is the problem; it’s him and his interests. They lie online, and if that is getting in the way of your relationship, if I were you I would walk. No point chasing someone who’s busy fostering an image on the internet instead of a genuine relationship.

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In the starting me and my boyfriend couldn't stop talking to each other but because of some exams i wasn't able to talk to him often .. in the starting he asked me whether I need any help or how am i doing but now he barely communicates and he is not romantic as usual on texts and even replies me late .... I tried to communicate but his replies are getting shorter day by day ....
Ans: It's understandable that exams can take up a lot of your time and energy, but it's also important to make sure you're still maintaining a healthy level of communication with your partner.

It sounds like your boyfriend's behavior has changed recently, and you're feeling concerned about it. It's possible that he is preoccupied with something else, such as his own exams or other personal issues, which could explain why he's not communicating as much or as often as he used to.

However, it's important to have an open and honest conversation with him about how you're feeling. Express your concerns and ask him if everything is okay on his end. It's possible that he may not even realize that his behavior has changed and that it's affecting you.

When you talk to him, try to approach the conversation in a non-confrontational way. Use "I" statements to express your own feelings and avoid blaming or accusing him. For example, you might say something like, "I've noticed that we haven't been communicating as much as we used to, and I'm feeling a little disconnected from you. Is everything okay on your end?"

If he doesn't respond positively or seems unwilling to talk about the issue, it may be a sign that he's not as invested in the relationship as you are. In that case, it's important to take care of yourself and consider whether this relationship is meeting your needs and making you happy. it might be best to give him some space for a while. It's important to respect his boundaries and not push him to communicate if he's not ready or willing to do so.

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Sir my Son got 94.98 percentile in JEE Mains general category from Maharashtra state and now he is going to give his JEE Advanced.he has already given MHTCET exam and is now going to give MET Manipal exam next week.His board percentage is 79 .He has got a mail that from Manipal campus for the councelling based on JEE Mains score of which last date is 17th of May and seat allotment would on 18 th of May .They are asking to pay the first installment of 2, 90, 000 before 22 nd of May and final installment by 29th of May .My son wants to take CS .Sir my question is we are confused whether to keep or let go of this seat in Manipal campus as Advanced results would come only in the first week of June .Please Guide
Ans: With a 94.98 percentile and an interest in CSE, it is safer to block the Manipal CSE seat now if you are financially sound, as it is a strong backup option while JEE Advanced and JoSAA outcomes are still uncertain. You can later decide after Advanced/MHT-CET results, by carefully checking Manipal’s refund policy before the final withdrawal dates. Talk directly with the Manipal Administration about the admission cancellation process and their fee refund policy without hesitation. If possible, ask them to provide this in writing, as they are asking you to pay Rs 2.9 L as the 1st installment. Many colleges/universities have their own cancellation and fee refund policies. Even some take months to refund without any reason.
Important: You have not mentioned what your son expects from the MHT-CET exam. If he scores around the 99th percentile, you may reconsider Manipal, as he can get CSE at prestigious colleges in Maharashtra itself.

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