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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Jun 09, 2024

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Question by Ashok on Jun 07, 2024Hindi

Relationship

Dear sir I am 75 and my wife who is 70 still needs my physical touch which is bit difficult as per age, hormones doesn't attract. She is annoyed what to do ?

Ans: Dear Ashok,
What hormones do you need to hug your wife?
Physical touch need not just be the one leading to sex but there are other physical forms of intimacy like a tight hug or a peck on the cheek that are not defined by hormones...

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I am 64 and my wife 60 yrs of age . I want frequent sex twice a week and she is not even interested once a week. I am getting disturbed and effects my behaviour & day to day work. Her reason is we are old now. How to handle this . For me ageing years are the number only and old word is in our mental state only.

Ans: Dear Chaman,
As men and women age, they vary in terms of sexual interest.
She may not be interested as she does not feel the urge anymore. It could be because of natural physiological changes in a woman AND/OR a belief system that she holds which tells her that as people become OLD, sex is taboo!
Which means if you keep insisting, she will keep refusing. Have a chat with her about it without intense focus on sex but more with an intent of reconnecting with her in love.
I can't promise you that she will be ready BUT you can try. And if it comes to a place where she absolutely does not want sex, then you will have to respect it. Old beliefs are hard to drop!
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Asked by Anonymous - Sep 19, 2023Hindi

I'm 60 yrs old & my wife is 54 years old. We are married for 33 years now and have 2 grown-up children. My wife was always having less interest towards the physical relationship. She had lost further interest since last 10 years and totally stopped since last 6 years. She sleeps in a sperate room to avoid any physical relationship. She always says we are too old for physical relationship and let us not do physical relationship now. I feel an urge to have a physical relationship atleast one a week and because of no relationship, I feel irritated and this is also effecting our general day to day relationship. Unfortunately she is not understanding this and is adamant. Please suggest what should to do to resolve this problem?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I think your query has been answered here:
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