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Which is the better college for me: CSE at IIIT Sri City, IIIT Una, IIIT Nagpur, or ECE at IIIT Guwahati?

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Radheshyam Zanwar is the founder of Zanwar Classes which prepares aspirants for competitive exams such as MHT-CET, IIT-JEE and NEET-UG.
Based in Aurangabad, Maharashtra, it provides coaching for Class 10 and Class 12 students as well.
Since the last 25 years, Radheshyam has been teaching mathematics to Class 11 and Class 12 students and coaching them for engineering and medical entrance examinations.
Radheshyam completed his civil engineering from the Government Engineering College in Aurangabad.... more
Ojaswi Question by Ojaswi on Jul 21, 2024Hindi
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What is better for cse IIIT sri city, IIIT una , IIIT nagpur or ECE at IIIT GUWAHATI

Ans: Preferences: IIIT Sri City, IIIT Nagpur, IIIT Guwahati, IIIT Una

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