Hello Jindal I am 46 Y old just lose my well paid job . Require your suggestion for continuous getting money from interest . I have 3 flats . First one is loan fee. Second one has 6 L loan remaining . 3 rd one has 1.18 Cr loan . I require 40 L for my daughter education 2024-2028 and require 40 L sone education 2028-2032.i also want 1 L per month now onwards for meeting daily needs.i have following investment. Mutual funds 14.5 L . FD 5 L Government Bond 10 L PPF wife 17.5 L PPF my self 7.5 L and othe nsc bond share 9 L . I will get approx 20 L from my employee and have 72 L in EPF and 4 L wife EPF. Please guide me . Should I sold my flat and pay out the loan of 1.18 Cr and move in same home . If I do then I left with 40 L .

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

What you are facing is very common. The first step is to remember that you are not alone. Even the best of us face it. Second, have you tried dating apps? There is no speaking face to face, which substantially helps with the nervousness. You can chat with people for days before you even decide to meet them in person. You can also attract the people who can perfectly match your vibe, making it easier for you to feel more comfortable and relaxed with them.

Other than that, here are few tips you can try-

Start small. Start with small talks. You don't need to have a full blown conversation in the very first attempt. Say Hi, smile, or ask her about her day. If you feel shy to speak, master the art of listening. Women love a man who can actively listen. Third, be genuine and be yourself. The more you pretend to impress a girl, the trickier it can be to keep up the act. Moreover, you will be preoccupied with your pretense and won't focus on the quality of the conversation. Be you. Fourth, learn from your experience. Good or bad, experiences can teach us a lot. Reflect on the past conversations; the ones that went well and ones that didn't. Identify what worked and what needs improvement. And lastly, be patient. Building confidence can take a while. Not all of us are naturally blessed with it. Some of us have to work for it. But in the end, it will be worth your while.

Best Wishes.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

I am sorry to hear about your breakup. It is also common to not be able to move on and go back to each other. It's about the comfort in familiarity. It does take time. But if you are serious about the breakup, you have to follow through. This 'break up and patch up' thing will only end up hurting you more. It always ends with one person moving on in the process and the other being stuck in a relationship that died long back.

You might have great bonding but that is no reason to set yourself up for inevitable pain. Please tread carefully.

Best Wishes.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

I am glad you found a genuine companion. I understand that you both care a great deal about each other and that is rare in today's day and age. Now coming to your questions-

1) It most definitely can. But that depends on the course of action your partner is willing to take. I assume that neither one of you would like to formally tag it as a relationship till she is married to another man, no matter how the marriage is. So, in that case, your partner must have a clear discussion about the same with her husband and you can proceed from there. But going ahead and having a romantic relationship while she is married to someone else would not be ethical and even when she has every right to seek happiness in her life, it would be her who faces all the societal judgment.

2) You can be two friends chatting with each other. Friends do share a lot, even personal matters. Having said that, it did not sound to me that you are in that platonic friend zone anymore. You have grown to like each other a little more and given the circumstances, it is perfectly alright. But to be more than friends, it is important for your partner to first speak to her current husband and consider separating. But at the end of the day, it is her decision. If she doesn't want to formally end it, you would have two options. One, love each other in secret and never have the chance to show off your love to the world. Two, break it off and either try to remain friends or sever ties altogether.

3) Don't have unrealistic expectations. We are all guilty of it time and again. In this case, even though her marriage isn't perfect- you know and she knows it too- it isn't easy to let go of a relationship people spend years to build. Take things slow and let her make her own decisions. If you expect she will leave her marriage for you, you are setting yourself up for disappointment. It might happen, but then again, it might not. Focus on being each other's companion. You can't help how you feel, but that does not mean you have to act on it right now.

One more thing- if you can see yourself getting hurt, I would suggest reconsidering the relationship. Every relationship has in its capacity to cause emotional trauma. That's the thing about romance- it can make or break you.

Best Wishes.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

You should be having sex only when you are ready for it. There is no rush. Don't give in to peer pressure if you do not want to get physically intimate right now. Moreover, doing something just for the sake of it or because everyone else is doing it makes it meaningless and that's not what you should be aiming for when it comes to any form of intimacy.

Best Wishes.

Ans: Given your aggressive investment approach and long-term horizon, your portfolio seems well-aligned with your risk appetite and goals. However, there are a few considerations to keep in mind:

Diversification: While small and mid-cap funds have the potential for high growth, they also come with increased volatility. Consider diversifying your portfolio by adding exposure to large-cap or multi-cap funds to balance risk.
Fund Selection: Review the performance and consistency of your existing funds regularly. Ensure they continue to meet your investment objectives and are managed by reputable fund houses with a proven track record.
Regular Monitoring: Stay informed about market trends, economic developments, and fund performance. Periodically review your portfolio and make adjustments as needed to optimize returns and manage risk effectively.
Increase SIP Amounts: As your income increases, consider gradually increasing the SIP amounts in your existing funds or adding new funds to accelerate wealth accumulation. However, ensure you maintain a disciplined approach and avoid overextending yourself financially.
Consider Professional Advice: Consulting with a Certified Financial Planner can provide personalized guidance and help fine-tune your investment strategy based on your specific goals, risk tolerance, and financial situation.
With disciplined investing, regular monitoring, and a well-diversified portfolio, you can work towards achieving your goal of building a corpus of 10 Cr.+ over the next 20 years.

Ans: It's impressive to see the diligence you've put into building a substantial corpus at the age of 33. Your commitment to systematic investing through SIPs and other avenues reflects a strong financial discipline. Let's delve into your portfolio to ensure it's aligned with your long-term goals and risk appetite.

Axis MF Bluechip: This fund focuses on large-cap stocks, offering stability and growth potential. It's a prudent choice for core equity exposure.
Axis Small Cap: Small-cap funds like this have the potential for high growth but come with higher volatility. Ensure you have a long investment horizon and risk tolerance for this category.
HDFC MF World: International funds like this provide diversification benefits by investing in global markets. However, be mindful of currency risk and volatility.
HDFC Retirement: Retirement-focused funds aim to generate wealth over the long term while managing risk. Ensure this fund aligns with your retirement goals and risk tolerance.
ICICI Floating Interest: Floating rate funds can provide protection against interest rate fluctuations. They are suitable for investors seeking stable income with lower interest rate risk.
ICICI India Opportunity: This fund focuses on Indian equities across market caps, offering diversification within the domestic market.
ICICI Value Discovery: Value-oriented funds like this invest in undervalued stocks with the potential for long-term growth. They can complement growth-oriented funds in a portfolio.
Mirae MF: Mirae Asset Mutual Funds offer a range of equity and debt funds known for consistent performance and strong fund management.
Nippon Small Cap: Small-cap funds offer the potential for high returns but come with higher risk. Ensure you have a long-term investment horizon and risk tolerance for this category.
NPS: Contributing to NPS is a tax-efficient way to build a retirement corpus. It's great that you're prioritizing retirement savings at a young age.
Parag Flexi Cap: Flexi-cap funds provide flexibility to invest across market caps based on market conditions. They offer diversification and growth potential.
PGIM Mid Cap: Mid-cap funds focus on stocks of mid-sized companies, offering higher growth potential than large caps but with higher risk.
Quant eTeck, Flexi-cap, Focused, Multi-cap: Quant funds use quantitative models to select stocks. They offer a systematic approach to investing but require monitoring and adjustment.
Tata MF Retirement: Retirement-focused funds aim to provide wealth accumulation and income generation during retirement. Ensure this fund aligns with your retirement goals.
Sovereign Gold Bonds (SGB): SGBs offer a convenient way to invest in gold with sovereign guarantee and fixed interest. They serve as a hedge against inflation and currency fluctuations.
PF + VPF: Contributing to PF and VPF is a prudent way to build a retirement corpus while enjoying tax benefits and employer contributions.
Recurring Deposit: RDs offer a safe and stable way to accumulate savings over time. However, consider exploring other investment options for potentially higher returns, especially for long-term goals.

but it's essential to streamline your portfolio for better management and effectiveness. Having too many schemes can lead to overlap and complexity, making it challenging to track performance accurately.

Consider consolidating your investments into a more focused selection of funds that cover different asset classes and investment styles. This consolidation will not only simplify monitoring but also reduce administrative hassle and potentially lower costs.

Start by identifying the core funds that align with your investment objectives and risk tolerance. Aim for a diversified portfolio that includes equity, debt, and other asset classes based on your financial goals and time horizon.

Review your existing holdings and gradually consolidate them into a more manageable number of funds. Focus on quality over quantity, choosing funds with a proven track record, strong fund management, and consistent performance.

Consulting with a Certified Financial Planner can provide valuable insights and guidance on restructuring your portfolio for optimal efficiency and effectiveness. They can help you identify redundancies, eliminate underperforming funds, and reallocate resources to maximize returns while minimizing risk.

By consolidating your investments, you'll not only simplify your financial strategy but also enhance your ability to achieve your long-term financial goals more effectively.

Ans: It sounds frustrating to have your PF withdrawal rejected for these reasons. Here's how you can address them and raise a grievance effectively:

1. Update Father's Name:

EPFO Portal: Log in to the EPFO member portal (https://www.epfindia.gov.in/) and check the 'Manage' section for updating your father's name. Ensure it matches your Aadhaar card or other official documents.
Document Submission: If the online option isn't available, submit a signed application form requesting a name change along with self-attested copies of documents proving the correct name (like Aadhaar, PAN card). You can submit these documents to your previous employer or the regional EPFO office.
2. Update Bank Details:

Cheque Book Name: If your name isn't printed on the cheque book, consider using a cancelled cheque from your bank account where your name appears clearly. This can be uploaded while refiling your withdrawal claim.
Bank Account Update: Double-check that the bank account details linked to your EPF account are accurate and match your bank passbook or statement.
3. Raise a Grievance:

EPFO Portal: The EPFO portal should have a dedicated grievance redressal section. Look for options like 'Raise Grievance' or 'Contact Us'. File a detailed grievance explaining the issue (mismatched name, rejection reason) and the steps you've taken (documents submitted, bank details updated).
Clear and Concise: Clearly state your EPF account number, the nature of the problem, and the corrective action you expect. Attach relevant documents if possible.
4. Follow Up:

Screenshot: While there might not be a confirmation email, take a screenshot of your submitted grievance for reference.
EPFO Helpline: Consider calling the EPFO grievance redressal helpline for further assistance. You can find the helpline number on the EPFO website.
Patience: Resolving discrepancies can take time. Follow up periodically through the portal or helpline to check the grievance status.
Additional Tips:

Maintain Records: Keep copies of all documents submitted and communication with EPFO for future reference.
Professional Tone: Maintain a professional and courteous tone when filing grievances or calling the helpline.
By taking these steps, you should be able to get your PF withdrawal processed smoothly. Remember, persistence and clear communication are key.

Ans: Congratulations on your recent marriage and your disciplined approach to investing. It's great to see that you're taking proactive steps towards securing your financial future. Let's review your investment strategy to ensure it aligns with your goals and objectives.

UTI Nifty Index: Investing in an index fund like UTI Nifty Index is a sound strategy for long-term wealth accumulation. It provides broad exposure to the Indian equity market and can help you benefit from overall market growth.
Parag Parikh Flexi Cap: This fund follows a flexible investment approach across market caps and geographies, which can potentially offer diversification benefits and downside protection during market downturns.
Quant Small Cap and Axis Mid Cap: Small and mid-cap funds have the potential for higher returns but also come with increased volatility. Ensure you have a long-term investment horizon and are comfortable with the associated risks.
Mirae Large and Mid Cap: Investing in large and mid-cap funds like Mirae Asset Large Cap Fund can provide stability and growth opportunities by investing in established companies with growth potential.
Franklin US Opportunities and Kotak Nasdaq 100: Investing in international funds like these can provide geographical diversification to your portfolio. However, keep in mind the currency risk and volatility associated with international markets.
SBI Gold Fund: Gold can serve as a hedge against inflation and currency fluctuations, offering stability during times of market uncertainty. However, it's essential not to overweight your portfolio with gold investments.
Direct Stocks: Investing in direct stocks requires thorough research and monitoring. Ensure you have a well-diversified portfolio and invest in companies with strong fundamentals and growth potential.
RD (Recurring Deposit): RDs offer a safe and stable way to accumulate savings over time. However, consider exploring other investment options that offer potentially higher returns, especially for long-term goals.
NPS (National Pension System): NPS is a tax-efficient retirement savings option that offers exposure to equity and debt markets. It's great that you're contributing to NPS to build a retirement corpus.
Overall, your investment portfolio appears well-diversified across asset classes and investment styles. However, it's essential to regularly review your portfolio's performance and make adjustments as needed based on changes in your financial situation and market conditions.

Additionally, consider establishing specific financial goals, such as retirement planning, buying a home, or saving for your children's education, and align your investments accordingly. Consulting with a Certified Financial Planner can provide personalized advice and help you optimize your investment strategy further.

Keep up the excellent work with your disciplined approach to investing, and don't hesitate to reach out if you have any further questions or need assistance.

Ans: Thank you for sharing your financial details with me. It's evident that you've been proactive in planning for your future and that of your family. Let's delve into your current situation and discuss your aspirations for your sons' education and your retirement.

Firstly, it's commendable that you have a diverse portfolio of investments, including mutual funds, PPF, NPS, and substantial savings in PF. Additionally, having term plans and health insurance provides essential protection for you and your family against unforeseen events, ensuring financial security.

Your real estate holdings, including land and flats, add another dimension to your asset portfolio. However, it's essential to consider the liquidity and potential maintenance costs associated with real estate investments.

Now, regarding your sons' education, it's thoughtful of you to plan for their future. Engineering education can indeed be a significant financial commitment, and it's essential to start preparing for it in advance. With your current savings and income, you should be able to cover their education expenses comfortably.

However, it's crucial to factor in inflation and any potential increase in education costs over the years. Regularly reviewing your financial plan with a Certified Financial Planner can help ensure you stay on track to meet your goals.

Looking ahead to retirement, your monthly expense estimate of Rs. 1 lac post-retirement is a helpful starting point for planning. With your current savings and investments, along with your pension and potential rental income from real estate, you seem to be on the right track to maintain your desired lifestyle post-retirement.

However, it's essential to consider factors such as inflation, healthcare costs, and any unexpected expenses that may arise during retirement. Regularly reassessing your retirement plan and adjusting it as needed will help ensure you're adequately prepared for life after work.

In conclusion, while your current savings and investments appear sufficient to meet your goals, it's essential to stay vigilant and adapt your financial plan as your circumstances evolve. Consulting with a Certified Financial Planner regularly can provide valuable guidance and peace of mind as you work towards achieving your financial aspirations.