Hi Anu, I have one question in mind need suggestion from you, please guide me.
I am 42 year old and married I have two kids as well. My married life is all good and peaceful and I love my family lot.
20 years ago when I was in college I was in love with a girl, she did not like me that time but from my side it was very pure love. I loved her so much.
She was aware of that. We lost touch in 2004. Now she is also 42 and married with two kids.
During Covid in 2020, we again got connected on LinkedIn and started talking. I expressed my love. she understood, respected and valued it now.
She is still waiting for someone else and doesn’t feel complete with me. She is honest about her feelings and communication.
She told me she considers me only as a friend but above all and everything in life.
But many times she shows love and lots of affection, caring attitude. She always says that I am more than anything else in life to her and she does not want to lose me as well.
She wants me to remain with her as she feels I am her strong support system.
She shares everything with me and I do the same. Sometimes I feel I shall come out from this but at times I feel I don’t want to leave her as she looks very depressed.
May be from her past break up or something else but I do not have the courage to ask her.
What shall I do here? Please guide. What is your best suggestion?

Ans: Hi Sathya,
Which branch have you joined, and which branch are you looking for?
Have you tried swab opportunities or not?
Kindly share the details so that I can suggest...

BEST WISHES.

Ans: Hi,

You have indicated that you are very good at math, but you haven't mentioned your strengths in biology. If you don't feel confident in biology, it may not be worthwhile to consider NEET (the National Eligibility cum Entrance Test).

Additionally, computer science is not the only course available after completing 12th grade with Physics, Chemistry, and Mathematics (PCM). There are many engineering courses to choose from. If you’re not well-versed in biology, it would be beneficial to focus on engineering to achieve your goals.

Even after completing an engineering degree, you can enter the medical field—not as a doctor, but in a technologist role. This is the right time to make your decision. If you need any further assistance, please feel free to reply to this message.
BEST REGARDS

Ans: Hi,
Hi, what are your future plans? Please share so I can suggest a solution for you.
best regards

Ans: Hi Barun,
What is your query? Please share full details so I can provide my comments.
BEST REGARDS

Ans: You already did many right things at a young age. Your savings show clear care for your family. Your goals also show deep clarity. I appreciate your intent to build a strong long-term plan. You already created a very good base. Now you only need one clear roadmap that links every asset and goal.

Your Present Strengths
Your savings show smart thinking.
Your mix of assets is already wide.
You built strong discipline at age 35.
You planned for both kids.
You hold equity, debt, PPF, SSY, and employer stock.
You also hold two apartments.
You already use insurance.
These things give you very strong base power.
This base helps you plan the next 25 to 40 years.
This base also helps control risk in your later years.
Many people start late.
You are far ahead of them.

» Your Key Family Goals
Your main goals are clear.
You aim for kids’ education.
You aim for retirement.
Clarity like this helps a lot.
Your goals are long term.
Long term goals need stable plans.
Stable plans grow well with time.
You also want to manage liabilities.
This is also important.
Good planning here gives peace.
Your present age offers long compounding time.

» Understanding Your Current Assets
Let me read your assets with a calm view.

– You have two apartments. One is debt-free. One has Rs 21 lakh loan.
– You have Rs 36 lakh in mutual funds. You hold direct plans.
– You have Rs 5 lakh in stocks.
– You have Rs 40 lakh in PPF.
– You have SSY for elder daughter.
– You have employer RSU holding of around Rs 65 lakh.
– You have health insurance.

Your position is strong but not balanced.
Your money is not fully aligned with your goals yet.
A structured plan from now will bring strong clarity.

» Why Direct Mutual Funds May Not Suit Long-Term Family Goals
You hold direct mutual funds now.
Direct funds look cheaper.
But they need deep monitoring.
They need review of risk shifts.
They need review of performance cycles.
They also need sharp discipline during bad years.
Many investors lack time for such review.
Direct funds also offer no handholding.
You face all stress alone.
You also manage fund moves alone.
Wrong timing moves hurt long-term wealth.
Direct funds many times lead to wrong exits.
Direct funds can also lead to poor rebalancing.
These issues reduce your long-term wealth.

Regular funds through an MFD with CFP credential help reduce these risks.
You get structured reviews.
You get expert rebalancing.
You get behavioural guidance.
You get allocation support.
You get peace.
This support reduces mistakes.
Fewer mistakes mean more wealth for your family.

» Why Actively Managed Funds May Suit You Better
Your equity plan is long term.
Actively managed funds can adjust to market cycles.
They move between sectors.
They help lower downside risk in tough phases.
They seek better alpha.
Index funds cannot do this.
Index funds stay fixed.
Index funds buy both good and weak companies.
Index funds hold stressed sectors also.
Index funds give no flexibility.
Index funds also see high concentration risk in some indices.
Your goals need more smart risk control.
Actively managed funds help you do that.
This can improve long-term results.

» Reading Your Liabilities
Your only major loan is Rs 21 lakh.
This is not high for your income stage.
The key part is to keep EMI smooth.
Avoid pushing too fast.
Do not break your investment flow.
A balanced EMI and SIP mix works best.

» Kids’ Education Planning
You have two daughters.
Their costs rise with inflation.
This means you need long-term systematic plan.
These actions help:

– Keep SSY for elder daughter.
– Start one systematic plan for younger daughter also.
– Use mix of equity and debt for both.
– Use PPF partly for long-term support.
– Keep regular contributions small but steady.

This steady effort matters more than big jumps.
Kids’ education goals need at least 10 to 15 years.
So use mostly equity for growth.
Use a small part in debt for stability.

» Retirement Planning Strategy for You and Your Spouse
You have long time left to retirement.
This time gives power to equity allocation.
You also have PPF.
PPF adds safety.
Your retirement plan must cover 15 to 20 years of post-retirement life.
This needs inflation-adjusted planning.

Use these steps:

– Keep part of portfolio in actively managed equity funds.
– Keep debt for safety, not for returns.
– Continue PPF to add more secure base.
– Reduce exposure to employer stock slowly.
– Do not depend on employer stock for retirement.
– Build a separate retirement portfolio with strong diversification.

Retirement must not depend on one risky asset.
Retirement must not depend only on equity.
Retirement must not depend only on debt.
Use mix.
Use rebalancing.
Use review.

» Understanding Risk in Employer Stock Holding
You hold Rs 65 lakh in employer stock.
This is a big part of your wealth.
This creates concentration risk.
If the company faces issues, your wealth can fall.
You may switch jobs also.
So reduce this risk slowly.
Do not sell all at once.
Sell in small parts.
Shift the money to diversified funds.
This makes your long-term goals more safe.

» Your Real Estate Position
You already have two apartments.
Both are in Bangalore.
You do not need more property.
Real estate also locks money.
You already have enough exposure.
Future investments should not go into real estate.

» Building a Strong Asset Allocation Framework
A clear asset allocation gives you more clarity.
It helps your goals stay on track.
It also controls risk well.

Use these long-term steps:

– Give equity more share for growth.
– Give debt enough share for stability.
– Keep PPF as long-term safety tool.
– Keep kids’ education with separate planned buckets.
– Do not mix retirement and education funds.

Each goal gets its own plan.
This brings more order to your money.

» Systematic Investing for Smooth Growth
SIPs help you a lot.
You can use them to build each goal.
Use equity SIPs for long-term goals.
Use debt SIPs for stability.
Use slow and steady flow.
Try not to stop SIPs during market falls.
Falls help you buy cheap units.
Cheap units mean better long-term returns.

» Building Emergency and Protection Layers
Emergency fund is key.
Keep at least six months of expenses in safe place.
This protects your SIPs.
This also protects your long-term goals.
You already have health insurance.
Keep it updated.
Health costs can disrupt your plans.
Insurance helps avoid that.

» 360 Degree View of Your Full Plan
Your whole plan must work like one system.
Each goal must connect to proper assets.
Your loans must fit your cash flow.
Your savings must match your risk ability.
Your insurance must protect your savings.
Your kids’ plan must not disturb retirement.
Your retirement plan must not disturb kids’ plan.
Your portfolio must stay calibrated.
Your funds must stay reviewed.
Your behaviour must stay calm.
This is the real 360 degree planning.

A Certified Financial Planner helps align all of these.
This gives you one clear map for all goals.

» How to Work With a Certified Financial Planner
A Certified Financial Planner studies your goals.
The planner studies cash flow.
The planner reads your behaviour pattern.
The planner checks your risk level.
The planner designs asset allocation.
The planner selects right categories for you.
The planner reviews your plan each year.
The planner adjusts your portfolio when needed.
You get a complete service, not only fund selection.
You get a whole plan for your family.

» Why a Certified Financial Planner Adds Great Value
A planner helps avoid emotional mistakes.
Such mistakes reduce wealth.
A planner helps with rebalancing.
Rebalancing is key for safety and returns.
A planner handles asset mapping.
A planner keeps all goals aligned.
A planner helps you plan taxes.
A planner gives holistic guidance.
A planner gives discipline.
Discipline builds wealth.

A planner also tracks fund cycles.
A planner guides during market noise.
A planner keeps your plan steady.

This support helps your family’s long-term safety.

» Cash Flow Restructuring for Your Case
You have loan EMI.
You have investments.
You have kids’ expenses.
You need a clean cash flow map.
Use these steps:

– Fix monthly SIPs first.
– Keep EMI below safe limit.
– Keep emergency fund safe.
– Keep kids’ plan steady.
– Keep retirement SIP steady.
– Do not dip into long-term investments.

This pattern builds strong wealth.

» Insurance and Risk Protection
Health insurance is good.
But check if coverage is large enough.
Health costs grow each year.
A good health cover saves you from big shocks.

Also check life cover.
It must match income and goals.
Life cover must protect your family if something happens.
Do not use investment-linked policies.
Pure term cover is better.
It is simple.
It is clear.
It protects well.

» Tax Planning Across Assets
Use tax benefits from PPF.
Use tax benefits from SSY.
Use tax benefits from home loan.
Use long-term gains wisely when selling funds.

New tax rules apply:
Equity LTCG above Rs 1.25 lakh is taxed at 12.5%.
Equity STCG is taxed at 20%.
Debt funds are taxed as per your slab.

Plan sales with help of a Certified Financial Planner.
This helps keep taxes low.

» Finally
You already built a strong base.
You only need refined structure now.
Your goals are clear.
Your family needs long-term safety.
Your savings can meet those goals.
You need right alignment.
You need right fund mix.
You need expert review.
You need behavioural guidance.
These steps take you to peace and stability.

A Certified Financial Planner helps you bring all parts together.
This gives you a 360 degree family solution.
This gives you clarity for many years.
This gives your kids secure paths.
This gives you and your spouse a calm retired life.

You already have good strength.
With the right planning guidance, you can move even faster.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in

https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

Ans: With your son's impressive 85-95 percentile performance in school exams, he possesses competitive academic foundation for pursuing Computer Science Engineering in premier Gujarat institutions through JEE Main 2026 or GUJCET pathways, both of which accept Gujarat board qualifications without additional eligibility complications. Computer Science Engineering represents India's highest-demand technical field through 2030, driven by exponential growth in artificial intelligence, machine learning, cybersecurity, cloud computing, and emerging quantum technologies—sectors projected to generate 350,000+ new positions annually. AI/ML integration is becoming mandatory across all software roles, with cybersecurity, cloud architecture (AWS/Azure/GCP), blockchain technology, and edge computing emerging as critical skill sets commanding premium salaries. His 85-95 percentile trajectory suggests realistic targeting of mid-tier to premium government colleges if sustained through 12th board exams and JEE Main preparation, requiring approximately 150-200+ marks (corresponding to 75-95 percentile in JEE Main) for securing CSE seats in top-tier government institutions. Admission pathways include: JEE Main Score (for IITs, NITs, IIITs nationwide), GUJCET Score (for select Gujarat government/private institutions), or GUJCET for alternative colleges. Eligibility mandates minimum 45% aggregate in 12th Science (Physics, Chemistry, Mathematics) for general category, with no JEE Main appearing percentage barrier despite popular misconceptions. Top government colleges (IIT Gandhinagar, SVNIT Surat, LDCE Ahmedabad) offer affordability (INR 80,000-2,50,000 annually) with CSE BTech placement rates averaging 64-72%, while SVNIT specifically records CSE average compensation and highest package reaching 15.86 LPA and 62 LPA respectively (2024-2025). Nirma University and PDEU represent leading private options with CSE placement percentages 85-90% and competitive packages, though fees significantly higher (INR 10-15 lakhs annually). Top 5 Government Colleges: (1) IIT Gandhinagar—NIRF #1, highly selective, CSE ultra-competitive, average package approximately 18 LPA, placement 95%+, JEE Main ranks under 1,500 typical; (2) SVNIT Surat—NIRF #15, CSE placement 72%, average package 15.86 LPA, JEE Main CSE cutoff ranks 3,000-8,000; (3) LDCE Ahmedabad—Government prestigious college, CSE 68% placement, fees INR 90,000 annually, JEE Main cutoff flexible; (4) VGEC Ahmedabad—Established government institution, CSE strong, fees INR 7,500 annually, excellent value; (5) GEC Gandhinagar—Government option, CSE availability, fees INR 15,000 annually. Top 5 Private Colleges: (1) Nirma University, Ahmedabad—NIRF top-ranked private, CSE placement 85%+, average package 7.84 LPA, fees INR 10-12 lakhs; (2) DA-IICT Gandhinagar—Autonomous prestigious, CSE placement 90%+, average 17.10 LPA, fees INR 12 lakhs; (3) PDEU Gandhinagar—Strong infrastructure, CSE placement 75%, average package 6.75 LPA, fees INR 11 lakhs; (4) DDU Nadiad—Respected private, CSE 70% placement, affordable fees INR 5-6 lakhs; (5) CHARUSAT Anand—Quality academics, CSE good placement (~75%), moderate fees INR 8-9 lakhs. Backup Entrance Options Beyond GUJCET/JEE Main: BITSAT (for BITS Pilani campuses), VITEEE (for VIT Chennai/Vellore if willing to relocate), or direct institutional entrance tests (Nirma and PDEU accept both merit + entrance).? When time permits, explore the 'EduJob360' YouTube channel, which features comprehensive videos on JEE, GUJCET, and engineering college admission processes. All the BEST for Your Son's Prosperous Future!

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Ans: Ayush, Yes, you can apply for JEE Main Session 1 (registration deadline November 27, 2025) as General category and change to General-EWS during Session 2 correction window (expected February 2026), provided you obtain a valid EWS certificate by then. NTA explicitly allows category modification during Session 2 correction period if you possess valid documentation—specifically an EWS income and asset certificate issued after April 1, 2025, by competent authority (Tehsildar/District Magistrate). However, ensure your EWS certificate is ready before Session 2 registration opens (late January 2026) as category changes after correction window closes are strictly prohibited, even during JoSAA counselling. Apply for your EWS certificate immediately from district revenue authorities to avoid last-minute complications, as processing typically requires 10-15 days. Wishing you the very best for JEE Main 2026 and a prosperous future ahead!

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Ans: It's too early. ECE core subjects will start at 3rd semester.

Ans: For an EWS category student targeting Computer Science Engineering (CSE) in mid-tier NITs and IIITs through JEE Main 2026, the expected cutoff metrics based on the last two years' data (2024-2025) demonstrate realistic benchmarks for strategic preparation. The JEE Main 2025 qualifying cutoff for the EWS category established at 80.3830119 percentile (approximately 80 marks minimum) creates the foundational threshold, while actual NIT/IIIT admission cutoffs for EWS CSE range significantly higher. Mid-tier NIT CSE admissions for EWS candidates typically close between ranks 8,000-15,000, translating to approximately 155-170 marks out of 300, representing 85-90 percentile range. For mid-tier IIITs like IIIT Gwalior, IIIT Kalyani, IIIT Allahabad, and IIIT Lucknow, EWS CSE cutoffs historically close around ranks 3,500-5,600, requiring approximately 150-165 marks (corresponding to the 82-88 percentile). IIIT Kalyani Round 6 (2025) data shows EWS CSE closing at rank 5,640 (approximately 165 marks); IIIT Gwalior EWS CSE closing around rank 8,200 (approximately 155 marks). Specific institution trends: NIT Warangal EWS CSE closing rank approximately 13,847, requiring ~165 marks; NIT Jaipur closing around rank 11,000, requiring ~160 marks; NIT Surathkal EWS CSE approximately rank 8,000-9,000, requiring ~160-165 marks. The 2024-2025 data consistently demonstrates EWS candidates securing mid-tier NIT/IIIT CSE seats with scores spanning 150-170 marks (82-90 percentile), suggesting a realistic target for 2026 preparation aligns with achieving 155-170 marks minimum (85-90 percentile equivalent). Competition intensity remains moderate-to-high for CSE branch; achieving marks above 170 provides a comfortable margin for premium mid-tier seat acquisition, while 150-155 marks offer realistic prospects in lower mid-tier institutions, with the EWS reservation advantage substantially improving admission probability compared to general category candidates requiring 20-30 additional marks for identical institution admission.? Important Disclaimer: The admission probability assessments provided are estimates based on historical data and should be considered indicative only. Opening and closing ranks experience annual fluctuations due to multiple dynamic factors including exam difficulty variations, candidate participation rates, performance distributions, institutional seat matrix adjustments, policy modifications in reservation criteria, evolving student preferences across disciplines, shifting institutional rankings, historical cutoff influences, economic trends affecting branch demand, increase/decrease in students' intake, and multi-round counselling processes.

Strategic Recommendation: Include as many institute-branch combinations as possible in JoSAA Counselling Process, beginning with your preferred options first. Also, to optimize your admission prospects, we strongly encourage maintaining a diversified application portfolio by preparing/appearing for 4-5 additional engineering entrance examinations for private institutions alongside JEE/JoSAA. This comprehensive approach ensures multiple pathways to quality engineering education beyond the highly competitive IIT/NIT/IIIT/GFTI ecosystem. All the BEST for Your JEE 2026 & for Your Prosperous Future!

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