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Help! My child is torn between Amity University Gurgaon and MIT WPU Pune for JEE prep in January 2025!

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My child is getting amity university gurgaon and mit wpu university pune and he will prepare for jee January 2025

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Hello sir, my son has secured 97.36 in JEE mains 2024. We belong to the OBC(NCL) category. Having chance to get CSE in top NITS and IIITs.
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Congrats to your Son for scoring 97.37 percentile in his JEE (Main).

Chances & Options for your Son Here:

1) As far as Top NITs are concerned, getting admission into the CSE Branch will be SLIGHTLY difficult.
2) As far as Tier 2 & Tier 3 NITs are concerned, chances are higher for your son to get a CSE Branch.
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Letting go is difficult, especially when you still have love for someone, but it’s a crucial step towards healing. Accepting that the relationship has ended and focusing on your future can help you find peace and eventually open the door to new possibilities for love and happiness.
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Thank you very much for ur reply. But i am finding difficult to forget her.
Ans: It might be helpful to focus on the following steps to move forward:

Acceptance: Accept that the relationship has ended and that continuing to hold on to it may be preventing you from healing. Acceptance doesn’t mean you have to stop loving her immediately, but it does mean recognizing that the relationship is no longer viable.
Self-Care: Prioritize your emotional well-being by engaging in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment. Surround yourself with supportive friends and family who can help you through this process. Consider exploring new hobbies or interests that can redirect your focus and bring positive energy into your life.
Boundaries: It might be time to set boundaries with your ex-wife, especially if staying in contact is causing you more pain. Taking a step back from communication can provide the space you need to heal and gain clarity.
Professional Support: Consider speaking with a therapist or counselor who can help you process your feelings and guide you through the healing journey. Professional support can offer valuable tools and strategies to navigate the complex emotions you’re experiencing.
Remember, healing takes time, and it’s okay to grieve the loss of the relationship. With patience and self-compassion, you can move forward, find peace, and eventually open yourself up to new possibilities and happiness in life.

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