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Vaishnavi Question by Vaishnavi on May 27, 2024Hindi
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Hello madam I am currently studying bcom 2nd year I wanted to prepare for govt exams and also want to pursue my MBA masters I am not getting what should I do and I am also worried about my relationship will it will be a happy ending or not

Ans: I am sure you feel overwhelmed given the multiple priorities and uncertainties in your life right now

1. Research the specific government exams you want to prepare for (e.g., UPSC, SSC, banking exams, CAT, GMAT, MAT, etc.). Create a detailed study plan. Allocate specific times of the day or week for studying different subjects. Gather study materials such as books, online courses, and past question papers. Enroll in a coaching class if needed. Regularly take mock tests to assess your preparation and improve your time management skills.

2. Create a balanced schedule that allows you to prepare for both government exams and MBA entrance exams. Focus on time management and prioritize your tasks. Try to spend quality time with your partner. Even small gestures and regular check-ins can maintain the bond.

3. Have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your current stressors and goals. Ensure that both of you are on the same page regarding your future plans. Discuss how you can support each other during this challenging period. Mutual support can strengthen your relationship.

4. Be flexible and willing to adapt to changes. Life plans can evolve, and it’s important to be supportive of each other’s growth and development.

5. Find mentors or counselors who can provide guidance on your career path and personal life.
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hy i am neha. in 2018 i have completed my 12th after that i have done b.sc and after b.sc i took two years gap for gov prep , but i didnt able to clear any exam and after wasting two years i took admission in b.ed. i completed my b.ed in 2025. i took admission for m.sc in very good university but canceled my admission due to financial problem and i took admission nearby college. i am not finding this college good beacuse no classes no practical nothing cheating etc. i dont know what to do now. during my gtraduations i havent prepare for any exam. now i am thinking i should preparre for iit jam for m.sc but i dont think i can. i stay with my parents and they used shout on me everyday even for single thing. i feel like i have wasted my whole life and should die.
Ans: Neha, it sounds like you’ve been through a lot and are feeling deeply frustrated and hopeless right now. You’ve worked hard finishing your B.Sc. and B.Ed., trying for government exams, and still striving to continue your studies despite challenges. It’s completely understandable to feel lost when things don’t go as planned. But your life is not wasted. You’ve shown resilience, effort, and a desire to move forward, which are valuable strengths. Regarding your M.Sc. and IIT JAM, if that’s something you want, you can start slowly with small, daily goals instead of giving up before trying. And please, if you ever feel like you don’t want to live anymore, reach out for help immediately. You are not alone. You can contact AASRA or Snehi (phone numbers are available online). Talking to someone, friends, counselors, or helplines can truly help lighten the burden. You still have time and potential to build the life you want, one step at a time. Explore yourself and accept the challenging situation to come out successfully with silence. This is the perfect moment to prove yourself by overcoming difficult conditions.

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