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S.S.Gangwar Question by S.S.Gangwar on Apr 11, 2023Hindi
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मेरा भतीजा उम्र 35 ने प्रेम विवाह किया।बहुत चाहता है पत्नी को लेकिन बिना की कारण पत्नी को बहुत तकलीफ पंहुचाता है।बहुत मरता पीटता है।पत्नी छोड़ कर चली गई और कोर्ट में केस कर दिया।पति ने कोर्ट में पत्नी के खिलाफ एक शब्द भी नहीं बोला।कोर्ट में मिलते हैं तो पैसा कपड़े भी देता है।पत्नी को भी उससे लगाव है।पति उसको बहुत गिड़गिड़ाता है पत्नी भी मानती है पी हिम्मत नही कर पाती कि फिर नहीं मरेगा।केवल मारपीट के कारण दो जिंदगियां बर्बाद है।पत्नी ने पति को कोर्ट में कहा की आप साइको हो इलाज कराओ।क्या ऐसा इलाज संभव है।इसके लिए किस डॉक्टर के पास जाना चाहिए?

Ans: Dear SS,
Your nephew needs a good lesson on how to treat people and especially his wife.
Who gave him the right to hit her? Would he be willing to to allow anyone else to treat him the same way?
And when you say: It's only because of the beating that their marriage is destroyed; my question to you is: What else is there to talk about?

Your nephew needs some expert help where they will identify his core and deep issues that lead him to behave the way that he does. If his wife is interested in the marriage and he also wants to change his behaviour, please seek the help of a psychologist. If he continues this way, it is better his wife moves away and moves on.

All the best!

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we have 3 yrs of relationship and in that frm 2 yrs we are in long distance we have great bondings ,no issue on that but the major issue taht we have no future becos he belongs to bhramin family his family is very strict not accept intercaste marriage and also they dont want him to move out of house . right now he is pursuing mbbs and i am pursuing computer science . i live in bangalore as u know its tech hub and best place for me for career but he will make future in gujarat he is telling me to come over there after marriage still we have lot time to think but he dont want to hang me in middle of the situation as he is not able to promise me that he will make it work 100% . He now every time telling me ki if u come to gujarat then only it will work and convince his family and some time he tells me that even if u come their might be my parents not fully accept u and tell u something rudely and all stuffs as i belong to general and may be u will regret for ur career also . what should i do should i compromise my career and do remote job or stay in some small company just for him or otherwise leave him? even i have great fear of not getting any soulmate after this becos as my experiences my elder sisters and brothers are still dint get their perfect partners its hard to get married to unknown i know i am overthinking at this stage but am confuse. i also dont have much frnd to talk about my prsnl problems .its been 2 yrs i have been through my personal loss and family problems also some times i am in pain getting sucidal thoughts its not for the relationships .Please help me with this .
Ans: Tel him to step up as a man and decide. You don't need a soul mate. The one you are seeking is yourself. Choose to be financially strong..
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