Hi Anu, I have one question in mind need suggestion from you, please guide me.
I am 42 year old and married I have two kids as well. My married life is all good and peaceful and I love my family lot.
20 years ago when I was in college I was in love with a girl, she did not like me that time but from my side it was very pure love. I loved her so much.
She was aware of that. We lost touch in 2004. Now she is also 42 and married with two kids.
During Covid in 2020, we again got connected on LinkedIn and started talking. I expressed my love. she understood, respected and valued it now.
She is still waiting for someone else and doesn’t feel complete with me. She is honest about her feelings and communication.
She told me she considers me only as a friend but above all and everything in life.
But many times she shows love and lots of affection, caring attitude. She always says that I am more than anything else in life to her and she does not want to lose me as well.
She wants me to remain with her as she feels I am her strong support system.
She shares everything with me and I do the same. Sometimes I feel I shall come out from this but at times I feel I don’t want to leave her as she looks very depressed.
May be from her past break up or something else but I do not have the courage to ask her.
What shall I do here? Please guide. What is your best suggestion?

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Ans: Yes dietary and lifestyle management along with proper medication is very important!!

Incase of fasting, you need to do it under proper medical guidance!

Ans: - Avoid sugar, honey and jaggery in the diet
- Avoid coconut water, fruit juice and sugarcane juice
- Include protein with every meal(milk, curd, eggs, chicken, fish)
- Early dinner
- Quality sleep
- manage stress

Ans: Please see a Diabetologist!
You will require medicine support along with dietary and lifestyle changes!

Ans: You're doing well. At this point, I recommend maintaining regular visits to your doctor to monitor your heart and blood pressure status.

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Ans: It is high. Need to find the cause and correct it.