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Soft Skills Trainer - Answered on Jun 16, 2024

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An alumnus of the Xavier Institute of Management and Research, Mumbai, Maxim has over 30 years of experience in training young professionals and corporate organisations on how to improve soft skills and build interpersonal relationships through effective communication.
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Asked by Anonymous - Jun 09, 2024Hindi
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Hello, I hope you can help me out. This is aboit my boyfriend who just passed his 12th standard from MP board and is having severe health problems at the moment and even in his family his loved ones got operated recently so he has to look after them and even has to take of himself. And he thinks that he isn't capable enough to score 650+ in NEET 2025 exam. He really wanted to become a doctor. He told me that he is thinking about getting into civil line because now becoming a doctor seems impossible to him. What should he do?

Ans: Madam (Minor) ...better stay anonymous with your minor boyfriend, before you guy's invite trouble.

A perfect film script, dukh baree, underaged mohabath ki kahani.. So many problems and twists.

An ambitious plan without an action plan is like a cycle without peddle... Going nowhere!?

Both of you must get back to your studies, tell your boyfriend, to fend for himself.. Or his dreams won't be fruitful...yours too.. Where ever you are in MP, time to focus on your studies.

There's no quick fix on what should he do... If he wants you to do..!?

You said it.. Impossible.. Get rid of the nuisance, move ahead with your life.. Seriously!?
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