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Career Counsellor - Answered on Nov 14, 2024

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Asked by Anonymous - Nov 14, 2024Hindi
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Respeted sir, I am a post graduate in computer science, aged 42 yrs,married trying to get a job preferably in IT as i have working experience of about 5 years.i had discontinued my job due to compelling family situations to take care of children. I am not getting any favorable response from any IT companies due to break iny carrer. Now i desperately need a job and still the hunt is going on. Kindly suggest and guide me to get a job as i am struggling to meet my commitments now. Your valuable help in this regard will be highly helpful. Thank you

Ans: Dear, the main problem is the discontinuation in your career and IT is an ever-changing field. It is not like Civil or Mechanical. Now it is an era of AI and Machine Learning. So I would suggest you to go for a good certification course of Data Science along with AI and Machine Learning from some good institute which is having collaboration with some reputed IIT. I am sure if your knowledge is upto the mark and matches with the need of the present day then certainly you will get a job. If you are not familiar with coding then please practise coding by seeing the videos in YOU TUBE for two months before joining the certificate course. Please follow me. Best of luck. MAY GOD BLESS YOU. Professor...............:)
Asked on - Nov 15, 2024 | Answered on Nov 15, 2024
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Thank you sir for your prompt and valuable guidance.let me try on the lines suggested by you. Regards S.Rengaraju
Ans: ALWAYS WITH YOU DEAR. JUST BE IN TOUCH IN ANY CAREER OR RELATIONSHIP RELATED PROBLEM. BYE AND BEST WISHES. Professor.................:)
Asked on - Nov 19, 2024 | Answered on Nov 19, 2024
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Dear sir, Good morning. Thank you for your wishes. As suggested by you,I have enrolled myself with an institute named as INTERNSHALA TRAINING, yesterday which imparts Data science 6 month course with guaranteed placement. They are based at Gurgaon.Their brochure explains all the details on the lines of your guidance to get a job at the present scenario. Kindly verify their credentials as we find now days,so many Fake companies are coming up in the education lines too,to cheat the public. Kindly inform me in this regard to pursue the course with much confidence and trust. Thank you. Regards. S.Rengaraju
Ans: It's great to know you just followed my counselling. Whether a institute is fake or not that can be very easily found from net by searching in Google about that institute. In that my help is not at all required. You are able and smart enough to do that. Please let me know once you are placed. MAY GOD BLESS YOU. Professor..................................:)
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My married ex still texts me for comfort. Because of him, I am unable to move on. He makes me feel guilty by saying he got married out of family pressure. His dad is a cardiac patient and mom is being treated for cancer. He comforts me by saying he will get separated soon and we will get married because he only loves me. We have been in a relationship for 14 years and despite everything we tried, his parents refused to accept me, so he chose to get married to someone who understands our situation. I don't know when he will separate from his wife. She knows about us too but she comes from a traditional family. She also confirmed there is no physical intimacy between them. I trust him, but is it worth losing my youth for him? Honestly, I am worried and very confused.
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